Michele M. Nee

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South Portland-Michele M. Nee, 59, of Broadway, died Thursday, October 22, 2015, at Mercy Hospital in Portland. She was born in Portland on April 15, 1956, a daughter of John R. and Alicia J. (Silke) McCarthy. She attended local schools and graduated from South Portland High School, class of 1974. She went on to earn her Associate Degree in dental hygiene from the University of Maine. She married Daniel R. Nee on September 16, 1978, at St. Johns Church in South Portland, and together merged two great Irish families into one. Michele grew up as the youngest of five girls in her family. She was a fun-loving, tender child known for her small size and big spirit. Her kind, outgoing nature allowed her to easily build lifelong friendships. She was proud of her Irish heritage. She hosted St. Patricks Day parties at her home and fulfilled a lifelong dream when she visited Ireland with her husband and daughter Caitlan. She enjoyed annual visits to the Samoset Resort and camp at Granny Kent Pond, music, and reading mystery novels. In her later years she enjoyed her time spent with her grandchildren Samuel and Shiloh. Michele faced decades of illness and declining health with exceptional grace and dignity. She never complained and stayed positive. Her example of personal strength and faith inspired everyone she met. She is predeceased by her parents; a daughter, Meghan McCarthy Nee; and a sister, Karen Coyne; and two brothers-in-law, Thomas Coyne and Peter Coyne She is survived by her loving husband of 37 years; a daughter, Caitlan Abrahamson and husband Garrett of Saco; three sisters, Alicia M. Coyne of Portland, Nancy McCarthy-Marsden and husband Joel of Cape Elizabeth, and Mary-Jo McCarthy Heal and husband Durmont of South Portland; two grandchildren, Samuel and Shiloh Abrahamson; and many nieces, nephews, great-nieces, great-nephews, and cousins. The family wishes to extend a special thank you to Micheles personal care giver, Sally Chikuta. Visiting hours will be 2:00-5:00 pm, today, at Conroy-Tully Crawford South Portland Chapel, 1024 Broadway, South Portland. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated 11:00 am Monday at Holy Cross Church, 124 Cottage Road, South Portland. Private burial will take place at Calvary Cemetery, South Portland. To view Micheles memorial page or share online condolences please visit www.ctcrawford.com.

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  1. My deepest sympathy to you Danny and your family. We all loved Michele and will miss her smiling face. Love to you all Robin

    – Robin Booth Goodwin

  2. Dear Dan and family. My heartfelt sympathy to all your family and loved ones in the passing of your loved , Michele. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

    – Barbara Martin

  3. I’m so sorry to hear of Michele’s passing and am thinking of you all. Unfortunately, I arrived in Florida yesterday so will be unable to attend her visitation and service physically but will be there spiritually. Hugs and prayers to Michele’s many friends and family members.Love, Joy

    – Joy

  4. Dear Dan and extended family,We are sorry to hear of Michele’s death. We have so many fond memories of the years she was our colleague in pediatric dentistryWith deepest sympathy, Dr. John, Lois and Bev

    – Falmouth Pediatric Dentistry

  5. Dear Nancy and Family, I am so sorry to see that your sister has passed away. I will be thinking about you at this difficult time. Sincerely, Jane Seymour Pearson, formerly of Cole Street, South Portland now of Cape Coral, Florida

    – Hane Seymour Pearson

  6. What a bright and shining star Michele was! I have many fond memories of the “ole gang” from junior high and high school and can still hear Michele’s infectious laugh 🙂 She was always so fully self-expressed (before it was popular to be so). I remember us girls going to see the movie “Love Story” when it first came out, we were in junior high, and I think we sat in the front row of the theater. Of course, we were all crying during the movie but I remember Michele was FULL-ON, bawling hysterically and I mean LOUD! She didn’t care-never one to hold back on her feelings-ahh Michele…u gotta love that about her 🙂 I’m thinking of your warm spirit now and missing your presence here on earth. Lucky them angels! 🙂 Much love and peace.xxoo

    – Joanne DiMauro

  7. So sorry for your loss I never knew Michelle but sure she was as sweet and kind and full of love and happiness as you are mary jo……..Lov u. God bless and prayers……

    – joann zeegers

  8. I have so many memories of Michele and her family. My sister, Karen and I found longtime, lifelong friendships with the McCarthy family. We have shared grief and joy, happiness and sadness. I will always remember the infectious smile and that laugh that would cause tears to stream down her face! Michele showed so much love and friendship to so many. We will love you and miss you.

    – Jo Gill Richards

  9. Remembering many good times from years gone by. Michelle had a special aura that always shined brightly whenever that smile of hers appeared. She was a wonderful person and will be sadly missed by all.

    – Jan and Charlie Shannon

  10. Hi Dan & family……. so sorry to hear about your loss of Michele. I know we haven’t talked in MANY years but if there’s one thing I remember about you & Michele was your love in your high school days. Man… you two were a pair and I truly admire your years of love and support of each other since then. That’s what love and commitment is all about…… be strong and realize that your love of each other will carry on through your family.

    – Pete Coughlan


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