Donna M. Millington
June 20, 1955 ~ January 4, 2016
Gray- Donna M. Millington, 60, passed away unexpectedly on Monday, January 4, 2016 at Maine Medical Center with her loving family by her side. Donnas strong faith and sheer joy for life continued on even after her death, with the gift of life she provided to others through organ donation. She was born in Worcester, Massachusetts on June 20, 1955 the daughter of the late Richard J. and Dorothea A. (Feeney) Millington. She graduated from South Portland High School in the class of 1973. Donna worked as Paralegal for UNUM for 28 years, retiring in 2013. Her greatest love and strongest commitment was first and foremost her family. Her son Tucker, who was the love of her life, his wife Michelle, who brought great joy to their lives, and of course her three grandchildren Rocco, Leo and Mabel, of whom the sun rose and set on. She was also adored by her nieces and nephews and was very proud of having received the title of favorite Aunt, family was everything to Donna. In her spare time, she loved to cook and enter competitions, traveling all around to enter her delicious foods, and winning many awards. She loved music and could often be heard playing the piano or the violin. Being in the outdoors, was her greatest love. Spending time boating on Casco Bay or the lakes, tending her beautiful gardens around her home or just sitting around the fire pit with family and friends, Donnas infectous sense of humor would shine. She was a devout Catholic and lifelong communicant of the Catholic Church, with strong faith and beliefs which she shared with her family. Donna is survived by her son Tucker and his wife Michelle Cianchette of Cumberland: three grandchildren Rocco, Leo and Mabel Cianchette of Cumberland; three sisters Deborah and Robert Watts of Scarborough, Dorothea and Henry Orlando Jr., of North Yarmouth, Marytracey and Alan Jensen of New Gloucester; two brothers Patrick Millington of Windham and P. Christopher Millington of Bradenton, FL; favorite Aunt of ten nieces and nephews Ashley, Benjamin, Jennifer, Trisha, Douglas, Jordan, Matthew, Angela, Michael and Felicia. Visiting hours will be held on Friday, January 8, 2016 from 3:30 to 6:00pm at Conroy-Tully Crawford Funeral Home, 172 State Street, Portland. Prayers will be recited at the funeral home on Saturday at 10:45am followed by an 11:30am Mass of Christian Burial at St. Josephs Church, 673 Stevens Ave, Portland. Burial will follow in Calvary Cemetery, South Portland. To view Donnas memorial page, or to share an online condolence, please visit www.ctcrawford.com
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My deepest sympathies to Donna’s family. Fred
– South Portland, ME
Tucker & family, I’m so sorry for your loss. Donna was the kind of person who gave off that matter of fact attitude that you couldn’t help but love. I’ll never forget when I told Donna my mom’s name was Rita and the next time I saw your mom was when she came over with John and brought an elaborate gingerbread house for us to target practice on. She also brought over a framed picture for me of St. Rita of Cascia: Saint of the Impossible which I still cherish. She will never be forgotten in this chapter of her life while she is now writing the next.
– Wayne Whitaker
Peace to the whole family. Tucker I used to watch you when you were younger and your mom loved you so much warm hugs to you. Kim Murphy
– Kim Murphy
I grew up living next door to Donna and her family in Northborough, MA. Even though we all lost touch over the years I’ve often thought of everyone. I am so sorry to hear of Donna’s passing and would like to express my condolences to all of you. God Bless!
– Paula (Bosse) Moynihan
So sorry Tucker for you and your family. I have such great memories with your Mom. She is probably the most pure, unfiltered, honest person I’ve ever known. Though her body may have left the universe there is no way her spirit won’t live on forever. Listen and you will hear her. Love, Barb
– Barbara Russell Gardner
My heart is so broken for your family and friends but I feel the people on earth suffer more. Fly with the wind my friend, and I’m sure my Joseph and Anthony will BE waiiting with ST PETER at the pearly gates. If they try to charge you admision, please kick thier butts for me. Lol. I love you Donna. “and if you have the choice to sit it out or dance, why don’t you dance”. Xoxo
– Mary scalli crosen hand
Tucker and Family, so sorry to hear of your mom’s passing; thoughts and prayers for you.
– Jerry Howard
Our thoughts&prayers are with you.The world will not be same , she was a beautiful funny amazing woman, that will be missed by all! Love Duane&Sandra
– Duane&Sandra Ross
To the entire Millington family,I just read of Donna’s passing and so sorry and sad for all,of you. The Donna I remember was always smiling and laughing, and I always enjoyed being around her. I remember when you all moved here to Maine and all the fun our families would have together, Donna will be profoundly missed. Please accept my deepest condolences during your time of sadness.
– Susan Sawtelle Coughlin
Tucker and Family,My sincere condolences for your loss that happened way too soon. Donna spread joy and kindness to all she met. I will cherish fond memories of how she helped me throughout my Uncle’s illness (who she called Bobby). You and her entire family are in my prayers.Janet
– Janet
My Dear Tucker and Family, I am sending you the deepest of sympathies in the incredible unexpected passing of your Mother and the lost to her sisters and family. Donna was one of a kind and I loved her greatly and will miss her every day of my life! She was the most kind loving women I have ever known and Tucker the sun and rose on you just for the record I am sincerely so very sorry in your loss as Donna was and is an Angel now and forever. God bless each of you!
– Mary Ann Dearden
Alan, Mary Tracy, Michael and FeliciaThoughts and prayers may you reach His peace knowing Donna was called to continue serving our Lord by helping other people. We know without a doubt that our Donna is rejoicing in her new home. I too will miss her deeply. Blessings to all of you.
– Wade and Suzie Trudel
Tucker,We were so sorry to learn of the passing of your Mom. The world has lost a bright light. We worked with your Mom for many years at Unum. David and your Mom were in the same department and enjoyed almost daily laughs. She brightened Nancy’s day whenever their paths crossed. She was a joy, a loving and funny person. Please know we keep you and your entire family in our thoughts and prayers. Nancy and David Brenerman
– Nancy and David Brenerman
Tucker and family, Wally and I are so sorry and shocked to hear about your mom. Donna and I have so many memories together and she will always hold a special place in my heart. Know that we are praying for you all as you walk through this valley. I’m sure there is a nonstop party of celebration in Heaven. I can just picture her dancing on streets of gold in her brand new body!! Love you all!!
– Patti Camp
I worked with Donna at Unum and have missed her wit and wise-cracks. She was so sweet to me when my own Mom passed suddenly. My sympathy to her family, who she always spoke of with a special gleam in her eyes.
– Margaret Busby
Tucker & familyMy deepest sympathy on your mother’s passing. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. May her memory be eternal.
– George Torosian
I attended University of Maine with Donna.Her, Frank M., Celeste, and I all hung around together at Frank’s apartment on Park Ave. and at school. When I lived in Portland (most of my life) I would run into her at stores around town and we would commiserate about those days. I liked her a lot and she was a good person. I will miss her.
– Dave Levesque, Auburn Maine
My dearest friend and spiritual side-kick, Donna, God makes choices for us that we don’t understand and loosing you is a painful decision He made and we now have to follow His path, without questioning His ways. I love you wicked girlfriend. Watch for me and meet me at the Gate…….promise. I’ll bring you a beer and wine glass if they let me. LOL
– Susie Trudel
Tucker and fam..John and Travis tooWe All are hurting from the pain of this all too SOON departure of a FINE young woman..Just want you to KNOW that we are thinking of all of you at this most difficult time in ones life….She will be shining down on you and her Family … God has yet ANOTHER ANGELlovingly,Bill and diane (Amos)
– Bill and Amos Francoeur
Although you have gone too soon you are in a place of family who gather to watch over the rest of us who will join you one day. You will be missed by many, remembered by many more.My condolences to your family. Until we meet again.Cher
– Cher