Donna Wentworth Sterling

January 8, 1940 ~ August 24, 2023
Resided in:
Cape Elizabeth, Maine
Cape Elizabeth - The world lost a beautiful soul on August 24, 2023. Donna W. Sterling, a longtime resident of Cape Elizabeth, passed away peacefully after a life lived with love, kindness, and a touch of fearlessness.
A resident of Cape Elizabeth, Donna Anne Wentworth was born January 8, 1940, the daughter of George A. and Edith Marshall Wentworth in Gardiner, Maine. Donna grew up surrounded by family, grandparents, aunts, uncles, and cousins on Maple Street. Her youth was rich in love and a strong work ethic.
Donna excelled academically, musically, and athletically at Gardiner High School. Standing five feet and a 1/2 inch (“I am over 5 feet tall”), Donna was the starting center for the 1958 State Champion Basketball Team, a win she and her teammates relished.
Donna married her truest love and greatest friend, David Ingalls Sterling on July 7, 1958, in Kennebunk, ME. Together they adored their family and enjoyed activities during their 56 years of marriage, skiing, golfing, traveling, and cruising the coast of Maine on the Just Grand.
Donna graduated from the University of Maine, earning a BA.
Oh, to be blessed to have Mrs. Sterling as your teacher. Donna spent four decades teaching; etching an impression on students in Auburn, Lewiston and South Portland, ME. Her focus was Special Education, but her interest was in every student in the building. She baked cakes for birthdays she knew would not be celebrated otherwise and she always had words of encouragement to motivate students to be their best self. There are more than a few people who chose teaching as their vocation because of the difference she made in their lives, whether they were in her home base or in a classroom she led.
David and Donna were blessed with four surviving children, each achieving success in their own way and mom as the biggest inspiration and cheerleader a child could imagine. Raising her family in Auburn, ME, Donna was known as the “Taxi Driver;” whether it was band or debate after school or golf, football, skiing, or softball she was always there to carry them home. She never missed an event they participated in, often wearing her rabbit fur coat, bought in Hawaii ‘on sale,’ bringing good luck!
As a grandmother, Nan discovered her most treasured jewels in Michael, Christopher (Toey), David, and Alex. Nan and Grand led their charges on land and sea. Nan loved spending time with her grandsons, teaching them to be curious, reading, and playing games.
Donna was a friend to many and her imprint will last on all who had the pleasure of knowing her. Donna will be missed by her four adoring children, Margaret and Stephen Benson of Salem, MA, Marsha Sterling and James Roberts of Winchester, CT, Marla and Chip LeBlanc of South Portland, and David Sterling of Auburn, ME; her cherished grandsons, Michael LeBlanc, Christopher and Kyley LeBlanc, David Sterling, and Alexander Sterling; as well as a sister, niece, and nephew.
Visiting hours will be held from 4-7pm on Thursday, August 31, 2023, at the Conroy-Tully Walker Funeral Home, 172 State Street, Portland. A funeral will be held at 10am on Friday, September 1, 2023, at Cathedral Church of St. Luke, 143 State Street, Portland, followed by a burial at Riverside Cemetery. To view Donna’s memorial page, or to share an online condolence, please visit www.ConroyTullyWalker.com
In 1962 Tom & I, Donna & David and their
two year old daughter Meg were attending a Christmas Eve service at the Milford Cong. Church. It being the Christmas Eve Service, there were a lot of candles lit. Meg pointed to the candles and Donna said those are God’s
candles and Meg said loudly “Blow out
God’s Candles! So cute!
I will miss you, my Dear Friend of 61 years.
My Dear Friend, I will miss our talks and you will be in my prayers.
I first met Donna in 1962 when I started my job at Bangor Savings Bank as a teller.
We had much in common. My husband Tom had just started classes at Bangor Theological Seminary and her husband
David was attending the Univ. of Maine.
We were both working to put our husbands through school. We became
close couples and friends for 61 years.
Her Family and Friends.
She was funny, straight forward, and we laughed alot!