Sylvia M. Sherwood

sylvia sherwood

Sylvia Sherwood (Clukey) of Portland, Maine passed away on Thanksgiving November 27, 2025.

She was born in Waterville, Maine to Earl Edward and Rose Ouellette Clukey. She was the youngest of six children and grew up near her grandparents, uncles, aunts, and many friends. Sylvia shared early memories of Sunday gatherings after church at her grandparents’ home and many stories of skating, sledding, and going to the movies with her brothers and sisters. Sylvia loved being around family her entire life.

She attended Waterville High School and Thomas Business College before marrying Richard Kennedy Clifford and having 4 children. They lived in Shawmut, Maine. Upon Richard’s death (1969), the family moved to Yarmouth Maine. Sylvia was married to Gordon Sherwood for 47 years; he passed on Thanksgiving Day 2017. Together they enjoyed going to camp, boating, renovating property, socializing with friends and family, and traveling to Europe, South America, Canada, and throughout the United States, often for family events. They lived in Ohio and South Carolina before returning to Maine. Most recently, Sylvia lived at Ashton Gardens in Portland, where she made many new friends. Over the years, Sylvia worked for the Internal Revenue Service (IRS), and she was a realtor as well as co-owner of Gordon’s Deli and a small trucking business.

Sylvia was an adventurous person and “good sport.” She was an avid swimmer and enjoyed skiing, kayaking, hiking, and camping. She ran a 5K race in her 60s and did CrossFit in her 80s. She encouraged all her children and grandchildren to go to college and pursue various degrees. Sylvia believed that education was a gift and she was proud of her family’s accomplishments. To fulfill a lifelong dream and as a testament to her courage, she enrolled as a freshman at the University of Southern Maine in 2023, taking online and in person courses. She loved the students, faculty, and learning environment. She learned to use the computer and completed assignments with pride. One of her favorite assignments was to explore Maine history. She wrote a beautiful story about her mother who voted in the first election where women were allowed to vote. She planned to write more stories upon graduation (which she would have completed in May 2026).

Sylvia is survived by her children: Jeanne and Larry Stwarka; Jane and Mike O’Brien; Judy and Peter Cohn; Father Ed Clifford; stepson Jeff Sherwood.

She loved her grandchildren and their significant others: Michael Stwarka and Melonye Cleveland, David Stwarka and Shakira Botello, Jonathan and Megan Stwarka, Jennifer Cohn and Joshua Wills, Stephanie Cohn and Aaron Weber, Amy Cohn and Tim Shulga, Scott O’Brien, Alison O’Brien, and Molly O’Brien.

She adored her 3 great grandchildren Vivienne, Simon, and Lily Stwarka and looked forward to the arrival of Ori Clifford Wills (to be announced). Lorenzo Stwarka preceded her death.

Sylvia was preceded in death by her siblings – Shirley and Eudor Loubier, Martha and Rudolph Mahue; Earl and Gloria Clukey, Jimmy Clukey, Billy Clukey and many nieces and nephews.

She will be remembered by her nieces and nephews, family, and friends for her sense of humor, kindness, and homemade cookies.

Visiting Hours will be held from 4-6PM on Monday, December 1, 2025, at the Conroy-Tully Walker Cremation, Funeral and Gathering Center, 300 Allen Avenue, Portland. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at 11AM on Tuesday, December 2, 2025, at St. Martha’s Church, 30 Portland Road, Kennebunk with The Most Reverend James T. Ruggieri as Principal Celebrant. The Very Reverend Edward Clifford will be the Homilist. Interment will take place at a later date at St. Francis Cemetery in Waterville.

Services

Visiting Hours: Monday, December 1, 2025 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm

Conroy-Tully Walker Cremation, Funeral & Gathering Center
300 Allen Avenue
Portland, Maine 04103


Mass of Christian Burial: Tuesday, December 2, 2025 11:00 am

St Martha Church
30 Portland Road
Kennebunk, Maine 04043


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  1. It was such a pleasure spending time with your mother on our recent pilgrimage to Canada. She was so very healthy and active at that time. I hope her passing was peaceful, just like the great lady was around us. How coincidental she passed on Thanksgiving as your father did so many years ago. They are together again in heaven.

  2. May many fond memories be a blessing to the family and friends of Sylvia. It was truly a joy to have been able to spend some time with her in past years. May God grant her eternal peace.

  3. hi Father Clifford, I was so sorry to hear of your moms passing. She was a lovely person. I lived with her at Ashton and liked going to the cathedral with her and eating at Ashton gardens and visiting. So sorry for your family. I will miss her. Take care, From, Kristen Tully

  4. So saddened to hear of aunt Margie’s passing.She always had a smile and a gentle loving way about her. Sending my heartfelt condolences to Jeannie,Judy,Jane Father Eddie and family as we all reminisce many memories of a lovely lady.

  5. Father Ed, I am so sorry for your loss. Your Mom sounds like someone I would have enjoyed knowing. May she rest in heavenly peace.

  6. My prayers and thoughts are with you Fr. Ed!
    Your Mother was a wonderful person who cared about people and how they were doing.
    She always had time for people and genuinely cared about others.
    May your dear Mother rest in God’s eternal peace.
    God bless you and your family Fr. Ed.

  7. Jeanne, Jane, Judy and Ed. I spent the weekend looking through old photo albums with my mom and there were many pictures of us spending time with you, Sylvia and Gordon. It brought back memories of many special times. There was a picture of me and Ed at your cottage in the ocean with seaweed all over us. All of you in the RV at our home in Sault Ste. Marie and hanging out at your home in Maine. I remember the look on Sylvia and Gordons face when I pulled up on my Harley Davidson a few years ago with all my friends on motorcycles. Big smiles!! Sylvia will always have a special place in my heart, and I am thankful to have been part of her life. Please take care of yourselves.

  8. Sylvia was one of my students at USM two years ago. She enrolled in my class “Lying With Graphs,” which was a critical thinking and quantitative reasoning class. Sylvia was one of my favorite students – always cheerful and curious. Her perspective and experiences lent a lot to the class. I was igreatly nspired by her and I know the other students were as well. My sincere condolences.


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