Timothy D. Hagerman
July 21, 1985 ~ December 26, 2011
SOUTH PORTLAND - Timothy D. Hagerman, 26, of Berwick Street, died Monday, December 26, 2011, at Maine Medical Center after a courageous battle with cancer. He was born in Malden, Massachusetts, on July 21, 1985, a son of Reis F. and Catherine P. (Hevey) Hagerman. He attended Scarborough schools and graduated from Scarborough High School, class of 2004. Timothy was an avid sportsman throughout his life. As a youth he participated in basketball, baseball, football, and soccer. He played basketball for Scarborough High School and Southern Maine Community College. He was a fan of the New York Yankees, UNC, and the Celtics. A natural and gifted entrepreneur, he received an Associate of Science degree in business from Southern Maine Community College then started TDH Landscaping and Snowy Days Plowing. His most recent venture was the purchase of the DJ Triggs disc jockey business. He also worked as a claims specialist for TD Bank. He married Molly Findlay on October 9, 2010, at Holy Cross Church in South Portland. Timothy was said to be able to light up a room. His outgoing and charming personality immediately drew everyone he met into his large circle of friends. He enjoyed spending time with friends and was a member of several bowling and softball leagues. He was most proud of his marriage to Molly and his loving relationship with her family. He was also delighted to have purchased his first home in 2009. He is survived by his loving wife; his parents of Scarborough, two sisters, Lauren and Lindsay Hagerman of Scarborough; father and mother in law, Shawn and Kathleen Findlay of South Portland; brothers in law, Matthew and Coleman Findlay of South Portland; paternal grandmother, Marie Hagerman of Zephyrhills, Florida; grandfather and grandmother in law, Ron and Mary Costigan of South Portland; many loving aunts, uncles, cousins, and many friends. Visiting hours will be held 4:00 to 8:00 pm, Thursday, at Conroy-Tully Crawford South Portland Chapel, 1024 Broadway, South Portland. Prayers will be recited 8:15 am, Friday, at the Chapel, followed by a 9:00 am, Mass of Christian Burial at Holy Cross Church, corner of Cottage Road and Broadway, South Portland. Burial will take place at New Calvary Cemetery, South Portland. Memorial donations may be made to Holy Cross School, 436 Broadway, South Portland, ME 04106.Online condolences may be expressed below.
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Dearest Reis, Cathy, Lauren, Lindsay Molly, and Tim’s beloved friends and our family, We are so sorry for this devastating loss, which we also feel so keenly. Rob remembers his little cousin so fondly and is simply heartbroken. Tim was large in both stature and heart and the world is a dimmer place without him. We are praying for you all, hoping that the love surrounding you now is a comfort. With all our love, Rob, Ellyn, Danny Chelsea Faye
– Rob and Ellyn Kocher
Shawn,Kathleen and family…My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family and to your daughter Molly at this time. Shawn I have known you forever and I know words can help at this time. Thinking of you all at this difficult time, may memories stay with you forever.
– Carol Nelson Milliken
Our family is so sorry for Molly’s loss and for the death of this remarkable young man! We are sure that almighty God has Tim firmly in his grasp and that this new saint is praying for the welfare of those he so loved! May God bless Molly and all Tim’s loved ones as they deal with the realities of his transition. Please know that you are all in our prayers! God bless!
– Deacon & Mrs. Steven G. Harnois
Our thoughts and prayers are with Reis, Cathy, and family. We can’t begin to express our sorrow at your loss.
– Bruce and Julie Rioux
We are so sorry to hear of Tim’s passing. Our son, Brent, went to school with Tim and they played sports together in the Scarborough schools. We will always remember him as a great kid and a friend to many people. With heartfelt sorrow, Terry and Doris Skillings
– Terry and Doris Skillings
Cathy and Family~ I am so sorry to hear about your loss. My thoughts are with you all.
– Amy Grindell
Dear Molly Family, We are so sorry for your loss. Although we did not know Tim personally, his reputation as an extraordinary individual preceded him wherever he went. Our prayers and love are with you during this most difficult time.
– Stacy Begin & Matthew Holbrook
To Reis and Cathy, My heartfelt sympathies on the loss of your son, Timothy. I can’t begin to imagine how you can get through such a sad loss of a handsome young son in the prime of his life.
– Jim Lynch
Cathy, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. My deepest sympathy goes out to you and your family. My sincere thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. God Bless, Ben
– Ben Fogg
Dear Cathy, My thoughts and prayers are with you and all your family at this most difficult time. What an awful loss for you all. My deepest sympathy, Peggy
– Peggy Warden
No words said can take away your pain and sorrow at this time. Please know that I am thinking of you all and you are in my prayers.
– Jennifer Harris
So sorry to hear of this sad news. May 2012 bring you peace, the comfort of friends and family, and the blessing of fond memories. Best, Jim
– Jim Cavanaugh
Molly, Hagerman’s Findley’s – my heart goes out to all of your during this very difficult time. Tim created many wonderful memories for all of you and many more – my thoughts and prayers are with you through the next days, months, and years. Gone too soon but at peace and comfort now.
– Martha
Tim, I am pleased and proud to have known and coached you. I can only close my eyes and see smiling Tim. You were an absolute constant, a rock, a pillar of positive attitude. I wish my kids knew you so you could brighten their day by just how you lived life.
– Chris Hayward
Cathy and Family Sadden to hear of your loss of Tim. Thoughts and prayers are with you.
– Elaine DeRuzzo
To the family of Timothy, we are so sorry for your loss. Losing someone so young is truly hard. How we all long for the time when no one will be sick and death will be a thing of the past. (Revelation 21:3, 4) Until that time we pray that you are comforted day by day.
– Johnson Family
Reis, Cathy and family, We are so sorry for your loss. Our thought and prayers are with you all..
– Tom & Anne Ollmann
We are so sorry for your loss. We will continue to keep you in our thoughts and prayers.
– Caroline Hartley and family
Molly: I am so sorry for your loss. A co-worker was talking about a young man who had been battling cancer and I found out today it was your husband. My heart goes out to you and both families. Thoughts and prayers.
– Theresa Dembowski
We are heartbroken to hear about your loss from our son Michael. May your son Rest in Peace
– Mr.& Mrs.Michael Fiorillo, Sr.
Dear Reis and Cathy, Please accept by sincere sympathy for the great loss of your son, Timothy. What a wonderful young man he must have been! The obituary described a very gifted individual in his social and business life. Be assured that you and your extended family are in my daily prayers. God love you!
– Sr. Phyllis Doyle
Dear Cathy Reis, We are shocked and saddened to her of the loss of your beloved son. Please accept our sincere sympathy and know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. Sincerely, Carol Lee
– carol & Lee Deisering
So saddened to hear about Tim. He was personable, funny and TALL!…. Nearly taking out our dining room chandelier So saddened to hear about Tim. So personable and funny….he did shine in the spotlight. We have many fun memories of Hagerman and hope that all of your good memories carry you through this tough time. Thinking of you and your family with deepest sympathy….The Daley’s
– John & Bev Daley
It was good to speak with you yesterday, Cathy. I am terribly sorry for your loss. You, Reis, Lauren and Lindsay are in my thoughts.
– Cliff Roberson
To Cathy and Family, I am so sorry for this tremendous loss. Tim leaves a powerful legacy of love and joy in the lives of those he touched. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you.
– Shelley Cohen Konrad
I imagine there is no pain more far-reaching and deeper than losing a child and a brother. My heart and prayers go out to you at this most difficult time.
– Stephen Scontras
Cathy, I am so sorry. My heart is with you in this time of sorrow.
– Cynthia Morris
Dear Reis, Catherine and Family, I was so saddened to learn of this news. My heartfelt sympathies to you both and to Timothy’s wife Molly, his sisters and family. May he be at peace. Sincerely, Margaret Kiernan and Family
– Margaret Kiernan
To Lauren and family: Our hearts are heavy to hear of your tragic loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you hoping that you feel comfort in knowing Tim is in good hands, watching over his loving family.
– Mike & Vicki Montgomery
Our thoughts and prayers are with the Hagerman family during this difficult time. Tim will certainly be missed.
– The Libby Family
My heart is reaching out to you, dear Molly, with many loving and caring thoughts. How I wish I could do more. I know I am not alone in saying this. Believe that Our lord is with you at this most difficult time. We cannot understand why things happen as they do, especially such a loss as yours occurs. There is a reason. You have a tremendous amount of faith, I know. In ways that you cannot now believe, it/He will sustain you in the days ahead. When you need support and strength, tell Tim to go to the Lord for you. He is in a position now to do this. Then believe with all your heart that strength will come to you. Much love, dear Molly, and an abundance of prayerful thoughts.
– Donna Daley
The first time I met Tim he was just about two years old – he had a special smile then and it stayed with him. Reis, Cathy, Lauren and Lindsay our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this very difficult time. We are so very sorry for the loss of such a special young man way to early in his life. May he rest in peace.
– Glenn and Mary Ellen Severance
Im so sorry for your loss. Thank the Lord he had his strong family with him all the time. See you soon, Love and hugs. Audrey
– Aunt Audrey
I worked at the cafe inside TD Bank for 2 years and Tim would certainly brighten the day when he walked in. Always full of life, upbeat and just a great guy. I hadn’t seen him in some time and was never very close to him but going out in the old port, having a great time with him, our mutual friends, and his wonderful wife Molly is what I’ll remember. Thinking of her and all of his family and friends through this inconceivably difficult time. Rest in Peace Tim.
– Jessica Nickerson
Dear Cathy, Please accept our profound sympathy at your unimaginable loss. You, Reis, and all of Timothy’s family, friends, and relatives are in our thoughts and prayers.
– Chip, Deb, and Anastasia Ripley
Molly, Hagermans and all the Findlays, Our hearts are aching for you during this terrible time. I can’t stop thinking about your wedding Molly and what a beautiful testiment of love it was. I feel lucky to have been there to see you and Timmy exchange your vows. Your love for eachother is truly amazing and something I will cherish having seen first hand.
– Jill and Dan Dalfonso
Dear Cathy and Family, My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
– Liz Cavallaro