Kevin Wesley Graffam
December 29, 1966 ~ October 9, 2023
Resided in:
Waterboro, Maine
Kevin Wesley Graffam, 56, of Waterboro, Maine died unexpectedly on October 9, 2023.
He was the youngest child of Lewis and Elsie Graffam. He leaves behind his wife, Victoria Graffam and two sons, Kevin J Graffam and his wife Chantelle Graffam and Alexander L Graffam. He had four amazing grandchildren Emma, Wesley, Noah, and Colton. He had one stepdaughter, Amber Row, and her wife Courtney Row.
Kevin was predeceased by his parents and siblings Lewis, Russell, Tony, Brian, Donald (Butch), Tracy and Lisa. He is survived by his brothers and sisters Richard, David, Rodney, Vera, Donna, Donita, Brenda, Christine, Dorothy and Beverly. He had dozens and dozens of nieces and nephews.
Kevin loved playing golf with his brothers, sons and nephews. He loved riding his motorcycle with his son Kevin and friends. He adored his dog, Copper. He loved spending time with his family. One of Kevin’s greatest joys was watching his boys play sports. He was overjoyed when Alex had the same number that his big brother Kevin did in football. He was looking forward to watching the next generation of Graffam’s take the field. Kevin was proud of his hometown and bled green at every game.
Kevin had a twinkle in his eye that no girl could resist. You knew he liked you because he would whip out that Graffam charm and give you a silly name or hug you and whisper in your ear.
Kevin had fond memories of being home with his parents, watching his mom make beans and biscuits, having his dad warm biscuits on top of the woodstove for him before school, gathering firewood with his dad and siblings, having huge family dinners with a house full of people. Kevin also loved to fish at Bartlett Pond. All his childhood memories were with his family and warmed his heart.
A graveside service will be held at the Hillcrest Cemetery, 599 Plains Rd in Hollis, ME on Thursday October 19th at 11:00am. A celebration of life will be held after the service. It will be held at A Barn, located at 152 Waterhouse Rd, Dayton, ME 04005.
Arrangements are under the direction of Black Funeral Homes and Cremation Service, Sanford-Springvale.
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I miss you dad more than i thought i could ever miss someone or something. I wish you knew how much you meant to me and inspired me to be the best version of myself. I would do anything to just get one minute with you, to tell you how loved you are to tell you i need you. you were there for me no matter what i wish i could’ve been the same rock for you that you were for me. you put so much effort into being there for mom and I and I hope you know i noticed. you are the best dad i could’ve asked for and you continue to teach me lessons and i will always pray that you are at peace and i will see you again. i love you dad i love you so much
Prayers for the entire family. You will be missed.
Love,
Amanda Johnson
Uncle Kevin my heart is broken I can’t believe your gone I’m gonna miss all your big hugs every time I saw you. I love you so much uncle you will forever be missed love you
Love Angie xoxo
My uncle Kevin was always quick with a smile and a hug. No matter where I saw him, or how many months it had been, he was always overjoyed to see me and that made me feel so loved by my uncle. I know he did the same for all his nieces and nephews. I will miss that smile and warm hug. Rest easy uncle, and give everyone up there a hug for me until we see each other again ❤️
Love you Kev; you were like my little brother for almost 55 years. May your kind, good hearted soul rest in peace 🙏
Little Kevin, Alex, Vicky and all his loved one my heart hurts for you.
I will miss you uncle kevin.. fly high love you
Keep on Riding my Brother. I’m sure they have Harley’s in Heaven. Sure do miss our Rides to Bar Harbor. Love You Kev.
Connie
Kevin, you will ALWAYS be a huge part of my heart. I Love You so very much and ALWAYS will. You will always be my FAMILY. Y ou are one of the Kindest, Sweetest, most Loving, most Caring, least Selfish Men I’ve had the Pleasure of knowing. Dance in the Sky my Brother. Kiss Momma & Daddy for me. Kiss Russ , Brian, Lisa, Butch & Tony give them all my Love. Until we meet again, ALL MY LOVE ,,
Extremely sorry to the Graffam family, Kevin was such a good person and will be missed more then he’d ever think.
Worked with Kevin for the past couple years and a little at ShoEm roadway aswell
I am so sorry to hear this. I have fond memories of Kevin an I climbing trees, riding my mini bike on trails behind my house. My Graffam cousins were my friends and play mates. I will miss you Kevin 😥💔
He is my cousin
I will miss you Kevin 😥
Heaven is waiting for you fly high no pain no worries be free Kev
Kevin was my neighbour and our kids were school mates and very close friends. They had frequent sleepovers and the families spent a lot of time together. I got to know Kevin very well. Kevin was never a social individual, but he had a great sense of humour and as neighbours we spent a lot of time together.
I’ll dearly miss Kevin.
Francis Osei
Kevin you will always have a spot in my heart I love ya
In my heart always, until we meet again. I love you. Give Dad and Michael big hugs and kisses for me <3
Rest In Peace uncle Kevin you are loved and will be missed ❤️
Uncle Kev,
You were loved more than you know. You will be missed more than you know. I’m so sorry you didn’t realize your worth. I’m sorry you felt this was the only way for you. I love you more than words. Until we meet again ….
I miss you Uncle Kevin. My heart is broken. Give the rest of the family hugs for me. Till we meet again ‘Elvis’. I love you.
Awesome man wonderful uncle great person any one would want to be around with
Uncle
Riding in a car with him on ice and spinning around on ice uncle kevin making a guitar trying to sing Elvis presley songs pretending to drive beat up trucks grampa had down back in the woods
Very outgoing
His family
Helping others no matter what
Never change
He was my mother’s brother I was happy to tell everyone that he was my uncle
Just having fun together
He was always a pleasure to be with
He loved every one
He will never be for gotten
Just for being the person he was
He was a wonderful man all around
Be with family as much as possible
We love and miss you uncle Kevin
I haven’t seen him in a long time but when we were younger we spent lots of time together, totally looked up to uncle Kevin he was the cool uncle,lots of memories gone to soon😢
Loved you so much I pray you are at peace
Forever missed…RIP uncle kevin..you were one of the good ones gone too soon..
You weren’t just my uncle, you were my friend. You are 3 months older than me and you we’re my first playmate, friend, confidant and partner in crime. We learned from the best (grampa) how to aggravate people. My very first dance partner was you at a family party. Yes, there is proof, mom has a picture. We were in the same class together with Mrs Gillespie as our teacher. We were supposed to grow old together. I am so mad at you right now. Mad at myself for not being there for you. I love you and will miss you until we meet again and I kick your ass before I hug you.
I wish you saw yourself through my eyes uncle because you were an amazing man who loved with his whole heart and gave some of the most amazing hugs. May you find the peace you never could here on earth and know how much your handsome face will be missed. I love you so much and am soooo devastated your gone. Knowing your happy to be with your mom dad and siblings again gives me some peace to know your smiling down on us and making sure we are all gonna be ok. Till we meet again uncle i love you forever xoxo 😘
Love you forever Dad.
I was lucky enough to play softball with Kevin and his brothers Rodney , Rich , Brian, Butch and Tony as far back as the 80’s. Always a good guy and a heck of a ball player. My condolences to all his family and friends.
Kevin you was a kind loving man and adored everyone.had a lot of laughs and tears and you would always say jello it will get better and you always told me I was a great women no matter what.you always gave me a hug not matter who was around .I sure will miss that smile and that kind soul.Rest easy my friend xoxo
Sorry for your loss🙏🙏🙏❤️🌹🌹❤️🌹❤️
Uncle Kevin, my heart hurts, you always had the answers. You could make me smile no matter what mood I was in and I’m going to miss so much, give everyone one a hug for me and I can honestly say I am jealous of the angels
Down to earth, kind hearted and loving
Golfing and riding his motorcycle
His heart and the love he had for his family
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