Frank T Carr
May 11, 1966 ~ June 5, 2026
Born in:
Brighton, CO
Resided in:
Portland, ME
PORTLAND, MAINE – Frank Carr, a family man, leader in the Maine business community, proud military officer, and lover of all things Naval Aviation, especially the rotary wing community, passed away on Friday, June 5, 2026.
Frank was born in Brighton, CO on May 11, 1966. He graduated from Portland High School in 1984 as a member of the boys’ varsity soccer and track teams and was the proud manager of the girls’ varsity basketball team. He went on to study General Science, with a special interest in Computer Science, at the United States Naval Academy in Annapolis, MD. As a member of the class of 1988, he was the president of the Scuba Diving Club. He served his country for 8 years, flying helicopters on tour in the Persian Gulf, and later as a search and rescue trainer at Brunswick Naval Airbase in Brunswick, ME.
Frank was a Michigan Man as much as he was a Midshipman, having graduated from Ross Business School in 1998, and relished the memories of being at the 1998 Rose Bowl and 2024 CFP Championship Game. An active member in the Maine commercial realty world, Frank was looked up to as a leader and mentor. He valued education and would eagerly coach anyone who sought his advice. He was an avid historian and knew every thread of Revolutionary War detail that ran through New England. He had countless circles of friends throughout his life and cherished the travels and adventures he had with them all.
Foremost for Frank, though, was the pride in his two daughters. Their births were the proudest moments of his life, and he always tried to create special memories together with them, even if it was just sharing an ice cream.
Frank was predeceased by his father, Thomas Eames Carr, II. Frank is survived by his daughter, Jordyn; his daughter, Hannah and her partner Alex; his granddaughter, Eleanor; the girls’ mother, Theresa; his brother, Alex and his wife Katy; his brother, Charlie and his wife Angela; his stepmother, Deborah DiDominicus Carr; and his mother, Cherie Davis. He will be missed by all who were fortunate to have known him.
In honor of Frank’s memory, we encourage anyone who may be struggling to reach out for help. Life’s burdens can feel overwhelming, but no one has to face them alone. If you or someone you know is experiencing emotional distress or thoughts of suicide, call or text 988 to connect with the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline. Help is available, and there are people who care.
Visiting hours will be held for Frank on Thursday, June 25, from 4 PM – 7 PM at the new Conroy-Tully Walker, Funeral, Cremation, & Gathering Center, 300 Allen Ave., Portland, ME. A Memorial Service will be celebrated at 2 PM on Friday, June 26, 2026, at the new Conroy-Tully Walker, Funeral, Cremation, & Gathering Center, 300 Allen Ave., Portland, ME. A reception will follow. The family kindly suggests carpooling to Frank’s services for those wishing to attend.
Arrangements are under the direction of the new Conroy-Tully Walker, Funeral, Cremation, & Gathering Center, 300 Allen Ave. Portland, ME.
In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to Maine Veteran’s Project (https://maineveteransproject.org/donation/), NAMI (https://donate.nami.org/give/197406?utm_source=globalNav&utm_medium=interstitial&utm_campaign=DonationTracking25ZAB1/#!/donation/checkout?c_src=25ZAB1), Boots 2 Roots, (https://boots2roots.org)or the Maine Historical Society (https://www.mainehistory.org/join-and-donate/donation-form/).
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Hannah and Jordyn, we are so sorry to learn of your dad’s passing. He always had that big smile, positive words….and he was sooo proud of you both!! Our prayer is that your dad is at peace…and that all of your wonderful memories with dad help you through this difficult time! Sending peace…Max and Linda Freeman
Frank was more than just a previous coworker… he was a mentor, an absolute wealth of knowledge, an ice cream aficionado, had the best taste in music, gave THE BEST hugs, an all around gentleman and above all, a friend.
My heart is so heavy for you all. He talked about his girls endlessly and was so proud. Sending so much love and comfort your way.
Frank was a once in a lifetime kind of guy. He mentored me closely and gave me the skills I needed to provide for my young family, and for that I’ll be forever grateful.
With Frank, I sampled many of southern Maine’s food offerings, went on a helicopter ride, and always enjoyed talking with him about sports, his days as a Navy helicopter pilot, and his years managing skyscraper construction projects in Chicago.
Frank was the ultimate family man, friend, professional, aviator, and patriot. My condolences go out to his family and friends.
I had the pleasure of working with Frank years ago. We had a lot of laughs and hr taught me a great deal. I’m very saddened to read about his passing. My heart goes out to his family.
Frank was one of a kind. He took me under his wing when I arrived in Maine and starting working with him. He took the time to explain a new industry to me and became a close confidant for life. He was always refining his approach to life and trying to create the perfect systems at work and home. He was so proud of his girls and talked about them with so much love. He could see humor in every situation. He was interested in so many things that we never ran out of things to talk about. He will be greatly missed.
Frank is a good friend who will be missed dearly. I am so sorry for his beautiful children- and now I learn Grandchild. We accomplished a lot together and I learned much from this proud American Veteren. May you rest in peace and never be forgotten. God Bless
I am deeply saddened to learn of Frank’s passing. He was a truly wonderful man.
I had the privilege of working with Frank during a very difficult chapter of my career. What I remember most is not the challenges of that time, but Frank’s kindness. I will never forget a lunch we shared when he took me aside and, like a big brother, reminded me to believe in myself and not let circumstances beyond my control define me. His encouragement came at exactly the right moment and left a lasting impact on me.
That was Frank—a genuinely good, sweet and caring man. He was steady, thoughtful, humble, and always willing to lift up others with humor and a gentle pat on the back. Whether sharing stories of his service as a Naval aviator, his love for the University of Michigan, or simply offering a kind word, he made people feel valued. I will always remember his smile, his generosity, and the way he showed up for people when they needed it most.
My deepest condolences to his daughters, his family, and everyone fortunate enough to have been part of Frank’s inner circle. He will be greatly missed and never forgotten.
With heartfelt condolences,
Pam (Murray) Hynes
My sister Beth just told me about your dad!!!
Words really cant express how very sorry I am for your deep loss!!
Your dad was a special caring man!!!
Watch for his star in the sky!
Love
Mrs Lawler xo
There are no words, RIP Frank !
Frank was one of those genuinely kind people you don’t forget. We worked together many years ago, and even after life took us in different directions, we stayed in touch. When I got my real estate license many years later, he took me to lunch to share his experience and encourage me as I started a new chapter.
One of my favorite memories is that I somehow became Frank’s “guinea pig” whenever he wanted to test a new Facebook or LinkedIn feature. “If I unfriend or disconnect, will they get a notification? I’ll test it out with Jean first.” It always made me laugh… and perfectly captured his curious nature and sense of humor.
I am deeply saddened by his passing and heartbroken for his girls and everyone who loved him. The world is a little less bright without his warmth, kindness, and generous spirit in it.
Rest peacefully, Frank. You made a difference in more lives than you likely realized.
I’m so saddened to hear this news. After I was divorced for a year or maybe two, Frank was a first date I had in years. He was such a gentleman and I think we talked more about our kids and real estate, since I was a broker parent as well. I went on a helicopter ride with him that was such a fun and unique experience. He always spoke so highly of his home he had in Lewiston, as I was brought up there. We had such a great friendship and it gave me hope that there are really good, honest, people out there. He was a special person in my life at that time and I will never forget him. He even created a money excel spread sheet to help me figure out my finances as a single mom. (That was not my forte, but certainly was his and he loved helping people)
Just as I love my children more than anything, he had that same feeling about his girls. Life took us in different directions but I want his girls to know that about 80% of our time together was spent talking about how much we loved our kids. He was an amazing man and will never be forgotten.
So so sorry about the passing of Frank. He will always be in my thoughts.
I had the good fortune to work with Frank many years ago and occasionally connect with him afterwards. Frank was such a good person to know and touched everyone around him. He was so warm and interesting to talk to. I didn’t get to know Franks family but I remember him talking fondly about his girls when we worked together and I hope that you all find peace and acceptance with his passing. Rest in peace Frank.
Condolences to the family, friends, and colleagues. Rest in peace.
We pray for the comfort of his daughters, whom he dearly loved, Jordan and Hanna.
Also, for his extended family and friends that knew and loved him.
His kindness and laughter will be greatly missed.
May God’s blessings and comfort be shared by all. Rest in peace Frank.
Hi Debbie
So sorry about Frank.
Paul Donahue
I had the good fortune of meeting Frank roughly five years ago. On a date! We had two dates & decided we’d make better friends – and we did. We became fast friends and I really cherished our connection. He was everything people have said- kind, fun, humble, loyal, phenomenal sense of humor, intelligent & highly respected. Frank had a spirit about life that was infectious. His love for history. The Frank’s t-shirt tour, the speak easy tour of Portland I’d heard about so many times, his love for music, travel, trivia, sports. But especially his love for people. He was an amazing friend to me- & he had so many friends that loved him the way I did. He will always be remembered & immensely missed. My heartfelt condolences to you, Hannah & Jordyn, and to all of Frank’s family. Your dad was an exceptional human being; I’ll always cherish my memories of him forever.
So sorry about the passing of Frank!
May you rest in peace! God Bless!
Our deepest condolences to his daughters, his family.
Anca and Doina from Romania
I only crossed paths with Frank as little as 15 months ago at the Core office. We ended up ( well of course Frank was a conversationist extraordinaire so he guided the conversation) discussing so many topics in such a short period of time. I think the first thing I asked was “any relation to Carr Brothers?” And we were off to the races. My father used to take me there in the early 80s every week and Frank was grinding there working as a teenager. We never crossed paths, but he knew people I grew up with and vice versa. When he told me where and how he grew up I asked for pictures, like we had known each other for many years. I used to sort brag about him to my wife “Frank says we should try such and such restaraunt.” I would say it with conviction because Frank would give me a run down of where to eat, and what specifically to order and what not to order. I would text him a pic of what he told me to order and tell him “Frank you need a side profession as a food critic”. My wife finally got to meet Frank a few weeks ago at a property showing. After the showing, the three of us stood outside the building for 45 minutes and Frank connected all the dots. She knows someone who he knows and the laughs and discussion just flowed naturally. We discussed Frank the following few days. That’s the impression he leaves. Besides enjoying your time with him, he sparks a curiosity and excitement about life that’s both contagious, appreciated, and will certainly be missed, but not forgotten. Thank you Frank for being a genuine soul.
I met Frank through various business interactions, and watched him always do the right thing. Ethical when no one was watching, and I trusted him very much. He was so intent on understanding local businesses and helping them thrive, helping families thrive. Frank was a natural mentor to all. He will be greatly missed.
Frank, I hope you find the answers to all of the connections you were making. Your stories were fascinating. And every time I go to a speakeasy or am docked in Annapolis, I will be raising my glass to you and how you lived and did it your way. And thank you again for your observations and recommendations: I have been able to apply the art of counter offering /balancing and negotiating in my favor. And for the most fun at that hotel late night in Dublin for all of your wise, kind brotherly words of advice to me. Fly High & Free Frank!