Donna M Normand

April 23, 1944 ~ September 1, 2021
Donna Marie Normand, 77, of Springvale, passed away peacefully Wednesday, September 1, 2021 following a long illness. She was born on April 23, 1944 in the Bronx, New York, the daughter of Joseph and Amelia Valentino.
She graduated from Cathedral High School in 1961, attended Bronx Community College in 1962, and Drake Business School in 1963. She was a secretary to the Advertising Credit Manager for Hearst Magazines in New York from 1963 to 1969; a secretary to the law firm Vincent Cerow and Company in New York from 1969 to 1974; and a secretary for the Capital Campaign at Nasson College in Springvale from 1976 to 1978.
She enjoyed crocheting, knitting, and ceramics and was quite skilled at each of these. She took after her father and spent lots of time in the kitchen cooking and baking. She greatly enjoyed family gathering and cooking large holiday meals. Her passions included reading, letter writing, and collecting postcards. Her passion for letter writing would lead her to finding her future husband, a pen pal stationed in Vietnam.
On November 28, 1970, she married her pen pal and the love of her life Clement Normand at St. Brendan's Church in the Bronx, New York. They lived in the Bronx from 1970 until 1974, and then moved to Springvale where they had their first and only house built in 1974.
They had one daughter, who was the central part of her life. She became a stay-at-home mom to raise her daughter, then got several cafeteria jobs in the Sanford, Maine school system for the accommodating hours and to watch her daughter grow. Anyone that knew her knew of her selfless devotion to others. She always put the needs of others before her own.
She was a member of the Pleasant Street Free Baptist Church in Springvale for many years, and even when she was no longer able to attend, always expressed her devotion to God and her love for the 23rd Psalm and Prayer of St Francis.
She was predeceased by her parents, her husband in 2007, and her aunt Adeline DeMario Maiori. She is survived by one daughter, Suzanne Normand of Steep Falls, ME; a sister Maureen Valentino of Sanford, ME; two brothers Vincent Valentino of Sanford, ME, and Albert Valentino of Delaware Water Gap, PA; and a cousin Julie Maiori of Honolulu, HI.
Visiting hours will be on Tuesday from 6 to 8 pm. at the Carll-Heald & Black Funeral Home 580 Main Street in Springvale, where a funeral service will be held on Wednesday at 10 am. Burial will follow at Oakdale Cemetery in Sanford.
In lieu of flowers donations may be made in her memory to the Samaritan's Purse Children's Heart Project online at https://www.samaritanspurse.org/ or by mail to Samaritan's Purse, PO Box 3000, Boone, NC 28607.
Condolences may be expressed at www.blackfuneralhomes.com
Thank you for your kind words. Man do I miss those meatballs!
– Suzanne
Dear Sue, So sorry to hear of your Moms passing. We worked together a few times with the School Department kitchens. She was very nice and we had great conversations. She will be missed. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Sincerely, Rachel ( Collette ) Burbank
– Rachel AC Burbank
Thank you for your kind words, she always had nice things to say about the people she worked with and I know those relationships meant a great deal to her. :)Suzanne
– Suzanne Normand
To Suzanne and the entire family, Donna was our first neighbor when we moved to Springvale 20 yrs. ago. We became very close friends [like family]. Clem and Donna were always there for us and vice-versa. Our 2 dogs adored her. ” Joey” passed away since and “Pixie” missed Donna when Donna moved to Varney Crossing. COVID interrupted our visits to her due to regulations at . Varney. We have books “signed” by her to Suzanne when Suzanne was a very young girl. We are sharing these books with our 2 young grandchildren. /
– Paul and Germaine
Suzanne,Maureen, Vincent, Albert how saddened I am to hear of Aunt Donna’s passing I remember growing up her famous meatballs she made from the famous Joe( her dad) The size of a softball! I spent many nights with at her house as she taught me how to crochet. May you all know she is no longer suffering! I cherish the time we had with you! You will live on in our hearts forever. I Love You Always. Nancy Gray
– Nancy Gray
Dear Suzanne, Paul and I wanted to tell you how sorry we are to hear of your loss. We have many memories of your Mom and how faithful she was going to church, sending cards, and always checking up on people. Paul remembered helping with your Mom and grandmother’s baptism. We know she is in the arms of Jesus. May knowing that bring you comfort. We were sorry to miss her service, as we live in MA now. God bless you. Georgia and Paul Basko
– Georgia Basko
I know you both meant a lot to my mom, and so happy to hear the grandkids will get to have those books read to them as well!Suzanne
– Suzanne Normand
Thank you for your kind words. I actually had a photo at the funeral service of Paul baptizing them. :)I hope all is well with you and your family! Suzanne
– Suzanne Normand
Thank you for your kind words, she always had nice things to say about the people she worked with and I know those relationships meant a great deal to her. 🙂
Suzanne
– Suzanne Normand
Suzanne, I am so sorry this comes so late. I just wanted to say how sorry I was to hear about your mom and having to miss her services due to family situations. I really cared about your mom and enjoyed our visits we had with each other throughout the last 30yrs. She was caring and loving. I continue to miss her cards and her letters. She never missed Bojo’s anniversary, birthday or remembering him.
Please know I care and thank you for sharing her with us. Be kind to yourself. You know where we live if you ever need to talk.
– Donna Oakley
Thank you for your kind words. I actually had a photo at the funeral service of Paul baptizing them. 🙂
I hope all is well with you and your family!
Suzanne
– Suzanne Normand
I know you both meant a lot to my mom, and so happy to hear the grandkids will get to have those books read to them as well!
Suzanne
– Suzanne Normand
Suzanne,Maureen, Vincent, Albert how saddened I am to hear of Aunt Donna’s passing I remember growing up her famous meatballs she made from the famous Joe( her dad) The size of a softball! I spent many nights with at her house as she taught me how to crochet. May you all know she is no longer suffering! I cherish the time we had with you! You will live on in our hearts forever. I Love You Always.
Nancy Gray
– Nancy Gray
Suzanne, I am so sorry this comes so late. I just wanted to say how sorry I was to hear about your mom and having to miss her services due to family situations. I really cared about your mom and enjoyed our visits we had with each other throughout the last 30yrs. She was caring and loving. I continue to miss her cards and her letters. She never missed Bojo’s anniversary, birthday or remembering him. Please know I care and thank you for sharing her with us. Be kind to yourself. You know where we live if you ever need to talk.
– Donna Oakley