Theo James Ferrara
August 4, 2008 ~ September 27, 2022
Resided in:
Freeport, Maine
Freeport, ME - Our beloved son, Theo James Ferrara, died on Tuesday, September 27, 2022, at the age of 14. Our hearts are broken, but we are so very grateful for the time we had with him and the love he gave us.
Theo had a bright future ahead of him, and, as it is with the brightest of lights, he left an indelible mark upon all he knew. Theo, a Freeport High School freshman,was a loving son, brother, cousin, grandson, nephew, friend and teammate.
He was a truly kind soul who sought out opportunities to make others feel good about themselves—encouraging an apprehensive friend to join the soccer team, seeking out his little sister on the playground after school, or unabashedly telling his mom he loved her in front of a crowd of his peers.
To really know Theo is to know that his passions and intellectual curiosity ran far and deep—from academics to athletics to the arts. He was a geography savant who voraciously studied world maps, gifted artist, and introspective poet. He was a diehard Celtics fan. He was a proud honors student and talented athlete who loved soccer, basketball, and skiing. He enjoyed traveling with his family.
When relaxing at home, he was a Europa Universalis IV gamer boasting over 1000 hours logged and an avid music fan, the Beatles’ White Album was a favorite. Theo was also humble, silly, principled and ironic. He admirably shunned social media, conspicuous consumption, and screen time. He was a relentless movie critic. His clothing choices were iconic. He was known for his “Vote for Pedro” t-shirt, his Harold and the Purple Crayon sweatshirt worn since 2nd grade, and his head-to-toe Celtics representation. His fascination with Xi Jinping—well, that is just unexplainable and quintessential Theo.
Theo is survived by many who love him without bounds including his mother and father, Mia and Jarrod, his little sisters, Nina and Velia, his Grandmother, Kathy Ferrara, his Oma, Susan Saluga, his Aunt, Uncles and Cousin, Dacia and Rick McQuade, Bella McQuade, David Kulla and Jamie Kulla. He is predeceased by his Nonno, Jim Ferrara, his Sapta, Ofrah Kulla and his Grandfather, Michael
Kulla.
A public celebration of Theo’s life is being held on Sunday, October 23 at 2pm in the Leon A. Gorman Conference Center, L.L.Bean Headquarters, 2 Double L Street, Freeport, Maine. In lieu of flowers, a scholarship has been set up in his name. For more information, please visit www.theoferrara.com.
Arrangements are under the direction of the Conroy-Tully Walker Funeral Home of Portland. To view Theo's memorial page or to share an online condolence, please visit www.ConroyTullyWalker.com.
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he could always make me laugh and if i had a bad day he could make it better so quickly I miss him more everyday and i loved how he loved soccer and was so smart. he was so special. I wish i could have said goodbye. he was loved by many.
I remember coaching Theo when he was 8! Amazing soccer player and spirit! I shared with Mia after the Rec. season that Theo was driven for “more”. Coach able, kind, and a team player. In reading all the memories I know Theo’s spirit never changed. I am honored to have known him in such a small part of his life.
My heart and prayers goes out to the Ferrara Family. ❤️
I was so lucky to have coached Theo in recreational soccer. He was an amazing soccer player even as a young kid. And so dedicated to the sport. He worked so hard even at that young age. More importantly, Theo was a coach’s dream. He listened, he tried his best and he was so kind to the other players on the team. A bright light who will never be forgotten – and remembered as a sweet, tender-hearted boy who was loved and respected by all who were lucky enough to know him.
Well in 4th grade I remember he was really into Geography. So he walked up to me one day and he asked me if my last name was Polish. I remember being super surprised because it was Polish. I asked him how he knew that and he said that it had Polish origins. At that point I swore he was a genius.
One of the last times that I really spent time with him was because we both had a callback to science. We sat next to each other just talking about soccer and stuff. We were both laughing and smiling and it was so special. He had that certain side grin and his positivity was infectious. Theo always gave me his full attention when I was talking and really listened.
Theo LOVED the celtics. I had almost every single class with him in middle school and he always wore celtics gear. His favorite player was Payton Pritchard. I remember in 8th grade math class we sat outside together with maddie p and Ollie and it was so fun. We’d talk and laugh and debate and it was just so fun. Maddie and I would jokingly made fun of his silly looking celtics hat.
I met Theo in 5th grade when I first went to MLS. I remeber he always wore this tennis camp shirt and I’m pretty sure the first time I talked to him was about that tennis camp because I had also done a camp there too.
I remeber he made a petition to expand Liechtenstiens empire.
Sending love to all those who are struggling ❤️
Always in our hearts
May you find comfort and peace during this time amongst each other. My thoughts go out to you all.
When we were in Spanish class, I got paired with Theo, and we were practicing with the sheet and he just made me feel like I was actually kind of smart. Rarely do I feel that way, and even more rarely do other people make me feel that way. That just felt really special to me and I saw that Theo did that often. I hope that in remembrance of him we are all kind and supportive of each other
Rip Theo aka The Blinchmeister
My deepest sympathy to Theo’s parents, sisters and family.Jenn B.former Medical assistant at Me health cardiolgy
Theo was my nephews first child
We enjoyed Theo when his family would come to Rhode Island to visit us…….he was always friendly and fun………
Theo, you are ingrained in some of our greatest family trips and we will cherish the memories we have. We will never forget you & we will miss you.
Love,
Tony, Kim, MAC, Corinna & Walter
To The Ferrara, I was so sorry to hear of Theo passing. I have been following the story all all along. He was gone to soon. So sorry for school friends and family. From, Kristen Tully
Forever in mine and Sebastian’s heart! ⚽️
This might sound dumb, but he was the first person i knew who was jewish (i think, i dont know much about him)
Kind, considerate, chill, a friend,
miss you to this day
Its been a year man. Hope you’re doing good up there
I was in the same grade as him. I would hang out and talk with him sometimes.
Our names rhymed. So when we crossed paths in the halls he would call me “theo” and i would call him “leo”
Dear Mia, Jarrod, Nina & Velia,
Our family treasured any time we could soak up with that sweet, silly and passionate Theo of yours. His kind heart and positive energy could light up a room. Theo taught us to think a little deeper, laugh a whole lot harder and to embrace our passions. Our hearts may be broken but they are also so incredibly full of wonderful and priceless memories of time spent with Theo. We love you all very much and we are holding you close in our hearts ♥️.
Big Hugs,
Jen, Shane, Logan & Sawyer
Words cannot express the sorrow we all feel about the sad news. I will always remember Theo from the tales his Father shared with me
I’m just a random member of the community but Theo’s death breaks my heart and I grieve for his beautiful family.
Day at the pats
I remember Theo hadn’t enjoyed skiing the first few years and then when we got older our parents let just me and him go out and we went on the craziest adventures
I have met many people in my life traveling the country & globe and there are rare times when you meet a person whose soul shines out from the ordinary crowd around. Theo was one of these people…from the moment I met him I knew he was special. He was a sacred soul, full of mystery and wonder and a love for those around him. He held a spark waiting to light the world around him in a quiet but significant way. I am so grateful my daughter, Soleil, was able to know him and be his friend.
Our community and the world has lost a kind, intelligent, creative, and vibrant light. All our love to Theo’s family and the rest of his friends that love him so dearly.
Jarrod, My heart broke the day I learned of your amazing son’s tragedy. His obituary made me feel like I had known him all his life. An accomplished young man who was definitely an “old soul”. He will live on through all who had the honor to know him and through your heart. My deepest condolences to all the Ferrara family. Life isn’t fair, but God had his reasons, we don’t understand but need to trust in him. Nancy Butler
May you all find strength in the beautiful memories of your beloved son, Theo. Sending our deepest condolences,
Pam Loder & Neal Anderson
We all loved Theo’s kindness and sense of humor. He was so sweet to Delia when around her and always made Parker laugh and feel comfortable.
Theo will always be in our hearts.
❤️ We love you all
Jona, Mike, Parker & Delia
Theo was a beacon of constant light and joy to all the people around him- from his teammates to his peers, to his beloved friends. His bright and kind demeanor was effervescent and unwavering. He will be greatly missed but also very fondly remembered, and memories of him will forever live on. Sending all my love to his family and friends ❤️
I love you Theo
Sending our love to the Ferrara family during this difficult time and holding memories of Theo in our hearts. The Kennedy Jelescheff family
I didn’t know him to well but my family are friends of the family. He was a funny goofy kid and was extremely friendly. He will be missed.
Also I don’t know if the family is going to see this my dads name is Eric Stram
Miss You our Sweet Boy…. xo
Love You T …. Miss you everyday
xo
Always be kind and loving to others
Kindness ruin everything you can imagine someone to
That he was always happy he was never sad and how he always had a smile on his face
He was never sad and always took a problem head on
We are truly Heartbroken for the Ferrara family and wish that Theo will Rest In Peace. Prayers and love at this very difficult time. Roisin, Dave, Holly, Mya and Noah
We think about, talk about and remember Theo every single day. What a beautiful, incredible boy. With love to you all…
Please stay in touch with your family from where you are now. They will want to reach you there.
From soccer, school, and as a very loving friend.
The most ingenious person I ever met. And a very kind and caring person, one that would go out of his way to know if you were ok. Forever missed.
I am so-so sorry for your loss.
He like fell in a lake or something
Dear Jarrod & Mia, My dear nephew Jason let us know about your beloved Theo. We’re so brokenhearted for all of you. It’s been a blessing to see these beautiful pictures and read these precious memories. You will stay in our prayers as we beseech the Lord for comfort and strength for you and your daughters.
With much love,
Susan Shaughnessy & family
We will always remember Theo in our hearts. His compassion, kindness and generous spirit❤️
All of our love,
Jackson, Harper
Amy & Steve