Stanley F. Frank

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South Portland - Mr. Stanley F. Frank, Sr., 83, passed away on Saturday, November 2, 2019 at Gosnell Memorial Hospice House with his loving family by his side. Born in Cincinnati, Ohio on April 12, 1936, Stan was the son of the late George and Margaret (Wessell) Frank. He attended Western Hills High School in Cincinnati and moved to Maine in 1955 after enlisting in the United States Coast Guard where he served his country honorably for over 20 years. Upon retiring from the service, Stan obtained his associates degree under the GI Bill. Stan's second career was as the maintenance supervisor at South Portland Nursing home for over 20 years where he made lasting friendships with fellow staff and patients. Stan would be the first to tell you that his enlistment and move to Maine was the best decision of his entire life as it led him to his beloved wife Adrienne. The story of Stan and Adrienne started in 1956. While stationed in Portsmouth, Stan and a Coast Guard buddy went to the movie theater where Adrienne worked. After the movie, Stan and his friend asked Adrienne and her friend out for something to eat. Being a gentleman, Stan asked for Adrienne's number with nothing to write on but the dust on his dash board. Little did either of them know, but that night would spark the beginning of a 62-year marriage filled with happiness. Adrienne and Stan married in Portsmouth on February 9, 1957 and shortly thereafter moved to the Portland area where they began their rather large family. With the exceptions of a few years here and there, they made their home in the Willard Beach neighborhood of South Portland and raised their family on the foundations of faith and love. And Adrienne and Stan did it right. While their kids were growing up, there was the parent who made the rules, and the one who enforced them. All the kids would tell you their dad was definitely the disciplinarian. However, regardless of how tough his exterior could be, his children always knew he was truly a big, soft hearted guy. As a father he would always be there to lend a listening ear, offer suggestions and provide support 100% of the time. And this wasn't just with his own children. Stan was a father figure to many people. A true leader, he always looked out for others and helped whenever and where ever he could. This compassionate and caring characteristic is undoubtedly the result of the teachings of his Catholic faith. A very devoted man, he was a longtime communicant of Holy Cross Church (where he didn't always sing the hymns on key) and a member of the Knights of Columbus Cheverus Council #2344. He appreciated all of God's creations and was appreciative of the simple things: gardening, watching birds (especially cardinals), and his beloved cats, Edith and Archie. A proud Veteran, Stan went out of his way to acknowledge other veterans and loved hearing and sharing stories with others who had served. Stan possessed the gift of gab and those who knew him know he could and would talk to anyone. A quick trip to the grocery store could end up taking over 3 hours, but that's just who he was. He was a kind hearted guy who was interested more in others than himself. He was a great husband who worked multiple jobs to set a good example for his kids and to make sure his wife was able to stay home with the children. He was the kind of man who was a father to those without a dad. He was the kind of man who would drop what he was doing to help the neighbor, a family member or friend. And, he was the kind of Poppy and Grandpa who made sure he had a unique and special relationship with each of his grandchildren. Simply put, if you were lucky enough to know Stan, you were lucky enough. Stan is predeceased by his siblings, Joyce Lynch, Allen Frank, Ronald Frank, and George Frank. He is survived by his beloved wife of 62 years, Adrienne Frank of South Portland; children, Stanley F. Frank, Jr and partner Jane of South Portland, Stephen F. Frank and wife Debbie of Westbrook, Scott A. Frank and wife Stacy of South Portland, Shawn M. Frank and wife Marcia of Westbrook, Stacy M. Frank of South Portland, Susanne Conti and husband Mark of South Portland, Seth T. Frank and wife Jocelyn of Boston; grandchildren, Nathan, Jenna, Ryan, Joshua, Zachary, Shawn Jr., Shelbie, Shantelle, Victoria, Nicholas, Olivia, Benjamin and Josef; great-grandchildren, Trey and Gabriel; siblings, Kathleen Kleinholz, Donald Frank and wife Maryann, and William Frank and wife Judy, all of Ohio. Visiting Hours celebrating Stan's life will be held on Wednesday, November 6 from 4-7PM at the Conroy-Tully Walker South Portland Chapel, 1024 Broadway, South Portland. Prayers will be recited at the funeral home on Thursday, November 7 at 10AM followed by an 11AM Mass of Christian Burial at Holy Cross Church, 124 Cottage Road, South Portland. Interment with Military Honors will follow at Calvary Cemetery, 1024 Broadway, South Portland. To view Stan's memorial page or to share an online condolence, please visit www.ConroyTullyWalker.com. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to Holy Cross Church, 124 Cottage Road, South Portland or to the Wounded Warrior Project, P.O. Box 758516, Topeka, Kansas 66675.
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  1. Deepest Condolences to the Frank Family. We have lost a great man and he will be missed. I always enjoyed speaking with Stan whenever I saw him at Holy Cross Church and from bowling against him and his sons at Northgate Bowlarama in Portland. God Bless and RIP my friend. Stan and Diana SLowinski

    – Stan Slowinski

  2. I served with Chief Frank on the Barataria. My favorite memory is of a morning we were en route to an ocean station echo and the breeze was freshening. He had his khaki chief’s hat on when he stepped out onto the wing of the bridge. The wind ripped it from his head and took it down to the boat deck. He leaped down the ladder to the boat deck and his hat was sitting still. As he moved toward it, the wind caught it again and took it the length of the boat deck and down the ladder toward the fantail on the main deck. He was running and shouting for someone to catch his hat. It continued to run away from him like some malevolent spirit was taking it away. It bounced and hit the taff rail, hit the top cable and stuck. He got his hat back after chasing it more than 250 feet on a 311 foot ship. We sailed to my first tour in Vietnam and saw a large portion of the northern oceans. Chief Frank was a good man. May his memory always be a blessing in our lives.

    – Chet Frame – GM2

  3. so sorry for your loss…my old neighbor from Angel Ave.,so.port. Great man and will be missed…..Sue Cote

    – Suzie Cote

  4. So very sad to read about Mr. Franks passing. My thoughts and prayers go out to you all He was always so very kind, I would see him out and about and he would always ask about Jess! When I was in High School, one time Chiefy came up to Angel Ave yelling in the driveway, I guess I may have been late getting home the night before, I was so embarrassed!!!Mr.Frank made me feel comfortable and like it was no big deal!! What a sweet man…..Bless you all…..

    – Susanne Conley

  5. I was sorry to learn of “Chief Frank’s” death in the Coast Guard’s new publication The Long Blue Line. I served with Chief Frank – that’s how I knew him – from late 1968 – early 1969 on USCGC HUMBOLDT in South Portland. I was a lowly SNQM then QM3. I was standing a watch with another QM one evening when the Captain came onto the Bridge. “Why are there two QMs on the bridge?” When told I was breaking in as a watchstander, the Capt said, “He’s qualfied” and he sent the other QM below. Soon, Chief Frank appeared asking where the other QM was. I told Chief Frank, “The Captain said I was qualified and sent him below.” Chief Frank turned to the Captain and said, “If you need me any more this trip, I’ll be in my stateroom” and he went below. He stayed in touch with us, but he didn’t come on the Bridge when the Captain was there. He was great doing the flashing light and could send messages using it faster than anybody I’ve ever seen. I am sorry that I never came to South Portland to visit with him and to let him know he inspired me to stay in the Coast Guard. I retired in 1987 after 20 years serving mostly on the west coast and in Hawaii before ending up in Southwest Harbor for my last tour. Peace be with you, Master Chief Frank, and to your family.

    – Richard Spinney

  6. So very sad Nancy and I are not able to be with you to celebrate Stan’s life! Stan’s memory and love will remain in our hearts till we join him with our Lord Jesus Christ! Hugs and prayers to you all. Always remember, Stan’s greatest Love and Pride was his family!! May God Bless us all.

    – Ronald McClay

  7. To Adrienne and the Frank family, I was so sorry to hear of Stanley passing. I always enjoyed talking to him at church. So sorry for the family. Kristen Tully

    – Kristen Tully

  8. As I had told most of you., the daycare kids in the neighborhood love stanley. The red truck would come by and all of us yelling stanley as he beeped and smiled. Went back to daycare to grab my grandson after the wake…and Kathy’s granddaughter was there and heard us talking and said that family a nice guy…what you ask., she thought we were always yelling family and not stanley. Either way I feel she hot it right. God bless everyone and he has earned his spot in heaven

    – Maureen Feeney Hebert

  9. Stan was a wonderful neighbor. He was friendly and helpful and shared his bounty of blackberries with us. He was kind to our children and always made them smile. He will be missed. Adrienne and family, please accept our thoughts and prayers. With love, The Davisons

    – Emily Davison


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