Nicholas "NJ" John Aloes
December 13, 2009 ~ August 18, 2024
Resided in:
South Portland, Maine
Nicholas John Aloes, Jr.
“NJ”
“6”
South Portland – On August 18, 2024, Nicholas John (NJ) Aloes, Jr., died by suicide. NJ was born on December 13, 2009 to parents Nick and Mindy. NJ entered this world hungry and determined. He was a force. NJ was beautiful inside and out. His striking blue-green eyes and charming grin made everyone melt.
NJ was the second of four sons. Only 13 months younger than his brother Adam, they learned everything together. They were brothers, teammates, and best friends. When Chase was born, NJ became the most gentle, protective big brother. Then again, with Jules’ arrival, NJ doted on him and would do anything to make Jules laugh. NJ was always willing to help his brothers. Whether it was practicing football plays with Adam, giving Chase advice on his form in the batting cage, or carrying Jules when his legs were too tired.
NJ’s bond with his father, Nick, was unbreakable. They shared the drive to work hard, never give up, and reach goals. Their love for baseball was unmatched. Whether as “Dad” or “Coach,” Nick led NJ with patience and love, learning and growing together. No one made his mother, Mindy, laugh quite like NJ. And she would go to any lengths to make him smile. Always the loudest fan on the sidelines, NJ would sneak glances to Mindy in those big moments, making sure she was there.
NJ adored his Nana and Grampy. He gave his Nana the very best hugs. He played guitar with his Grampy, mastering every lesson at an astonishing pace. NJ loved his friends. He loved to make people smile. He wanted everyone to feel included and welcome. NJ showed kindness to all. He was the first to jump up if you were carrying something heavy. He wanted to help. And he wanted to learn. NJ showed a steady determination to master any activity he was interested in. He never gave up.
NJ will be missed, every minute of every day. We wish more than anything that we would have had more time with him. We will hold onto his memories forever.
NJ is survived by his brothers Adam, Chase and Jules Aloes; his parents, Mindy and Nick Aloes; and his Nana and Grampy, Mike and Jane Afthim, all of South Portland, Maine; and his Papou and YiaYia, Chuck and Elaine Aloes of Solon, Maine; and many more aunts, uncles, cousins, and friends.
Visiting Hours honoring NJ's life will be held on Thursday, August 29, 2024 from 3:00 - 7:00 PM at the Conroy-Tully Walker Funeral Home, 1024 Broadway, South Portland. Relatives and friends are invited to dress casually if preferred. A private burial will take place at a later date.
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to:
The Maine Crisis Line
Donate online @ https://www.opportunityalliance.org/
or make a check donation payable to The Opportunity Alliance,
Attn: Development - 50 Lydia Lane, South Portland, ME 14106
If you or someone you know has been dealing with feelings so big, you are unsure what to do- sadness, depression, anxiety. The Maine Crisis Line is able to help – call or text 988 or visit www.heretohelpmaine.com
National Suicide Prevention Lifeline 1-800-273-8255
Please do not suffer alone.
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Sending our condolences to the Aloes and Afthim families.
NJ was an amazing kid and we will miss him. We are so very sorry for your loss.
NJ played Flag football with Nate & baseball
Kind. Handsome. Athletic. A great friend.
NJ you are loved.
Whenever we would talk, he said he felt safe with a blankey type thing he had and we would FaceTime each other a lot.
I met him in 6th grade, in our science class, and he was my first friend I made in that class because we were partners on a project at the beginning of the school year
He was quiet at times but once you got to know him he was talkative and very caring about how you felt about literally anything.
I miss him a lot, I wish I could hug him one last time.
Our deepest condolences at this difficult time. NJ will always be remembered as a good athlete, teammate, friend and a great human being. Many unforgettable moments at the ball park…. You will be in our prayers. Rest in Peace, NJ. 🙏🙏 from Alex J. Baerga-Figueroa and Family.
The first time I had met Nj was at the bus stop when my grandmother was dropping me off, she called Nj and Adam “the twins“ because of how similar they looked. We were both devistated when we found out, RIP NJ Aloes.
My son LJ played little league baseball with NJ and his father Nick for several years. He was a great kid and great at sports!
Forever loved❤️
LJ, Logan, and I share our deepest condolences. We have had you all in our thoughts, saying many prayers for your family.
His determination and perseverance.
NJ was an amazing teammate ❤️
NJ was an all around great person. He was an awesome teammate and always strived to do his best. He made all the other players better. He will be so missed.
NJ made everyone a better person.
To all of NJs family and friends, My heart breaks for all of you 💔 Sending prayers for peace and love to you all through this difficult time. With love, The Clark Family
NJ’s aunt Michelle Murray is my sister-in-law.
Hi to Mike and Jane. I was so sorry to hear of your grandsons passing. So sorry for the family. My brother Jeff Tully went to school with Mandy. Kristen Tully
Jane and Mike, I was so sorry of your grandsons passing. Take care. Kristen Tully
Hi Kids, Nick and Mandy and family, I was so sad to hear of your sons passing. We lost a big person from so Portland me. Jeff Tully was in your class Mandy. Jeff Tully. Nick sr coached cooper Tully in football. I am so sorry for your family. Take care. My mom Barbara Tully died Feb 7 2016 to breast cancer at 69. I miss her a lot. From, Kristen Tully
Mike and Jane, I was so sorry for your grandsons passing. I bet he was a nice guy. I no you. My name is Kristen Tully so sorry for your family. I bet you no my dad Pau; Tully. And my mom Barbara Tully died Feb 7 2016. To breast cancer. Kristen Tully
To Mindy and Nick, I was so sorry to hear about the passing of your son. So tragic. My mom died 8 years ago to breast cancer at age 69. So sorry for family. Take care, From, Kristen Tully
Mindy, Nick, Adam, Chase and Jules, there are no words to describe how deeply sorry I am for your loss. I am very grateful to have been fortunate enough to have known such a wonderful young man. I loved watching NJ play the sport he loved so much. I have many fond memories of watching NJ playing baseball over the past few years. One of the most memorable was when he hit an out of the park home run in one of his Little League All Star games. I was able to capture his home run on video, and will never forget the joy on his face as he rounded those bases, and was met at home plate by his entire team. I’ll cherish that memory forever. NJ you will be missed by everyone who had the pleasure of knowing you. My thoughts and prayers to the entire Aloes family.
He has the best smile, just like his father. NJ was my little buddy, always asking me to play fortnite with him or do some silly thing to make Chase laugh. I only lived with all of you for a short time, and while I was always family because I was his cousin, I’ll forever be grateful for how quickly NJ became a little brother to me. Never shy, always ready to do something goofy to try to make his brothers laugh or play some sort of prank on me. It was such an honor to watch him grow up alongside me, we are all so lucky we had him in our lives.
NJ, our beautiful boy that is gone far too soon, we know you are flying high. We will hold you in our hearts forever and we will never forget your amazing laugh.
Aunt Mindy and Uncle Nick, I love you both forever and will never forget the countless positive impacts you have made on my life.
Adam, Chase, Jules, I love you and I’m so proud to call you my cousins.
I’m so sorry for your loss, I’m sending positive vibes to your family.
Mindy, Nick, Adam, Chase, Jules, Jane and Mike! I am so sorry for your loss, NJ was a beautiful, handsome young man, and it breaks my heart that you lost him so soon. I can only imagine the pain that you are all feeling right now and I wish I could do something to help. Please know that I will keep you all in my thoughts and prayers, God bless you! Love Pat xoxo🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻😘
REVELATION 21:4 “AND HE WILL WIPE OUT EVERY TEAR FROM THEIR EYES, AND DEATH WILL BE NO MORE, NEITHER WILL MOURNING NOR OUTCRY NOR PAIN BE ANYMORE. THE FORMER THINGS HAVE PASSED AWAY.”
I hope this beautiful promise from God to resurrect the dead right here on earth fills your hearts with comfort and peace, soon we will hug them again.
Mindy, Nick,
I’m so sorry to hear about the loss of your son. My thoughts have been with you every day. May God watch over your family.
Stacey Kennedy-Potter
Our hearts are broken but our memories of his precious life will always be with us and give us strength. His smile lit up his beautiful face and filled our hearts with joy. He shared his love and kind spirit with his family and friends. He so enjoyed having his dad as his coach since he was a little guy for all the different sports and having his family there to support him. We love you so much NJ and you will always be in our hearts. YiaYia & Papou
Love you NJ