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Judith “Judy” Whiting

March 28, 1962 ~ September 6, 2026

Born in: Port-au-Prince, Haiti
Resided in: Portland, Maine

Judith “Judy” Whiting, beloved wife, mother, sister, friend, and caregiver, passed away on September 6, 2026. She was 64 years old.

Judy was born on March 28, 1962, in Port-au-Prince, Haiti. In 1969, at the age of seven, she immigrated with her family to the United States, settling in Queens, New York. Her journey from Haiti to the United States was the beginning of a life characterized by determination, resilience, compassion, and a genuine desire to help others.

While living in Worcester, Massachusetts, Judy met her husband, Douglas Whiting. Together they built a loving family and raised two children, Sabrina Bauduy-Whiting and Tripp Whiting. During her children’s early years, Judy chose to be a stay-at-home mother, dedicating herself to raising and nurturing her family.

Judy continued her studies and earned a degree as a Registered Nurse. She began her nursing career in a doctor’s office in the Worcester area. She went on to work in hospitals and public schools, bringing her warmth, patience, and caring nature to every setting. Her final role was as a paraprofessional nurse in Dublin, Ohio, where she assisted medically fragile children as they made their way through their school days. Her work with children was a fitting expression of Judy’s natural compassion and her lifelong desire to help others.

Judy loved to travel, especially to warm, sunny beaches. She treasured the opportunity to spend time with her family and, while working for the school department, particularly enjoyed having vacation time that coincided with her children’s school breaks. The family shared many wonderful vacations together, traveling to Caribbean islands, the coasts of Mexico, the southwestern United States, and Barcelona, Spain. These trips created memories that her family will cherish for years to come.

Judy also had a wonderfully creative spirit. She enjoyed all sorts of crafts, especially crocheting and sewing, as well as gardening and caring for her many indoor plants. She loved sharing the beauty and joy of her gardens with others, often giving friends and family cuttings from her plants so that something she had nurtured could continue to grow in someone else’s home. Her generosity extended naturally into everything she did.

Judy was exceptionally kind and warm. She made friends easily and had a special ability to make people feel welcome, comfortable, and cared for. Whether through her work, her friendships, her family life, her gardening, or the simple generosity of sharing a plant cutting, Judy brought something of herself to the people around her.

A Celebration of Life will be held from 2pm – 4pm on Saturday, September 26, 2026, at the new Conroy-Tully Walker, Cremation, Funeral, and Gathering Center, 300 Allen Ave. Portland, ME.

Services

Celebration of Life: Saturday, September 26, 2026 2:00 pm - 4:00 pm

Conroy-Tully Walker Cremation, Funeral & Gathering Center
300 Allen Avenue
Portland, Maine 04103


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  1. We were honored to have Judy be a part of our lives and call her our friend. We will miss her dearly. Rest easy, sweet one.
    Our sincerest condolences to all of Judy’s family members. ❤️

  2. Doug, you have been such a good loving and caring husband to your wife Judy. Her soul was filled with your love from you, her children, family and friends. God Bless you.

  3. Dear Judy,

    I am deeply saddened by your passing. I first came to the United States from China in 1989, and your husband became my first and one of my dearest American friends. Through him, I was fortunate to know you and your kindness.

    I light this candle in loving memory of you. You will be deeply missed and warmly remembered.

    With love and deepest sympathy,
    Jenny & Mike & James

  4. Judy was a lovely lady, and I was very fortunate to have her as a co-worker & friend at Grizzell Middle School. We always enjoyed a good laugh working together. She was a caring nurse to our students, and she made a huge difference in their lives. I’m sending my deepest sympathies and prayers to her family at this difficult time.

  5. Judy was absolutely an amazing woman. I was lucky enough to work with Judy at Grizzell Middle School. She was fantastic with the kids and a wonderful friend! She will be missed. My love and prayers to Judy’s family.

  6. Dear Whiting family – you are in my thoughts and prayers going through this difficult time. Judy will live on in those beautiful memories. I worked with Judy at Grizzell Middle School and witnessed her passion and love for the students and for life. Judy and I also shared interests in travel and in walking – we would walk together after school in the winter months and carry on many conversations of life and family. She had a beautiful soul.


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