Norma C. White

July 2, 1933 ~ March 22, 2023
Resided in:
Portland, Maine
Guilford, ME – Norma Jean Cole White passed away peacefully on March 22, 2023.
Born July 2, 1933 to the late Graydon L. Cole and Golda Bickford Cole. Norma graduated from Guilford High School in 1951 and Husson College in 1955.
Norma married James (Jimmy) H. H. White on September 2, 1957. Together they moved to
Boston while Jimmy attended Boston University Law School. Norma worked at a Boston
radio station during that time and loved getting free tickets to the Red Sox, attending as many
games as she could, sometimes all by herself. After Jimmy finished law school they moved back to Guilford where she lived most of her life.
Norma loved bird hunting, fishing, and golfing. She would play golf with her dear golfing friends all over the State of Maine, winning several women’s Club Championships at Piscataquis Country Club. Later in her life She did some traveling with her sister-in-law Betsey White Cousins and cousin Connie Lander. Norma cruised down the Amazon River, visited Machu Picchu, rafted down the Colorado River, explored the Mayan Ruins and cruised to Alaska. Many great stories came from those trips.
Norma’s final years were spent at Sable Lodge Independent Living and HarborChase Assisted Living in South Portland with Nai, her beloved Siamese cat and close to her son John.
Norma was predeceased by her husband James H. H. White, her brothers Robert G. Cole, Richard A. Cole and Roderick Cole, her sister-in-law's Marylo White Shahawy and Betsey White Cousins, and a special goddaughter Pamela Cartwright Fountain.
Norma is survived by her son, John P White and his partners Richard Champagne and Luke Parker; her sister-in-law, Anita Cole; her nieces, Shireen Shahawy (Jeff Lee), Sandy Cole Cavalcante (Joseph), Marylynn Cole Douroux, and Sarah Hebb Carpenter (Mike); her almost-daughters Nancy Blake, Pammy Goulette and Lindy Gokas and many special nieces and nephews.
A graveside service will be held in Guilford when weather permits. Arrangements are under the direction of the Conroy-Tully Walker Funeral Home, 172 State Street, Portland, ME. To view Norma’s memorial page, or to leave an online condolence, please visit www.ConroyTullyWalker.com
In lieu of flowers, the family suggests donations in Norma’s name be made to the Guilford Memorial Library, 4 Library St, Guilford, ME 04443
John, I am so sorry to hear about your Mom. I have known her forever, or so it seems. She was such a nice lady and so much fun.
Clarice
I have many wonderful memories of aunt Norma from our visits and time in Guilford. Her son, John, spent many summers with us at “camp”. The whole family was and is loved and special.
My Mom, Connie Lander, also has many special memories of her travels with Norma.
Norma will be missed by everyone in our family.
So sorry John- Mom posthumously sends her love to Norma and you. All of us Thompsons and Burdins
send our love.
She was a dear social member of our household and she practically ran Piscataquis Country Club. Long ago we had Sunday Scrambles at the club. You could hear Norm expressing (ha) herself two, three holes away. So much fun. One of so many memories.
God bless you Norma- RIP.
Flip and Janet Thompson
She loved to play golf!
Norma, was a great golfying friend! Full of fun and always had a smile! When the state ⛳golfing tournament was held in Guilford, she usually had me as an overnight guest. Happy I got to see her a year ago. Best to John and family.
Warmly,
Helen Plourd
Past President WMSGA
Norma was our next door neighbor over 50 years We had some wonderful times together. Camping , Bird hunting, fishing and playing cards and just getting together for dinners in our houses or to a resteraunt and just having fun. we were very close friends. We enjoyed lots of wonderful times together. I loved Norma very much and think of her often and will continue to think of her forever.
John I am sorry for your loss. There certainly are many fun and fond memories. We were all so lucky to have the family friendships.❤️
Rest Easy Norma
We will miss Norma’s Laughter and Beautiful Smile. We have so many wonderful memories over the years.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Let your memories bring you comfort 💝
Bruce, Lori & Connie
So sorry for your loss John. I don’t believe we ever met but my wife Linda and I knew Norma and your dad Jimmy from their hunting days at Loon Lodge. They were one of our first guests we ever had when we opened the lodge in 1985. We loved their company and looked forward to seeing them every fall. Your mom continued coming with friends many years after she lost your dad. It saddens me to know she is no longer with us.