Peter Joseph McFarland

peter mcfarland

January 16, 1933 ~ October 7, 2022


Resided in: Cape Elizabeth, Maine

Peter J. McFarland, Jr. 1933-2022 CAPE ELIZABETH—Peter J. McFarland, Jr. 89, of Cape Elizabeth, died peacefully at home on Friday October 7, 2022. He was born in Portland January 16, 1933 the son of Peter Joseph, Sr. and Margaret (Quinn) McFarland. Peter grew up in Portland and graduated Portland High School in 1952. Upon graduation, he served three years (1952-1955) in the U.S. Army as a paratrooper in the 82nd Airborne. One of Peter's greatest honors was serving his country during the Korean War. He simply loved jumping out of planes such as The Flying Boxcar and Globemaster during his training at Fort Benning, GA and then in Japan. Peter continued to serve in the Army Reserve 76th Division for another 17 years (1975-1995) retiring as a First Sergeant. He married Margaret Cardone in 1957 sharing 65 years of marriage and raising 6 children who they deeply love. Peter was immensely proud of his children and enjoyed spending time with them. He was a constant staple in their lives, generous with his time or a helping hand with anything they needed. Peter was also a Lieutenant with the Portland Fire Department (1957-1977), serving for twenty years at the old Spring Street Station, currently the Portland Fire Museum. After he retired, he went to work for Central Maine Power for another 17 years and, once again, retired. Peter enjoyed hunting and fishing and working on projects around the house. In his retirement years, he enjoyed spending time at the Portland Fire Museum attending dinners and gatherings. What gave him the most joy was his family. He was a family man through and through. Never missing an opportunity to surround himself with those he loved. Attending his grandchildren's activities kept him young at heart and the silliness he exuded in his later years have created some of their greatest memories. Most recently he has been able to experience the joy of being a Great-Grandfather. Mr. McFarland was predeceased by two sisters, Mary Oblinger and Sister Mary Pebrina (Auntie Babe). He is survived by his sister, Ann Crosby of Virginia. His wife, Margaret; his children, Peter J. McFarland III of Standish, Paul G. McFarland of South Portland, Mark E. McFarland and his wife, Susan of Windham, Stephen M. McFarland of Cape Elizabeth, Maureen Hondel and her husband, Joseph of Waterboro and Susan E. Smyth and her husband, Jamie of Windham; his grandchildren, Melissa Couture, Peter J. McFarland, IV, Richard McFarland, Natasha McFarland, Samantha Hondel, Matthew Hondel, Hannah Smyth, Ryan Smyth and Sarah Smyth; and his 5 great-grandchildren. Peter was so very proud of each and every one of his children, grandchildren and great-grandchildren. Visiting hours will be at the Conroy-Tully Walker South Portland Chapel, 1024 Broadway, South Portland on Thursday from 4:00 to 6:00 pm. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at Holy Cross Catholic Church, 124 Cottage Road in South Portland on Friday October 14 at 10:00 am. Burial will follow at Calvary Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to Operation Reboot Outdoors located here in Maine, operationrebootoutdoors.com The Wounded Warrior Project, woundedwarrierproject.org and St. Jude's Children’s Research Hospital wwwstjude.org
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  1. Always remember Uncle Peter coming down to visit us all down here in Virginia on his way to Florida. He would always bringing Italian sandwich and old fashion doughnuts to us. He would talk hours with my mother (Dede) sharing old stores and memories. These memories I will cherish forever.

    Love you all!

    Christopher Newman

  2. We lived next door to the McFarlands for nearly 30 years. Peter was a good neighbor, spending lots of time with his family. He spoke fondly of his children and was seen working on his house, around the yard with his sons. We watched out for one another over the years. We won’t be in town later this week to share our condolences. Prayers for his large wonderful family. Emily and Alvin Bugbee

  3. Joe (joey) Oblinger
    I am really sadden on hearing of Peter passing. I first met Peter when he probably was ten in the old neighborhood. He will be missed dearly and fondly remembered. Little Joey Oblinger from York st. Joe and Vera O

  4. To The McFarland Family
    Our deepest condolences on the loss of your husband and father.

    The Nova Scotia McFarland’s

  5. I am so sorry to hear about the passing of your Dad . He was a very great neighbor of our family for years on Vincent St. He will be missed…

  6. Susan’s college roommate

    Susan, Jamie and Family – My deepest condolences for your loss. Your Father has a kind gentle soul and I know we always appreciate his assistance with any household needs while we lived in the cottage on Little Sebago Lake. The loss of his physical presence will be felt by many. His wonderful memories and kindness will live on forever.
    Nicki Morrison

  7. Younger Peter and Family- our deepest sympathies on the loss of your father. We did not know him, but to raise a son /grandson? like you, he must have been a wonderful person.
    the Whitten


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