
Betty M. Bernier, 92, of Sanford, passed away peacefully on Monday, June 1, 2026, at Southern Maine Health Care in Biddeford, surrounded by the love and memories of a life well lived.
Born in Portland, Maine, on July 11, 1933, Betty was one of nineteen children born to Martin and Eveleen (England) Tuttle. She grew up in Sanford, where she attended local schools and graduated from Sanford High School. In 1954, she married the love of her life, Roland Bernier. Together they built a home filled with love, laughter, and devotion, raising two children and sharing nearly 55 wonderful years of marriage before Roland’s passing in 2009.
Betty spent many years working in the local shoe shops, where she formed lasting friendships and became known for her strong work ethic and warm personality. Outside of work, she found joy in the simple pleasures of life. She loved knitting and crocheting beautiful handmade gifts for family and friends, completing puzzles, reading magazines, and spending time shopping. One of the highlights of her week was her cherished Thursday outings with “the girls,” which she always eagerly anticipated.
A devout Catholic, Betty was a faithful communicant of St. Therese of Lisieux Parish in Sanford. Her faith guided her throughout her life and was reflected in her kindness, generosity, and compassion toward others.
Above all else, Betty was a loving and devoted mother, grandmother, and great-grandmother. Affectionately known as “Ah Ah Grammy” by her grandchildren and great-grandchildren, she treasured every moment spent with her family. She was a wonderful cook who took great pride in preparing delicious meals and gathering loved ones around her table. Betty’s home was always a welcoming place, filled with warmth, laughter, and plenty of good food.
Friendly, outgoing, and genuinely caring, Betty seemed to know everyone she met. She was blessed with many friends and never failed to greet others with a warm smile. Loved by all who knew her, she had a gift for making people feel special and valued. She also found great enjoyment in feeding and watching the birds that visited her yard, a pastime that brought her much peace and happiness.
Betty served as a remarkable role model for her family, demonstrating through her actions the importance of faith, kindness, hard work, and unconditional love. Her legacy lives on in the countless lives she touched, and she will be deeply missed by all who had the privilege of knowing her.
She was predeceased by her parents; her beloved husband, Roland Bernier; her son, Ricky Bernier; and many of her brothers and sisters.
Survivors include her daughter, Linda Houle and her husband, Michael, of Sanford; two grandchildren, Brock Houle and his wife, Angela, of Florida, and Mandy Edmonds and her husband, Chris, of Sanford; two great-grandchildren, Betty Houle of Florida and Violet Edmonds of Sanford; her sister, Lena Campbell and her husband, Don, of Wells; as well as many beloved nieces, nephews, extended family members, and friends.
A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:00 AM on Tuesday, June 9th at St. Therese of Lisieux Parish, located on North Avenue in Sanford. Interment will follow at Limington Village Cemetery.
Those planning an expression of sympathy are asked to consider making a memorial contribution in Betty’s name to the Epilepsy Foundation at www.epilepsy.com/donate.
Arrangements are under the direction of Black-Heald & Walker Funeral Home and Cremation Service, Sanford-Springvale.
To leave a message of condolence for the family, please visit www.blackfuneralhomes.com.








BETTY WILL ALWAYS BE REMEMBERED BY THE WARMTH THAT SHE SHARED WITH ALL WHO HAD THE PRIVILEDGE TO CROSS HER PATH. HER SMILE WAS CONTAGIOUS.
Rest in peace dear Betty. You were the kindest most forgiving person I have ever known. Always putting everyone ahead of you. God just called a special angel home.
God Bless you all!
Linda and family, your mom was one of a kind every time we saw each other no matter where it was, we would smile at each other and just have to talk and talk about when we met. The Tuttle family were always in my heart. Linda a great friend in High School someone even took a picture of us laughing in the hallway with our smiles and mouth wide open still having fun. Now your mom is with her Ricky and her love of her life. RIP Betty Carrie Brunette Martin
Linda, Mike and family,
Rick and I send you our deepest condolences. Betty was truly a special person. She had kind words and a smile for everyone who was lucky enough to know her. We think of you fondly.
Betty you surely will be missed always caring and you would light up a room with your laughter
Linda, Mike and family, so sorry to hear this news.
So many fond memories of our families spending time together especially at the holidays. Aunt Betty was always welcoming, gregarious, and such a joy to spend time with.
Our holidays were always loud filled with laughter and featured great food. I fondly remember and speak often of her Lasagna, and Pineapple Upside Down cake!
Our sincerest condolences, we will keep you in our thoughts and prayers. Though we haven’t spent much time in Maine in recent years whenever we saw Aunt Betty it was like time had never passed.
with love,
Michael & Lisa Baron
Olmsted Falls, Ohio
Linda and Dave
Sorry to hear of your family’s loss. When I think of your mom is always with a smile.
Thoughts and prayers are with you at this time