Phyllis M. McDonough
May 29, 1918 ~ February 3, 2013
PORTLAND - Phyllis M. McDonough, 94, of Leonard Street, died Sunday, February 3, 2013, at her home with her loving family by her side following a long illness. She was born in Portland on May 29, 1918, a daughter of Lyman F. and Margaret E. (Carton) Homan. She attended Shailer Elementary School and graduated from Portland High School, class of 1936. She married Joseph P. McDonough on December 29, 1943, at the Cathedral of the Immaculate Conception in Portland. Phyllis dedicated her life to home and family. When her children completed their education, she attended the Prichett School of Cake Decorating and became a master cake decorator. She crocheted afghans for the Ronald McDonald House and for the Linus Project. She loved reading about the Civil War, Joshua Chamberlain, and politics and working in her beautiful flower gardens. She was an avid newspaper reader and enjoyed solving crossword puzzles and jumbles. She is predeceased by her husband who died in 1999; two brothers, William and Arthur Homan; and two sisters, Margaret Simpson and Edith Leach. She is survived by two daughters, Janet M. (Jan) McDonough and her significant other Jody Despres of Portland and Phyllis M. (PM) McDonough, also of Portland; and a sister, Evelyn Stieben of Los Alamitos, California, and several nieces and nephews. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated 1:00 pm, Wednesday, at St Joseph's Church, 673 Stevens Avenue, Portland. Burial will follow at Calvary Cemetery, South Portland.Online condolences may be expressed below.







PM, Jan and Jody, We wish we could be with you during this difficult time. We will remember your mom for how faithfully she sent us her wonderful home made cookies every year even after we moved away. She was very lucky to have you both with her especially after your father passed on. I’m sure your mom and dad will be spending this baseball season cheering together for their favorite team in heaven. Our deepest sympathy, Carolyn Rick Murphy
– Rick and Carolyn Murphy
Dear P.M and other daughters whom I do not know but would like to send my dearest sympathies she was such a lovely spunky lady who I loved to see. My thoughts are with you. SOrry to hear
– Molly Rich
With deepest sympathy at the loss of your mother. May her legacy of love and family devotion help comfort you. Her many acts of kindness will long be remembered.
– Enid Dahlgren Murphy
You have my deepest sympathy in the loss of your Loved One: Phyllis M. McDonough who lived with special mightiness.(Ps 90:10) May Gods’ Promise of a Resurrection to life to live again forever in a beautiful Paradise on Earth without sickness help to ease your sorrow. (Job 14:1-2,13-15; Lu 23:43; Isa 33:24; Ps 37:9-11,29)
– Guest
PM, Jan, and Jody~ My sincere thoughts are with you during this difficult time. May your mother finally find the peace she deserves. Fondly, Jodie Morrill
– Guest