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Roland Vermette

September 10, 1942 ~ August 28, 2026

Roland Vermette of Sanford, Maine, passed away peacefully on August 28, 2026, at the age of 83, with his beloved wife, Lois, by his side. Roland and Lois met in their late teens and began a life together that would span more than six decades. They were married for 62 years and shared a lifetime of memories, family, laughter, and love.

Born on September 10, 1942, Roland was the son of Wilfred Vermette and Amanda Bosse Vermette, both of whom passed away in 1954.

Roland grew up in Sanford, Maine, attending local schools including Emerson School, Roosevelt School, Sanford Middle School, Lafayette School, and Sanford High School. Sanford remained an important part of his life, and after spending time living in Connecticut, Roland eventually returned home to Maine.

Throughout his life, Roland was a hardworking man who took pride in providing for his family. He drove trucks and worked at Genest Concrete and LaValley Lumber before beginning his career with Sanford Public Schools, where he proudly worked for 36 years before retiring.

Roland had a deep passion for camping and the outdoors. He loved spending time outside, enjoying nature, and creating memories with family and friends. Whether camping, exploring the outdoors, or simply enjoying time surrounded by the people he loved, these moments brought Roland great happiness.

One of the most meaningful parts of Roland and Lois’s life together was their commitment to children and family. Together, they opened their hearts and their home to dozens of foster children over the years. Their willingness to provide love, stability, and a safe place for children in need was a reflection of the kind of people they were and the generosity they shared. For Roland, family was about much more than blood—it was about love, caring, and being there for those who needed him.

Roland was also a longtime member of the Elks in Sanford, where he enjoyed the fellowship and friendships that came with being part of the organization.

Above all, Roland will be remembered for his generous spirit and his heart of gold. He cared deeply about his family and the people around him and was the kind of person who was always willing to help. His warmth, humor, and larger-than-life personality left an impression on everyone who knew him.

Roland was preceded in death by his parents, Wilfred and Amanda Vermette, and his brother, George Vermette, who passed away in 1964.

He is survived by his devoted wife of 62 years, Lois Vermette; his brother, Paul Vermette and his wife, Debbie Vermette, of Seattle, Washington; his sisters, Irene LaRoche; Doris Gilbert; and Pauline Ainsworth.

Roland also leaves behind his children, Ryan Vermette of Reston, Virginia; Jason Vermette of Lyman, Maine; Sandy Vermette of Sanford, Maine; and Skyler Mattei and her husband, Jai Mattei, of Wells, Maine, as well as his grandchildren, extended family, and many friends who will miss him dearly.

Roland had a wonderful sense of humor and was never short on a good story. One family favorite involved a time when he went out hunting and, at first glance, mistook a boulder for a moose—and took a shot at it. It was the kind of story that captured Roland perfectly: memorable, entertaining, and guaranteed to bring a smile to the faces of those who heard it.

Roland’s life was defined by family, hard work, friendship, humor, adventure, and kindness. From meeting Lois as teenagers, to building a family, sharing 62 years of marriage, opening their home and hearts to dozens of foster children, working 36 years for Sanford Public Schools, and enjoying countless days outdoors, Roland created a life centered around caring for others and making memories with the people he loved.

He will be deeply missed but lovingly remembered by all who had the privilege of knowing him.

Roland had a favorite saying that many will remember: “See you Monday.” It was a simple phrase, but one that became part of who he was and a familiar farewell to those around him.

A Mass of Christian Burial will be held for Roland on Friday, September 11, 2026, at 10:30 a.m. at St. Therese of Lisieux Parish, Holy Family Church, located at 66 North Avenue in Sanford, Maine. The funeral service is open to the public, and all who knew Roland are welcome to attend.

A Celebration of Life will follow from 12:00 p.m. to 4:00 p.m. at the Social Club in Springvale, Maine. The Celebration of Life is also open to the public, and family, friends, former colleagues, and members of the community are warmly invited to join together to celebrate Roland’s life, share memories, and honor the man who meant so much to so many.

See you Monday, Roland. You will be missed.

 

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  1. Definitely see you. “ MONDAY”
    Mr. Rollie, you will be missed.. My deepest condolences to Rollie’s family. RIP. Rachel “Collette” Burbank ( his favorite lunch lady @
    Emerson School

  2. There’s not enough words to say how much I love and miss you. How blessed I am to be your daughter, how grateful I am to have been raised by you and how loved I was by you. You were my best friend, as well as my dad. “See you Monday” Papa

  3. Rollie what can I say you were the best union president for the custodians and I owe you so much for getting me a school after Lincoln school closed. You were always there working side by side when we were in need. You will be missed.

  4. Dad,
    I can’t express how much my heart hurts. There are way too many great memories to share. I hope you know how much of an impact you have put on my life and everyone around you. Thank you for being the greatest Dad and Grampy. Heaven is lucky to have you.

  5. I work with Roland at Pat genest and sons in the early 70s we went on a hunting trip up north by Greenville Maine. It was a great trip

  6. I will remember you fondly,
    Roland, as you worked at the same school as my mother (Emerson).

    Rest peacefully..

  7. I had the pleasure of working with Rolli for many years as a Sanford School Dept. custodian. He was our longest serving union president and a fierce defender of our bargaining unit, a bargaining unit with almost 100% membership at the time. He was the one who got me to join and he served as a mentor to me when I served as secretary under him, ultimately leading to me taking over the rains as union president myself, a role I would never see myself in had it not been for his encouragement. Even after retirement, he would still answer the phone and give me advice. I owe him a great deal of gratitude for believing in me and helping me find my voice in the union. His presence will be greatly missed. Rest in power and solidarity, Rolli. ✊

  8. Rest in peace, Rollie. I loved working with you at Lafayette School years ago. So many laughs, and you just always knew how to make me and other staff smile!!! Loved our conversations!!! We all loved you so much, and still do. Rest in peace, Rollie. You will be missed by more people that I could even count. To Lois and family, my very deepest condolences.

  9. Lois and family:
    So sorry for your loss. Rollie was the best!! I met him when I worked at Margaret Chase Smith School starting in 2002. And we also met as you delivered the mail. Last time I saw you two was at Mel’s Raspberry Patch in Sanford awhile ago. Take care of yourself. The world has lost an awesome guy.

  10. I will allways remember your leadership when I started in the Sanford Custodian mafia lol. See you at the crossroads.

  11. Rollie was one of a kind and one in a million. His personality and his cheerful nature was a real blessing in the everyday duties and challenges that filled the halls of our school… we were blessed to have him at Emerson and any school he worked at I’m sure feels the same.

    He was always kind, helpful, cheerful and treated everyone with kindness and respect. He had the biggest personality and he made sure everyone … teachers and students…felt seen and heard. I can’t say enough about this man. My heart goes out to his family and everyone who is blessed to have known him. I am sure he will be dearly missed because he made such a big difference with everyone he interacted with. Rest in peace Rollie !
    See you Monday. 🙏❤️


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