Mary Louise Wiley
December 21, 1933 ~ October 29, 2025
Born in:
Boston, MA
Resided in:
St. Louis Park, MN
Mary Louise Wiley passed away unexpectedly, but peacefully, in her sleep at Towerlight Senior Living, St. Louis Park, Minnesota on October 29, 2025.
It is with grief for her death and gratitude for her life that we announce the passing of Mary Louise Wiley in her 91st year. Born in 1933 in Boston, Massachusetts, Mary is the beloved wife of the late Harry Wiley, who predeceased her in 2015, after 34 years of marriage.
Dear mother of Marianne Milano and Paula Knapp (Bob Knapp), proud grandmother of Andrew Bacher, Alex Huffman (Chad Huffman), Simon Bacher and Brendan Canova (Jordan Canova). Very proud great-grandmother of Hadley Huffman, Hudson Huffman and Capri Canova.
Mary was a devoted wife with the biggest heart who enjoyed hosting friends and family at her home. During the years her grandchildren were young and through high school, Mary would make it a priority to travel to different states to spend time with her daughters and grandchildren. She created lasting memories with each one. “Nannie” will always hold a special place in the hearts of her kids, grandkids and great grandkids.
In her early years, Mary worked as a model, an administrative assistant in media and in real estate and as a sales associate for the Yellow Pages organization. In Maine, she cared for others at Kaler-Vail, a retirement home for women in Scarborough. She loved the positive atmosphere and beautiful coastal setting. She cooked meals and helped with various activities for the residents.
Mary Lou, as she was known in Maine, was a long-time active member of St. Maximillian Kolbe Parish in Scarborough, ME. She volunteered at the church, often sang in the choir, was a lector, Eucharistic Minister and served others in many other ways.
She enjoyed attending musicals and sporting events that her nephews participated in at the Scarborough Schools.
Mary touched many hearts each day, in Massachusetts, Maine and Minnesota. She will be fondly remembered by all who knew her for her spirit of love, kindness and generosity. Her selfless love and commitment to following Jesus was evident to all. She was our angel on earth.
When Mary moved to Minnesota in 2019, she eventually found her home, and she would tell you, her “second family” at Towerlight Senior Living. The family wishes to thank all the staff and residents at Towerlight and the staff at Brighton Hospice for their kind and compassionate care shown toward our sweet Mary during her stay.
A Graveside Service will be held at 1:00pm on Wednesday, November 5 at 1:00pm at Black Point Cemetery in Scarborough
Services
Graveside Service: Wednesday, November 5, 2025 1:00 pm
Black Point Cemetery
202 Black Point Rd.
Scarborough, Maine 04074








Thank you, Nick. She was our angel on earth. I’n happy you got to feel her love ❤️. -Marianne
Thank you for your love for my mom, Terry. 🙏
Thank you for sharing your experiences with mom. ❤️
Thank you 💗
Marianne & family
My heartfelt condolences for the loss of your Mom. I’ve enjoyed your stories, and it sounds like she had a life well lived.
I’m here for you as you grieve her loss
Jean
Marianne & family
My heartfelt condolences for the loss of your Mom. I’ve enjoyed your stories, and it sounds like she had a life well lived.
I’m here for you as you grieve her loss
Jean
I couldn’t bear the pain without friends like you, Jean. Thank you for your love and support. ❤️
Mary Lou loved children and would often have a stuffed animal or toy for my grandchild when she was little. She was had something for you—a medal, prayer card, or small gift—as a token of her generosity. I cherish the angel she gave me.
That truly was our mom
Love the Ingrams.
All my love and sympathy for you and your family. Love Joy