Joyce Edna Heaton

joyce edna heaton

June 2, 1956 ~ September 6, 2026

Born in: Poughkeepsie, NY
Resided in: Westbrook, ME

JOYCE EDNA HEATON

We are saddened to announce the passing of Joyce Edna Heaton on September 6, 2026, at her home in Westbrook, Maine, after a short illness. Joyce was a beloved wife, mother, grandmother, sibling, friend, and devoted member of many communities.

Joyce was born on June 2, 1956, in Poughkeepsie, NY. She lived a life marked by compassion, purpose, faith, and an unwavering commitment to other people. For 40 years she was the cherished wife of Steve Ouellette, creating a home filled with love, laughter, generosity, and welcome.

Joyce was the loving mother of Madeleine (husband Immad Khan) and Isabelle, and the proud grandmother of Zayaan, Zara, and Zaiden. Her family will remember her warm embraces, encouraging words, thoughtful advice, and how she made every birthday, holiday, school event, and visit so special. She took great joy in the accomplishments of her family and was their most faithful supporter.

Joyce was President of her Poughkeepsie High School graduating class and a Fordham University graduate. She was an IBM manager, a private water company owner and manager, and the owner and operator of her special joy, the J.E. Heaton Jewelers in Millbrook, NY.

Joyce dedicated countless hours to many organizations and causes, including leadership roles in the Poughkeepsie Junior League, Millbrook Rotary Club, New Year’s Eve Millbrook, and her Portland coffee club.

Joyce was a devoted participant at State Street Church in Portland and Lyall Community Church in Millbrook. She found great comfort and fellowship with her Church families, and her kindness, presence, and concern for others touched many lives.

Joyce was admired for her grace, creativity, hard work, and ability to bring people together. Whether organizing an event, mentoring new members, volunteering, or helping someone in need, she gave generously of her time and heart. She was a thoughtful listener, a loyal friend, and a source of comfort in difficult times. Joyce had a gift for making people feel valued and loved, and her warmth, humor, strength, and generous spirit will remain in the hearts of all who were fortunate to know her.

Joyce was predeceased by her parents, Lawrence Adna and Jane Davis Heaton. She is survived by her siblings (Joanna Selim, Hooker Heaton, and Virginia Keller), many in-laws, nieces, and nephews, and a wide circle of friends, church families, colleagues, and community members, all of whom will miss her deeply.

A Celebration of Joyce’s Life will be held at 11:00 AM on September 26, 2026, at State Street Church, 159 State St., Portland, ME; and at 11:00 AM on October 3, 2026, at Lyall Community Church, 30 Maple Ave., Millbrook, NY.

In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the Dana Farber Cancer Institute, State Street Church, Lyall Community Church, or Millbrook Rotary.

Her absence leaves an immeasurable void, but her love will continue to guide those she left behind. Joyce made the world shine brighter through her faith, service, and care for others.

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  1. Although I only knew Joyce for a short time, I feel lucky to have known her at all. She welcomed me with kindness from the very beginning, and her sharp wit and sarcasm always made me smile. I especially cherish the hours we spent talking about art and history. Those conversations were thoughtful, fascinating, and something I will always remember.

    Joyce had a special way of making people feel comfortable and valued. Her warmth and generosity left a lasting impact on me, and I will carry those memories with me. Rest in peace, Joyce. You will be greatly missed. ❤️

  2. My condolences to the Heaton family. I met Joyce many years ago, and our paths crossed several times over the years. I last saw her several years ago outside her jewelry store at the Millbrook Christmas parade. She always remembered me and was so friendly and kind.

  3. ..sip..joyce….

    may you sleep in heavenly peace.

    thanks for all the childhood memories.

    the mccabe’s from pk

  4. We are so saddened to hear of Joyce’s passing and send our sincere condolences to Izzy and family. She will forever remain a beautiful light in our hearts, and we are truly grateful and blessed for knowing her during our many years in Millbrook. Our heartfelt thoughts and prayers go out to you during this difficult time.
    Marie and John Garbellano

  5. Such fond memories of Joyce and Ginny and Jane as well as all the Heatons. Indelible recollection of our trip to Europe in the 1970’s while attending DCC. I can’t ever remember a time that I didn’t know the Heaton family and feel the warmth all shared for each other. Please accept my sincere condolences on the loss of such a remarkable soul. I am grateful for having spent time with all of you. But for an obligation on the date of the Millbrook service, I would be there.

  6. Dear Heaton family, I am sorry for your loss. Joyce was wonderful; kind, smart, and really hard working. We have all benefited from her presence over the years. Best wishes to you all in these difficult times
    You noted it was short illness. I am glad for Joyce that it was short, and thank you for saying so.

  7. I am so sorry to read about Joyce’s passing. We were class presidents two years apart at PHS. In succeeding years, I would bump into Joyce unexpectedly: in Boston, at Faneuil Hall; or stuck in on I-84 in Connecticut, just four cars apart during a really bad snowstorm. I will always remember her smile, her laugh and the goodness radiating from her. My most sincere condolences to Ginny, Hooker and the rest of the Heaton Family.

  8. To all the Heaton family,
    I am so sorry to hear of Joyce’s passing. We have known the family for decades and Joyce always seemed so friendly and joyful. Jeff passed away two years ago now, but I am sure he would have joined me in sending our sympathies to the whole family. Love to you all. May God bless and comfort you.

    • As a former classmate in high school Joyce was always the “shining light”; such a friendly and warm person who most classmates knew. She had great dedication for learning which made her an exceptional student. Joyce’s bright smile, kind spirit and exuberant personality is something we would never forget. Heaven has gained a beautiful soul. May God’s peace and love comfort you during this difficult time.

  9. Hooker and Family,

    My thoughts and prayers are with you. I am sorry to have learned of Joyce’s passing. Although it has been many years, I have memories of happier times filled with laughter and friendship.

    Joe

  10. Dear joann, hooker and giny…was surfn the net..from kauai,hi…wife\’s ancesteral home..ande read the sad news..where bto begin…ok..hazel jane and dad { joe c} and his twin sis..jeannie..phs43…or wasit great g…charles c mccabe ..pk police chief…circa 1888..and davis shoes and van benschouten hardware..main st….whew…i prefer..the good ole daze..of late…joan..babysitting in 66…with all her boyfriends…the macks..pete..et al ..stoppin by 81 ferris ln..to say hi..on a hot summer night in july..or maybe it was hooker..the wlberham grad..and his …not-so.famous..popper-scooper ordinance..common concil83…i forget..but ill always remember ginny and joycee at rialee\’s 5th b-day..playin pin the tail on the donkey…ha…..or was it joycee in mrs fenners kindergarten class….ha…time marches on..and i hope this helps…will never forget dad\’s 65 convertible mustang…the first muscle carf..lol…sip..joycee….until we meet again..forever..jeff mccabe from pk….with love

  11. My condolences to Steve, Izzy, Maddie and the Heaton family. There are not many people that could bring sunshine to a community the way Joyce did. Millbrook was a better place because of Joyce and all the lives she touched in small and significant ways. May her love & memories sustain you for many years to come.

  12. Dear Heaton Family,
    Please accept our sincere condolences on the sudden illness and passing of your beloved Joyce.
    Joyce was a bright and caring friend. Down to earth and a can do member of society. She gave so much of herself and so many benefitted from her efforts.
    May the wonderful memories you all hold of your life with Joyce comfort you now. She will be greatly missed. Her contributions to our lives never leave us, they stay locked in our hearts. The mention of her name brings all those warm feelings back into the present moment. Thank you Jooyce for making such a positive difference in so many lives.

  13. Joyce was a pillar of our community in Millbrook and will be sorely missed. Her kindness, generosity and skill brought a livelihood to our community that all of us who knew her will never forget. She lives on in the work she did and her positive spirit. She will always be a part of us because of the mark she made on our community. Our sincere condolences to her family and many, many friends. With deep sadness, RIP Joyce.

  14. I met Joyce in March of 2025 at the USM Valentine’s Day concert. She was very friendly and we talked for a few minutes. I was invited for a potluck at her home in Westbrook. Joyce was a real connector! I once attended her coffee meetings on India street. We were planning to go for a walk along the river but our schedules never worked out. I’m really saddened by Joyce’s passing. My thoughts and prayers are with her family. May you rest in peace Joyce!


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