Naomi H. Tomney
November 15, 2012
CAPE ELIZABETH, MAINE/CLINTON, MASS. - Naomi H. Tomney, 76, died Thursday Nov. 15, 2012 in Voorhees, NJ surrounded by her family. She was born in Boston, Mass. a daughter of Louis and Marjorie (Harper) Shaffer. She was a graduate of Malden High School, Colby Junior College, and Simmons College. She was a municipal agent for the Town of Cape Elizabeth for 15 years where she loved her job and the people of Cape. She was an avid reader and member of the Book Club of Cape Elizabeth and Woodlands Book Club of Clinton, MA. She was also a member of the Danvers Garden Club. Naomi will always be remembered as a loving wife, mother, and grandmother. In addition to her parents she was predeceased by her husband James F. Tomney in 2007, and her sister Natalie DeAngelis in 1987. She is survived by her daughters, Karen Hutner and her husband Gary of Clinton, Mass., and Laura Westcott and her husband William of Mt. Laurel, NJ; sons, Christopher Tomney and his wife Allison of Fairfax, Va, and Brian Tomney of Reston, Va; grandchildren, Jennifer, Mathew, Stephanie, Lindsay, Stefan, Benjamin, Ashley, Katie, Zack, and Michael; great grandchildren, Madison and Liliana; and step - grandchildren Andrew and Claire. Calling hours will be held 7:00p.m. - 9:00p.m. on Friday, Nov. 23 and 11a.m. - 12p.m. on Saturday, Nov. 24, at Conroy - Tully Crawford South Portland Chapel, 1024 Broadway, South Portland. A funeral service will be held 12 noon Saturday November 24, at the Chapel. Burial will follow at Riverside Cemetery, Cape Elizabeth. Donations in memory of Naomi may be made to Lupus Foundation New England, 40 Speen Street, Suite 205 Framingham, MA 01701.Online condolences may be expressed below.
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Dear Laura and Family, With a heavy heart I understand what you are going through, with the unexpected loss of my mother just days before your loss. I was so sad to hear this about your beautiful mother. God Bless you all…she is now promoted from being an angel on Earth to one in Heaven. xo (laura’s college roomate)
– Elizabeth Fitzmaurice Seiss
My thoughts and prayers are with the Tomney family during this difficult time. No words can make up for your loss during this holiday season. The Tomney’s are strong and resilient. God bless all of you. Sincerely Tony Marrero
– CSM Anthony Marrero
To the Tomney family- our thoughts and prayers are with you and hoping you find peace knowing your Mother is in a better place and may you have a Thanksgiving filled with loving memories.
– Michelle Lovgren, Myron Vansickel and Michael Lucas
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. May you find comfort in the memories that you share. Love, Rick, Phyllis, Liana and Robert
– The Kizner family
Dear Chris, Allison, Katie and Zack: You are in our thoughts and prayers today and in the days ahead. May God bless you all as you grieve the passing of someone so important in your lives. With much Aloha. charlie and Donna
– charlie and donna ray
RDML Tomney (and family) My prayers of comfort are with you and your family during this difficult time. My you receive the peace of God and the comfort of His Presence. Blessings to you and your family
– Jetaune Randall (USCG Employee)
To the Tomney Family, there is no sadness that Jesus cannot feel and there is no pain that the Master is not able and willing to heal. Look to the hills from whence cometh your help, your help cometh from the LORD. You all are in my thoughts and prayers. Blessings Always~
– Alice Dunn
We express our condolences for your loss and you are in our prayers. May God Bless you and give you comfort in knowing that mom is at peace with him. Goc Bless. Susan, Tim, Chris, Aaron
– Dr. Susan Stanford and family
RADM Tomney. Please know you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers at this difficult time. Rest assured in the fact that she is smiling down on you knowing what a fine human being, American, father and husband you grew up to be. Very Respectfully, Dwight Cathy Collins
– CDR Dwight Collins
Karen Gary and the entire Tomney Family: Our thoughts and prayers are with you. May you find comfort in the happy memories you share and the knowledge that your Mom is at peace. Love, Angela Rick
– Angela Blair and Rick Ely
To the Tomney family, I am sorry for your family’s loss. You have the thoughts and prayers of many friends and families in the Coast Guard.
– Joe Vojvodich
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
– Linda & Rick Anderson
My thoughts and prayers to my colleague, RDML Tomney and extended family affected by loss of a loved one.
– Maura Dollymore, MD, RADM USPHS
I worked with Naomi for several years at Town Hall in Cape Elizabeth, Maine and remember her as a caring and smart person with a wicked sense of humor. We also have wonderful memories of bumping into Jim at the IGA and having great chats. We will be thinking of you all tomorrow.
– Karlene & Tom Osborne