Joan E. Macisso

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Portland-Joan Elizabeth Macisso, 86, of Wilson Street, passed away peacefully on Monday, July 22, 2019 at Mercy Hospital with her loving family by her side. Joan was born the only child of the late John J. and Loretta M. (Roma) Lamon on November 27th, 1932. She attended local schools and was a proud graduate of Portland High School class of 1951. There is something about a man in a uniform, from the U.S. Navy to the Portland Fire Department, she met and married Martin T. Macisso Jr. Her belief in angels gave her 6 beautiful children who were an extension of her. Together they raised them on Munjoy Hill. A member of the Cerebral Palsy Mother's Club, PTA, Portland Fire Auxillary, and an appointed city election clerk. Her love of life, family, friendships, and all of the good they bring were her stepping-stones. Together, she and Martin would travel to St. Thomas, Italy, Ireland, Belgium, Boston, Hawaii, along with various bus trips to NYC and Quebec. During those trips, she made friends for life, some of whom she would not see again, but whom she would send Christmas cards to every year and receive tales in response of how their families were doing. Joan enjoyed her flowers and gardening around her yard. She was an amazing cook and baker. When it came to the holidays, whether it be Christmas, Easter, May Day, July 4th, and even St. Paddy's Day, she was in her glory. The house on Wilson Street had an open door policy. Each holiday had its own set of decorations to which she would set out a menu for the occasion. Everyone was welcome and no one ever left hungry or not feeling loved. Joan was a giver, if you gave her something, you would always receive something in return. She loved people and could talk with anyone; she was a sincere person who was loved by those who met her. She was referred to as Ma, Nana, Aunt Joan, Mrs. Macisso, Joanie and to the Van Dam children (Sam, Peter, and Abigail), she was Mimi, whom she had nannied for many years. Even after the children were grown, Joan maintained a close relationship with the family. To her own grandchildren, Joan was devoted to their passions and proud of their achievements. Always offering encouragement and keeping in touch with them all, no matter how far they traveled. Joan left behind so many friends and family who loved and cared deeply for her, and were held in her warm embrace, but none more special than best friend and sister-in-law Jacqueline Marcisso and her husband Samuel; a special son, David Duffy and family. The family would like to thank her other angels, Dr. Anna Niegowska and her team of nurses Karen, Lori, Jenny, and Risa for their wonderful and attentive care and Dr. Christopher Kleeman. And a special thanks to Dr. Anish Pithadia of Mercy Hospital for his utmost expertise and devotion to Joan in her final days. Joan sadly leaves behind her husband of 68 years, Captain Martin T. Macisso Jr; two daughters, Jean and her husband Scott Proctor of Saco, and Elizabeth Macisso of Boynton Beach, FL; four sons, Martin Macisso III of Portland, Stephen and his wife Francine Macisso of Portland, John and his wife Maureen Macisso of Portland, and Michael and his wife Lynnda Macisso of Plymouth, MA; ten grandchildren, Stephen Macisso Jr., Casey Kondik, Christopher Macisso, James Macisso, Michael Macisso, Dante Macisso, Joseph Macisso, Lindsey Proctor, Ryan Proctor, and Patrick Skibiski; four great grandchildren, Ava Macisso, Natalie Macisso, Owen Macisso, and Shea Kondik; many nieces and nephews. Visiting hours celebrating Joan's life will be held on Wednesday, July 31, 2019 from 4:00pm to 7:00pm at the Conroy-Tully Walker South Portland Chapel, 1024 Broadway, South Portland. Prayers will be recited at the Chapel at 9:15am on Thursday, August 1, 2019 followed by a 10:00am Mass of Christian Burial at the Cathedral of the Immaculate Conception, 307 Congress Street, Portland. Burial will follow in Calvary Cemetery, Broadway, South Portland. To view Joan's memorial page, or to share an online condolence, please visit www.ConroyTullyWalker.com For the many times it benefited her personally, in lieu of flowers, Joan and her family would appreciate those who are able, to consider a blood donation to the Red Cross or local blood bank.

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  1. My Nana could turn a lengthy bus ride to Quebec into a fun little world for me. She would pack lots of snacks and we would play bingo with papa and whoever else on the bus wanted to play. On the way back she would always ask me what I bought and insist on me showing her every little thing. This goes for anytime I went shopping! Which was a lot haha I can’t describe her with words, all I can say is she IS the most incredible nana a little girl could ever ask for

    – Lindsey Proctor

  2. Marty, I am sorry to hear of the passing of your wife. She was a remarkable person. I am glad you both had so many years together. Sincerely, Buddy Winslow.

    – Buddy Winslow

  3. Joan will be sadly missed by all that knew her for warmth,caring and generosity…. she was a treasure. Dave Francis

    – David Francis

  4. Our condolences and prayers are with the family, we are very sorry for your loss. Marie and Terry Wogan

    – Marie Wogan

  5. Wishing you peace and comfort in the days ahead and living memories to treasure forever in your hearts. Our love and prayers for all of your family. GiGi & Andy

    – GiGi

  6. Liz, so very sorry! Deepest condolences to you all & all those who shared so many, precious times with her. Thoughts and prayers with you all!

    – Michele Sturgeon

  7. Truly a kind and gentle soul! Going back to my youth I can never remember Mrs Macisso being anything but a kind and loving person, the world was a much better place because she was in it. My condolences to the family she will be sorely missed but she will always be with you. Tony Quattrucci

    Tonyq@dimillos.com

  8. Dear Jean, Liz, Mike, John, Steve, Marty & Marty and the entire Macisso Family: There are not enough words to tell you how deeply sorry we are for your loss. Joan was an angel on this earth and loved by all. I have so many wonderful memories at your home through the years. Joan loved her family more than anything in this world and made everyone she met along the way feel special and loved. There are too many wonderful adjectives to describe her. The world was a better place for having her in it and we should all aspire to be like her. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. May all your wonderful memories bring you peace. Love to you all. Lori (Fusco), David, Hayden & Anthony O’Donnell

    – Lori Fusco O’Donnell

  9. This was the last time I saw Joan, last month. She always had a smile and a kind word. My thoughts and prayers go out to the whole Macisso family.

    – Cathy Walker

  10. Joan will be missed by so many people. I remember her smile and great cooking. Such a dear and caring woman and mother. Remember her up to Sunday River with Marty. What great times we had there. I will miss her

    – Gary Colasanti

  11. Marty and Macisso family, I am saddened to hear the passing of such a beautiful woman… She will always be Mrs.Peaks Island , God bless her beautiful soul

    – Laurie MacDonald

  12. So very sorry to hear of your mothers passing She had such a welcoming smile and made you happy you stopped to say hi. Please accept my deepest condolences.

    – Marianne DiPietro

  13. This was the last time I saw Joan, last month. Always a smile on her face and a kind word. Thinking of the whole Macisso family, with love.

    – Cathy Walker

  14. Marty and family, I’m so sorry for your loss, you truly had a lovely wife and Mom. Reading her obituary I know she was a giving person in return for what she got. She wanted to make her famous Italian cake but could not find Anise. I gave some to make her cake, she wanted to pay me but I insisted no it’s my gift to you. She in return made me my own cake as a thank you and my own recipe. I will think of her as I cook that cake. I will miss her at the Cathedral and also at elections working beside her. God Bless all of you. Dottie Rodney

    dorothy.rodney@yahoo.com


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