Austin Gary Ham

austin ham

October 11, 1995 ~ December 20, 2023


Resided in: Sanford, Maine

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Austin Gary Ham 1995-2023 SANFORD—Austin Gary Ham, 28, of Sanford, died on Wednesday, December 20, 2023 at his home. He was born in Biddeford on October 11, 1995 and was the hilarious handful/ only child of Jason R. Ham and Heidi L. Demers. He grew up in Sanford and graduated from Sanford High School. Austin learned to operate all types of machinery while working with his father, and he had several jobs over the years operating heavy equipment, most recently with J.A. Simpson Inc. Austin would unwind with a ride on his motorcycle or by driving junkers through some mud. Austin loved everything about Chevy Trucks, owning and working on several, including some square bodies–the older the better. He was even known to burn a little rubber in his trucks while cranking tunes and singing off key. Additionally, he liked snowboarding and spending time with his dogs, Lexi and Levi, and hanging out and raising h*ll with his countless friends. Austin is predeceased by his fiancé, Desserrae Dutil, who also passed this year, as well as his maternal grandparents, Alan and Jackie Demers. He is survived by his parents, Jason and Heidi, his paternal grandparents, Gary and Nancy Ham of Sanford, and his cousins, Jodi, Abbi, Alan-Michael, Brooke, Micah, Kylar, and Kelty. A time to remember Austin will be held at the Carll, Heald and Black Funeral Home, 580 Main Street, Sanford on Friday January 5 from 4:00 to 7:00 pm. There will be an informal service when memories, no matter how ridiculous, can be shared at 5:00 pm.

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  1. Austin was a family friend and we spent so much time growing up together much like cousins. He was all about trucks and I was all about dolls so we never had much in common to talk about! We spent days climbing trees or riding bikes never saying much but always on the go, Austin made sure of that! I loved it when there was a golf cart or four wheeler around because even if it was broken or needed something Austin wasn’t afraid to run it. I think we were 10 or 11 when my mom asked what he was doing with our golf cart, she wondered if he was breaking it. I said “NO – he’s fixing it! I can’t get it to drive, but he can!”

    I’ll always cherish the memories from childhood and remember Austin as someone who stayed true to what he loved: to laugh, have fun, and anything with a motor and wheels.

    Sending all my love to Jay and the family. You’re in my thoughts and prayers and we love you. ♥️

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  14. . He and I became facebook friends. Most often he would ask me if I had learned lattice yet. It always gave us a good laugh..

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  16. Austin had a difficult time with multiplication—especially since I taught it the “old-fashioned” way. He asked if he could use the “lattice” method, which I knew nothing about. Of course, I agreed, so he spent lots of time trying to teach that method to me. I never did learn it.

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  17. He was polite, handsome young man with a wonderful sense of humor. He was willing to put forth his best effort all the time. He enjoyed being successful.

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  22. Jason,
    I didn’t know Austin but I know you.
    I don’t know any words to express how sorry I am to hear of your loss.
    My heart hurts for you and your family.
    I am sorry.
    Jeff Hooper

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  24. My deepest condolences, too young an gone to soon. Austin an Desserrae gone too soon an too young 💔I pray you are dancing almost the angels 🙏🏻🙏🏻much love to both of you ❤️

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  26. My heart is absolutely broken 💔 you his family esp his mother whom we shared lots of young memories with him he was sooooo funny an sweet an will surely be missed greatly

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  27. When he was six he told us he needed to use the bathroom well he actually emptied an entire exfoliating scrub an baby oil into the tub as his own personal slip n slide lmao 🤣 that memory will forever stick an all we could do was laugh at him but man poor heidi spent hours getting it out of his hair

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  30. Pretend punching memere, “prince powers”, puh-torn, movie nights, motorcycle rides, inappropriate game nights, when you grew into the size of your gigantic head.

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  32. Austin always had a Smile ! and never said No to anyone , hard Working, and could Operate any thing Mechanical or Not . Always had a Project or 2 going . 🏁🏁

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  37. I met Austin in second grade, digging in the sandbox. I remember that’s how we spent every recess…just digging holes and throwing sand at each other.

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  56. I’m in shock to learn of Austin’s passing, but finding solace knowing he is with the love of his life, Desi. I can hear her saying “what took you so long”. Austin, if we only knew what you needed to stay here with us, but God chose you to reunite with the other half of your broken heart. When I plant Desi’s butterfly bush in the spring, I’ll be sure to plant something strong and vibrant to represent you. Godspeed kiddo. You’ll never be forgotten.

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