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William “Billy” Duffy

May 8, 1942 ~ October 11, 2026


Resided in: Portland, ME

William “Billy” Duffy, 84, of Scarborough, passed away at home on October 11, 2026. Born in Portland on May 8, 1942, he was the son of Frank “Hutch” and Helen (Murphy) Duffy.

Billy grew up in Portland on Munjoy Hill and graduated from Portland High School, where he met his high school sweetheart, Dorothy “Dottie” Murphy. He went on to attend Maine Maritime Academy, graduating in 1966. On June 11, 1966, he married Dottie, beginning a family that would become the center of his life.

Following graduation, Billy embarked on a long and distinguished career as an engineering merchant marine. For 40 years, from 1966 until his retirement in 2006, he sailed the world’s oceans as a chief engineer aboard tankers.  Billy’s work took him around the globe and gave him a lifetime of stories from the sea. He was a man of remarkable intelligence and resourcefulness, with a wealth of knowledge and experiences that he was always happy to share.

Billy was also an entrepreneur. Together, he and Dottie owned and operated the Old Orchard House and Hotel and the Bastille Lounge in Old Orchard Beach. He later owned Duffy’s Pancake Kitchen & Bakery on Free Street in Portland from 1978 to 1992. No matter what he was doing, Billy brought his sharp mind, quick wit, and unmistakable personality to the table.

Known to nearly everyone as Duff, Billy was a man who could fix just about anything. He had a gift for woodworking and had his own shop in the garage, where he built birdhouses, decks, and countless other projects.

An avid golfer, Billy also loved music, especially Irish music, and enjoyed singing. He was a history enthusiast and a man with an impressive memory for details. He could recall the smallest parts of a story and had a deep understanding of the world around him. Intelligent, well-read, and an exceptional storyteller.

Above all, Billy loved his family. He took great pride in his family and cherished his time with them. Whether he was sharing a story, making someone laugh, or simply being there, Billy made an impression on everyone he met. His influence reached well beyond his immediate family; even those who were not related to him often called him Granddad.

Billy was predeceased by his beloved wife, Dorothy “Dottie” Duffy; his parents, Frank “Hutch” and Helen Duffy; and his brothers, Bobby and Jack Duffy.

He is survived by his children: Suzan Potito and her husband, Ken; Kathy Pappas and her husband, John; Bill Duffy and his wife, Kristin; and Maureen Duffy; grandchildren, Alexia and her husband, Cody; Kali and her husband, Adam; Talia; Elizabeth; Nikko; Patrick; Kathryn; Mikey; Jack; Max; and Isla; and his great-grandchildren, Kitsis and Ella, who will be arriving in January.

Visiting hours will be held from 4:00 to 6:00 p.m. on Saturday, November 7, at Conroy-Tully Walker Funeral Home, 1024 Broadway, South Portland followed by a service at 6:00 p.m.

In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to The United Way of Southern Maine.

Services

Visitation: Saturday, November 7, 2026 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm

Conroy-Tully Walker Funeral Home - South Portland Chapel
1024 Broadway
South Portland, Maine 04106


Funeral Service: Saturday, November 7, 2026 6:00 pm

Conroy-Tully Walker Funeral Home - South Portland Chapel
1024 Broadway
South Portland, Maine 04106


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  1. So sorry to read of Billy Duffy’s passing.
    Sending his family my thoughts and prayers. God bless ! 🙏😘❤️

  2. My heart felt sympathy to this wonderful family. What a legacy Dottie and Bill left behind in you all and your family circle. Love you all.

  3. My Uncle Billy, he was one of the strongest men I’ve ever known, his weakness was trying to live in a world without my Aunt Dottie ❤️ they are back together now and both at peace!

  4. Bill you are gone before us. Greeting party on your arrival will be a joyful occasion. Today we are one day closer to seeing our families

  5. The Big Guy wasn’t just my dad and mentor, he was one of my best friends. We sailed together on 5 different merchant ships and it was an experience I will treasure forever. He left a huge positive impact on both his personal and professional world and he will be missed by all. Love you Big Guy. I’m glad you’re with mom again ❤️

  6. What an incredible Dad and Grandad he was! Suzan, Billy, Maureen and I were lucky enough to grow up in a house filled with love and happiness. We missed him so much when he was out to sea but I think he missed us more. He made up for lost time by being present in our lives. Once he got the title “Grandad” his heart was complete. We will forever miss him and talk about the love he and our Mom shared. Keep the faith Dad. Love, #2 daughter, Kathy❤️☘️

  7. The best grandad we could have ever asked for, we were so lucky to be loved by him. He will be greatly missed but all of the wonderful memories we made with him will stay in our hearts forever. He is now reunited with Meema and they’re resting in eternal peace together. Their love was something special to witness and was a true example of how a marriage and partnership should be like.

    Love you so much Grandad!

  8. Some of my best memories are of the summers I spent nearly every day with Granddad. Whether he was building something in his workshop, keeping the freezer stocked with Klondike bars, or finding any excuse to sing “Danny Boy,” he had a way of making even the simplest moments feel special. He taught me many things, but above all, he taught me what it means to love someone. I hope I spend the rest of my life finding little pieces of him in the people I love, and I hope I never settle for anything less than the kind of love he showed us all. I love you granddad!!

  9. You were the best Dad and Grandad that anyone could ask for! I truly was so lucky to have you in my life! You were always so supportive and caring. You always encouraged me, and taught me to be strong. The boys and I are going to miss you so much, but we will always have you in our hearts. We love you so much, and we are happy that you are finally at peace and with your love! ❤️

  10. Dad, #1 here…. I just wanted to tell you how much you will be missed by us all! Being your first born was quite the honor! The stories of how you met me for the first time in a bar in Boston at 2 months old. Probably why I do love a good dive bar to this day! Who will be telling everyone that I was the last baby born in Maine in 1966? The stories and memories will be with us always. We were so very lucky to have had you and mom raise us and give us an upbringing that was incredible and filled with love! Thank you so much for that. The love this family has for each other is undeniable! We owe that to you and mom.❤️❤️❤️ Until we meet again Dad! I love you!❤️❤️❤️