Vladik Lord

vladik lord

June 5, 1995 ~ June 6, 2026

Vladik Isaac Nelson Lord, known to most as Vlad, died on June 6, 2026, at the age of 31.

If you asked Vlad what mattered in life, he probably would not have talked about accomplishments, titles, or milestones. He cared about experiences. He cared about people. He cared about laughter, connection, and making memories. One of his favorite sayings was, “All you have are memories,” and in many ways, that belief shaped how he lived.

Vlad had a smile that people never forgot. When he truly smiled, you felt it in your soul. It drew people in and made people feel welcome. In later years that smile became harder to find, but those who loved him never forgot the light it carried.

Vlad was funny, loving, and fiercely independent. He had a sarcastic sense of humor and an uncanny ability to find something funny even when life was at its hardest. He shared countless inside jokes with his brother, Ivan, and the two could often be found teaming up to lovingly mock their parents, Glen and Tanya. Family gatherings were filled with laughter, teasing, and stories. Vlad had a gift for creating those moments that become family legends, the kind people find themselves retelling years later.

He was gifted athletically and seemed to excel at nearly everything he tried. Soccer, track, and bodybuilding came naturally to him. He proudly served in the National Guard and later worked as a personal trainer, sharing his knowledge and encouragement with others. Whether working with experienced athletes or someone stepping into a gym for the first time, Vlad wanted people to believe in themselves. He loved helping others discover strengths they did not yet see.

Those who knew Vlad also knew his gentleness. Beneath his strength was a deeply caring heart. While his path was often difficult, one thing remained constant: Vlad was deeply loved by his family, and he loved them in return.

Many people saw Vlad’s strength, but fewer saw the depth of the pain he carried. The pain was real and profound, though he often bore it quietly. Those who loved Vlad know that strength and suffering can exist side by side. He carried both throughout much of his life. His struggles never defined him; they were only one part of a much larger story. Even during his hardest times, he continued to reach out to others, offer support, share a laugh, and look for moments of connection.

Vlad died from an overdose. His family chooses to be open about overdose as the cause of his death in the hope that honesty can help reduce stigma and encourage deeper understanding. They hope his story serves as a reminder that every person who is experiencing suffering and uses drugs deserves compassion, support, connection, dignity, and every opportunity to be safe. Too often people see only what is visible on the surface and miss the pain that may lie beneath. His family hopes that sharing this truth openly will help others respond with empathy rather than judgment.

Many people knew Vlad online as “Vlad the Uprising.” It was a fitting name. Despite the challenges he faced, he continued to get back up and keep moving forward. Songs like Never Give Up and Fight Back by Neffex resonated with him because they reflected something essential about who he was: resilient, determined, and unwilling to stop trying.

If Vlad could leave one message behind, it might be this: live life the way you want to live it. Make time for the people you love. Embrace the moments. Don’t wait for someday to be happy. The moments are what matter.

Vlad is survived by his parents, Glen and Tanya Lord; his brother, Ivan Lord; his aunt and uncles, Nina, John, Ayo, and Brian; his cousins, Ethan, Pascale, Jessica, Emily, Alice, Irene, Madeline, and Addison; and many friends and loved ones whose lives are richer because they knew him. He is predeceased by his brother Noah, Aunt Heather and Grandparents Byron, Ronna and Gretchen.

His family hopes those who loved Vlad will honor his memory by finding reasons to laugh, staying connected to one another, creating memories, and never taking time with those they love for granted. After all, as Vlad often reminded us, “all you have are memories.”

Arrangements are under the direction of the new Conroy-Tully Walker Cremation, Funeral, and Gathering Center, 300 Allen Avenue, Portland.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Vladik’s memory to The Sun Will Rise Foundation, which provides peer grief support and resources for individuals and families affected by substance-use-related loss. The contact information is listed below: 

The Sun Will Rise Foundation
541 Washington Street
Braintree, MA 02184
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  1. Tanya, Glen, and Vanya,
    I am so very sorry for your immense loss. Vladi was a kind soul who felt deeply, and that was evident to us from the moment he stepped off the plane to spend his first summer in the U.S. in 2001.

    He hit the jackpot with your family. You provided unconditional love and a warm, stable environment that he sorely needed.

    We hope your positive memories help to get through this unimaginable pain. Please take comfort in the knowledge that he loved you.

  2. Holding you all in my heart. This journey, losing multiple children, is not for the faint of heart. I’m on this path with you however this unfolds over time. You and Glen are awesome parents, Vlad always trusted your love is forever.

  3. I was so very sorry to hear this. His struggles were real and I’m sure haunted him for many of his years.

    I choose to remember him as T’s first boyfriend. Two 12/13 year old kids just learning about crushes and the emotional roller coaster of being a teen. Seeing him hang out with all the skaters, and watching out for his brother.

    He will be missed.

  4. Jim and I will remember Vlad with you, having fond memories of our meeting him and all of the fun had during that special Plum Island weekend. Holly took to Vlad, tail wagging as they played their games on the lighthouse grass. Vlad made us laugh, made is smile.

    “We do not remember days, we remember moments.”
    Vlad created moments for so many.

  5. Tanya, Glen, Ivan, and all who knew and loved Vlad…I am so sorry for your loss.

    I had the privilege of meeting Ivan once, and we’ll remember his smile, stoicism, and feeling that deep sense of compassion and care that were intrinsic parts of his soul.

    May the many fond memories bring some modicum of comfort in the coming days, and may you remember that nothing, not even death can strip us of eternal love.

    In my thoughts… 🙏🫶

  6. I know this has been a long painful journey along with the love and care. You have our hearts and our prayers, from one bereaved couple to another. “Tonight I light his candle, in memory of you…”

  7. I never met Vlad, but I remember when you adopted him. Grandparents Rona and Byron spoke lovingly of him often.
    Take Vlad ‘s saying to heart and hold the memories close.

  8. The MLS class of 2015 is thinking of you all and holding close all the memories we shared with Vlad.

    Prayers for you all ❤️

  9. Vlad you are missed each and every day. Know u were loved above all . Hopefully u are at peace and the voices and images u sought to quiet in ur head are silenced. Rest in peace , God knows u deserve it

  10. Your love, loss, and pain are unique, just like Vlad. I know it’s impossible to bear, and yet we do. Yesterday was the year anniversary of losing my beloved son Patrick (20) to overdose. Using a substance for the first time may be a behavioral choice (if complex and influenced by many factors), but addiction is not a choice. It’s classified by the AMA as a medical disease of the brain. Thank you for helping promote that awareness. I pray you’ll find comfort and peace too in the midst of your suffering.


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