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Vincent Anthony Grosso, Sr.

December 5, 1942 ~ August 30, 2026

Born in: Portland, ME
Resided in: North Yarmouth, ME

Vincent Anthony Grosso, Sr., 83, of North Yarmouth, passed away after a brief illness surrounded by his family on August 30, 2026. He was born on December 5, 1942, in Portland, Maine.

Known affectionately as Vinnie or Butchie, he graduated from Portland High School in 1961, where he also met and married his high school sweetheart, Joy Perry. They shared 51 years of marriage before her passing in 2011.

After graduation, Vinnie worked as a machinist for Crosby Laughlin Company and later served as a custodian at Greely High School and purchaser at Bellino-Grosso Plumbing Company.

An avid outdoorsman, he enjoyed hunting, fishing, and lobstering, often sharing his catch with others. He also loved music, dancing, and going out to dinner with dear friends.

Vinnie’s Catholic faith guided his life. His children fondly remember Saturday evening Mass at St. Peter’s followed by family pasta dinners. A dedicated parishioner, he attended services regularly, volunteered at St. Peter’s Italian Bazaar, and cherished the lasting friendships he made there.

Family was everything to Vinnie. His Christmas Eve table was always open to family, friends, and anyone in need of a place to belong. He rarely missed a game, recital, or milestone involving his children and grandchildren. Known for calling loved ones “baby,” “sweetheart,” or “darlin’,” he had a gift for making people feel special.

Vinnie loved the beach, sunshine, and time spent at Little Sebago Lake. The camp door was always open…literally and figuratively. Remembered by many as the “King of the Beach” and the “Ambassador of Cambell Shore,” he will be missed for his warmth, kindness, and lakeside conversations.

Vinnie is survived by his partner, Katie; his brother, Robert and Carol Grosso; his daughter, Dr. Deanna Davis and fiancé Mark Michaud of Cumberland Center; his sons Vincent and Nadine Grosso of Gray, and Peter Grosso of Westbrook; his grandchildren, Timothy and Colbi Grosso-Keith, Andrew Keith, Olivia and Chloe Grosso, and Ava Grosso. He was predeceased by his wife, Joy Perry Grosso.

While he will always be remembered, loved, and missed, Heaven gained an Angel with a heart of gold. Vinnie not only lived a full life but carefully curated a lifetime of memories that will sustain the family for years to come.

Visiting hours will be held from 4-7PM on Thursday, September 10 at the new Conroy-Tully Walker Cremation, Funeral & Gathering Center, 300 Allen Avenue, Portland. Prayers will be recited at the Funeral Home at 9:15 on Friday, September 11th, followed by a Mass of Christian Burial at St. Peter’s Roman Catholic Church, 72 Federal Street, Portland. Interment will follow at Calvary Cemetery in South Portland.

Family and friends will celebrate Vinnie’s life at a reception at Bruno’s Restaurant immediately following interment.

Services

Visiting Hours: Thursday, September 10, 2026 4:00 pm - 7:00 pm

Conroy-Tully Walker Cremation, Funeral & Gathering Center
300 Allen Avenue
Portland, Maine 04103


Prayer Service: Friday, September 11, 2026 9:15 am

Conroy-Tully Walker Cremation, Funeral & Gathering Center
300 Allen Avenue
Portland, Maine 04103


Mass of Christian Burial: Friday, September 11, 2026 10:00 am

St. Peter's Roman Catholic Church
72 Federal Street
Portland, Maine 04101


Interment: Friday, September 11, 2026 11:15 am

Calvary Cemetery
1461 Broadway
South Portland, Maine 04106


Reception: Friday, September 11, 2026 12:00 pm

Bruno's Restaurant and Tavern
33 Allen Avenue
Portland, Maine 04103


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  1. Vinnie had a pure heart ❤️ of gold .
    Heaven gained an angel and the night sky a star 🌟
    He will be missed

  2. A good man has gained his wings. Oh the laughs we shared. My sympathy to all who knew and loved him as I did.

  3. I had the pleasure of knowing Big Vin for most of my life. D and I have been friends since grade school. Vin was a “super flirt” but always a gentleman. Along with Mama Joy, I was welcomed in their home and never left hungry. They completed each other which was evident whenever you saw them together. He was patient, loving but always put me in my place when D and I hit our “high school years” (if you know what I mean). He was a dear friend of my parents. Vin & Chris would visit them at their hunting camps every year. Mommie would affectionatley referred to them as “dumb and dumber”. Which meant when they went fishing, all they came back with was a buzz and stories about the big fish that “got away”. As sad as I am that he is gone from this earth, I know he is in heaven with Mama Joy and Daddy has a fishing buddy. Fly free Vin, I will always love you.

  4. “My cousin Vinny. Yes, I really do have a cousin Vinny.” Every time I spoke of him to people, it was always prefaced by that remark.I came to know Vinny fairly late in life, me in my early 40’s, he in his 50’s. I was the cousin noone knew. Vinny remembered my father and shared with me what he knew. He told me where I came from and more importantly, where I belonged. With great fondness and sadness I say good bye old friend. I pray God holds you as close to His heart as you are to mine. Love you Vincenzo

  5. We will miss our weekly dinners with Vinny and Katie. He was a good friend of Chris’s for many, many years. They enjoyed lobstering, fishing, hunting and going to the Italian Heritage Center. Vinny will be missed; but never forgotten!
    Our thoughts and prayers go out to Katie and his family!
    Rest In Peace Vinny!
    Love your friends,
    Rita & Chris
    ♥️

  6. Vinnie
    Was just a great buddy from my WL Blake Co
    Waterfront business days til my FW Webb business days.
    I always looked forward to A Vinnie visit it brightened my day. My wife , son and I always went to the Italian festival every year to see Vinnie at his game booth.
    He was a rare breed you don’t see so much anymore, he made time to listen to what was going on in your life and always had a way of making you smile.
    I miss you already buddy, May God share blessings upon you and your families
    Warmly;
    Greg Bodlovick

  7. Vinnie and I were classmates at Portlanf Highschool and shared many fun times there. We were both active in many activities and he was a beloved member of our class of 1961. We also got together at our Class Reunions and he would help on our Reunion planning committee. He loved his family and was a wonderful person. Rest in Peace and may your Memory be Eternal 🙏🏼

  8. To Deanna and the family,
    I am so very sorry for your loss, sending prayers and healing vibes your way . I have happy memories of Butchy up at the camp back in the time when Bob was alive. Butchy and my husband Bob worked together at Crosby Laughlin and throughout the years they stayed in touch- He visited my husband during the latter part of the years when he was very very sick . I saw their closeness and connection . 🙏Sincerely, Beverly Albano

  9. To Deanna and family,
    I’m sorry for your loss and sending big hugs and prayers your way. Butchy is with your Mom, his sister, your grandparents, and the rest of all our family members now in such a beautiful place- The pain is unbearable now and all I can say is you all aren’t alone on this earthly journey. A Fathers love remains always and he is with you in your heart never to be erased. We will all be reunited with them someday .

  10. Dear Deanna, Vincent and Peter,
    I am so sorry for the loss of your father. He was truly one of a kind and the North Yarmouth neighborhood will never be the same without him. The funeral was a lovely tribute. Andrew’s remarks were wonderful. All my best to you all at this very sad time.
    Mary Gamage


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