Katherine Ann Hardison

katherine hardison

June 14, 1949 ~ October 19, 2024


Resided in: South Portland, Maine

South Portland - Katherine Ann (Tarling) Hardison, 75, passed away peacefully with her sons by her side on October 19, 2024, at Maine Medical Center after a brief illness. Kathy was born on June 14, 1949, in Portland, daughter of the late Arthur and Clara (Phillips) Tarling. Kathy was a lifelong South Portland native, starting her life in the Redbank area and growing up on McKinley Street. It was here that she formed several long-standing friendships that she would keep for the rest of her life. She lived with her siblings and her parents, whom she loved dearly. In fact, love and devotion to her friends and family was a defining characteristic that Kathy exhibited throughout her life. After graduating from South Portland High School in 1967, she attended the University of Maine at Orono, where she received a bachelor’s degree in primary education. She married Peter Hardison in 1974, and they lived in Portland for a time before moving back to South Portland, eventually settling down in the Standwood Park neighborhood not far from where she grew up. Here, she raised her two sons and walked various dogs, most notably her “baby and best friend” Abby. For most of Kathy’s life, she worked in the insurance industry, spending time at Aetna, Travelers, and other smaller firms. She enjoyed her final working years Bernstein, Shur, Sawyer, & Nelson law firm in downtown Portland where she was known for her affinity for bird statues and putting smiles on her colleagues faces with her endless charm. In her retirement, Kathy loved to go for walks, visit various beaches and Bug Light Park, attend exercise classes at Basics Fitness, listen to music and dance at Willow's on Wednesday nights, and spend as much time as she could with her family and friends. Kathy was always a proud mother, but she was an even more proud grandmother (or “Gwammy”) who adored her granddaughter, Ellie. Kathy never missed her events, shared little tokens of love, and forged a bond so strong that it could be felt by those around them. Kathy is predeceased by her husband of 46 years, Peter. She is survived by her two sons, Kevin Hardison and his wife, Sarah Holmes and David and his wife, Stephanie Hardison; granddaughter, Eleanor; siblings John, Jeff, Arthur, and Susan; nieces and nephews, Megan, Tess, Sam, Caitlin, Brendan, and many other beloved extended family members. Visiting hours will be held from 10am – 12pm on Saturday, October 26, 2024, with a Celebration of Life to begin at 12:00pm at Conroy-Tully Walker South Portland Chapel, 1024 Broadway, South Portland, ME; committal prayers will follow at Calvary Cemetery, South Portland. Memorial contributions may be made in Kathy’s memory to the Animal Refuge League of Greater Portland, P.O. Box 336, Westbrook, ME 04098, or online at https://interland3.donorperfect.net/weblink/WebLink.aspx?name=E192136&id=74

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  1. Kathy was always the nicest Aunt to our 2 kids… She never missed a birthday, graduation, concert, or one of many youth and HS sports. The kids were always elated when they heard Kathy is coming.

  2. I always looked forward to Christmas Eve with Kathy and the rest of the family. Kathy was always the life of the party and I especially enjoyed laughing and doing scratch tickets with her

  3. Kathy was a loving aunt and I will miss her so much. She frequently attended my band concerts in middle school and high school and was a lot of fun at family gatherings. She loved going for walks at Bug Light with my mom, their brother Bub, and my family’s two goldendoodles Brady and Scout. Kathy loved animals and always enjoyed spending time with my dogs especially after losing her own a few years ago. My deepest condolences go out to my cousins who are her immediate family. Thinking of you all❤️

  4. I was deeply saddened to hear about Kathy’s passing. She was such a kind and wonderful person, with a sweet and gentle disposition that made everyone feel comfortable around her. Though she had a quieter presence, her warmth and friendliness were always felt, and every summer when Bob and I visit Maine, she greeted us with genuine happiness. Those moments catching up with her will always hold a special place in my heart.

    Kathy had a way of making people feel welcome and cared for, and her kind spirit touched so many. She will be deeply missed by everyone who had the joy of knowing her.

    With heartfelt sympathy,
    Christy & Bob

  5. Kathy and I met in the 60’s and again at UMO. Kathy was delightful and friendly .I wish I had tried harder to stay in touch.Kathy is unforgettable.
    I am so sorry that you have such a great loss. Will keep you in my prayers. Kathy

  6. Kathy had a smile and bubbly personality that made you happy as she entered the room. I always enjoyed watching her interact with her sons and their families. She loved her family with all her heart. I will miss seeing her. God bless you Kathy.

  7. Kevin and David, I was so sorry to hear of your mom’s passing. I new your mom very well. Shaws and dog walking and dollar tree and nursing home. Willos music. I will miss her a lot. Take care. From, Kristen Tully

  8. Kevin and David

    Kathy and I have been friends for over 50 years. Our friendship started in 1971 when we both worked at Aetna. We would go out every one or two weeks while I lived in southern Maine. I moved up north in 2015 so we would plan to meet a couple a year in Waterville

    She loved you guys every much and was so proud of your jobs at UNUM. Kathy loved her granddaughter and was very proud of her.

    I loved as great friend and will miss her.

    Linda

  9. Since Kathy’s mother, Clara, and my mother, Catherine, were best of friends our families spent summers, and vacations together. Even though we went to different high schools, Kathy and I remained close friends. We ended up going to U of Maine in Orono as roommates. We even went to our 50th Class Union together which was our last road trip. Even though I moved to RI we kept in touch. Every time I traveled to Me.; we would get together laugh and reminisce about all the good times we had. My last get together with my dear friend was end of August. It was a running joke every time she introduced me to someone new , she would explain that we have known each other since birth but I was the older one and would laugh.
    I will miss my longest running friendship with Kathy and a void will be in my heart when I visit Maine.
    My condolences go out to her family.
    With Sympathy,
    Peggy Monn Govednik


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