Ronald R. Bridges

March 20, 1954 ~ April 17, 2024
Resided in:
South Portland, Maine
South Portland - Ronald "Ron" A. Bridges, aged 70, of Forest Ave, South Portland, passed away on April 17, 2024, at Mercy Hospital after a courageous battle with cancer. Born in Castine, Maine, on March 20, 1954, Ron was the son of the late Arnold F. and Priscilla L. (Gray) Bridges. He grew up in beautiful Cape Rosier, Maine and had many memories of a childhood spent exploring in the outdoors and spending time with family.
Ron graduated from George Stevens Academy in the class of 1972 and earned his bachelor's degree from the University of Maine at Orono in 1976. In 1981, he earned a master’s in special education from Lesley College in Massachusetts.
Ron’s professional life was dedicated to serving children and adults with special needs as well as their families. He worked for the State of Maine for over 35 years starting with direct care and advancing to various administrative positions at locations including the Elizabeth Levinson Center in Bangor, the Infant Development Center in South Portland and the Freeport Town Square. He retired in 2016 from the Department of Health and Human Services in Portland. Even in his retirement, Ron continued to find purpose in part-time work providing elder care support to patients and families in hospice care. Ron’s genuine compassion for others and his warm and friendly nature made him well-loved by so many of those he touched through his work.
In his personal life, Ron was a creative soul, a proud father and grandfather, and a devoted husband. He loved music, old movies, and Stephen King books. He was a founding member of the Maine Gay Men’s Chorus, serving on the board of directors and lending his voice to numerous concerts, and an active participant in Pride events across Maine. He delighted in decorating and celebrating holidays; for example, assisting with decorating the Victoria Mansion in Portland for the Christmas season, making and decorating beautiful and delicious cakes for loved ones’ special days, creating elaborate Halloween costumes, and hosting legendary Christmas parties at his home. He treasured time spent entertaining family and friends. Especially in his retirement, Ron found joy in camping and traveling the world with his husband, Larry, exploring destinations such as Mexico, Cuba, Puerto Rico, and San Francisco.
Ron was preceded in death by his parents as well as his beloved grandmother, Virginia E. Gray. He is survived by his partner of 22 years and husband of 11 years, Larry Howe, of South Portland. He is also survived by his daughter, Arielle, and her husband, Deven West, of Saco; his son, Khalan Bridges, and his partner, Lynn Maleh, of Los Angeles, CA; his grandson, Isaac West, of Saco; his brother, Randy and wife Diane Bridges of Charleston, ME; his brother Harold and wife Karen Bridges of Burlington, ME and Palm Bay, FL; his special cousin, Alta Gross, of Penobscot, ME; his two fur babies Turbo and Apollo; and many dear friends and extended family.
Ron's adventurous spirit, warm heart, and vibrant presence will be deeply missed by all who had the privilege of knowing him.
At the family’s request all services will be private. Arrangements are under the direction of the Conroy-Tully Walker Funeral Home, 1024 Broadway, South Portland, ME. To leave a condolence please visit www.ConroyTullyWalker.com
Those who wish may make contributions in Ron’s memory to The Trevor Project at thetrevorproject.org
I am devastated to hear this news of Ron’s passing. I worked with Ron at DHHS. His infectious smile and warm hugs were always a highlight to my day! Many hugs and healing prayers go out to his family!
There are no words to adequately express the sorrow I feel at the loss of your father. He was my friend with the radiant smile and generous heart. My fondest memory is sharing stories about our grandchildren. A light has gone out in my life!
Such an enormous loss, I am forever grateful for the memories I hold of him and so honored to have been his friend.
So sorry for your loss. He loved his family so much always so proud of all of you. He was a great friend
So very saddened by loss of such an amazing man,he had such a huge heart and made people hearts feel warmed by his smile , I’m going to miss yours calls and just laugh while waiting for larry . Rest Easy Ron you will be sadly missed by all that knew you !
My sincere condolences to Ron’s family and friends. Prayers of comfort and love for you all.
I worked with Ron as a colleague at the Bureau of Children with Special Needs many years ago. He was a wonderful friend and coworker.
We were in York Hall together, second floor. We graduated in 1976. Ron and I enjoyed a good time while at Maine and several months ago I found lots of photos of our senior year and emailed them to Ron. We both got a kick out of reliving those days of careful fun and a tad of partying.
We agreed that the 70’s were an interesting time, we both were living our best lives now. He was one of a kind, smart, kind, funny, thoughtful and a dear friend. So happy we connected on Facebook.
My deepest sympathies to Larry, his beautiful daughter and son and all his family.
Ron was a light on earth and now will be a light in the universe!
Ronnie had a kind heart and a soft tone in his voice. He was always so easy to talk with and I will miss him❤️
Dave and I are deeply saddened and shocked to learn of your passing. Although the times we shared together were few in frequency, they filled my heart with so much warmth and gratitude that my entire life will be better for having known you. Thank you for the kindness that you extended to me. You were a shining star on earth, and I can only imagine the beauty that you will now spread throughout the heavens. Rest in blissful peace, sweet Ron. Our hearts go out to Larry, your family, and your large network of friends who loved you so dearly.
I’m in a state of shock. My thoughts and prayers are with Larry & family.🙏
Nancy Heckley, friend from Macys.
So sorry to hear of this sad news. My thoughts are with all of you during this very difficult time. I have fond memories of Ron’s and Larry’s Christmas parties and how their home was a demonstration of the beauty of Christmas. I pray for comfort and peace for all of you.
We are so sorry to hear about Ron’s passing. We are very blessed to have known him. Love and Peace to all his family and friends.
Sheila and Garry
The sweetest person, such a good person.
So sorry for your loss. Sending prayers and sympathy.
Such a warm presence at the office, so sorry to hear of Ron’s passing. He was a wonderful man and loving friend. Hugs. T