Margaret Gauthier

margaret gauthier
Portland - Margaret (Peggy) Ann Gauthier passed away peacefully and comfortably in her home, early Saturday morning, May 8th, 2021, surrounded by her family and dedicated caregivers. Peggy was born on August 2, 1933 in Fitchburg, Massachusetts, the only child of William and Gladys (Stanton) Provenzani. She was educated at the Saint Bernard Schools and was a graduate of Fitchburg State Teacher's College. Peggy went on to teach elementary school in Fairfield, Connecticut and Tenafly, New Jersey. In the summer of 1953, Peggy met her one and only true love, Paul J. Gauthier of Portland, in Ogunquit, Maine, where they both held seasonal hotel jobs. An old-fashioned courtship ensued, and Peggy and Paul were married in August of 1957. After time spent in Quantico, Virginia, where Paul practiced dentistry as a Naval Officer on a Marine base, the couple moved to West Falmouth, Maine in 1965. Paul then opened his dental practice in Portland at his family's home on Deering Street, where his father had also practiced dentistry, while Peggy continued teaching at the schools in and around Greater Portland. Their first home together would be an 18th century cape on Hurricane Road which they would lovingly restore themselves. In 1967 they purchased their second and most memorable home, a historic 1763 colonial farm on Mast Road. They would spend the next 20 years restoring this home and creating their many fond memories together, alongside their 4 children. Many historic school tours were held in the painstakingly restored home. Peggy was instrumental not only in the restoration effort with Paul, but also in having the home placed on the National Register of Historic Places. Dr. Gauthier passed away in 1990, after practicing in Portland for 25 years. Shortly after her loving husband's death, Peggy moved into the family home on Deering Street and began what would turn into a 30-year vocation as both landlady and building manager. As she had done in Falmouth, she secured the 1866 John A. Poor House with the Greater Portland Landmarks. Peggy was an active volunteer upon her move to Portland, with much time given to the Ronald McDonald House, Mercy Hospital, Gary's House, St. Vincent de Paul Soup Kitchen, and the Still A Good Cause Thrift Shop. Peggy also enjoyed many years as a tour guide in Boston, Kennebunk, and Portland. She was a woman who was overflowing with life, had an insatiable appetite for knowledge, a thirst for travel (Italia!), and above all else, loved people. She could often be found sitting on the Deering Street stoop, chatting, sipping wine, and engaging with family, neighbors, friends, and of course total strangers who happened by to smell the roses planted in the front yard. Peggy is survived by her 4 children, Katharine of Manchester, New Hampshire, Christopher and wife Kristy of Kennebunk, Stephen and wife Suzanne of Portland, and Peter and wife Chloe of Freeport; as well as her 8 grandchildren whom she cherished, Isobel, Emery, Paul, Betsy, Sophia, Lily, Auguste, and Arthur. May her wisdom, compassion and joy of life live on in all who knew and remember her. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at the Cathedral of the Immaculate Conception, 307 Congress Street, Portland on Thursday, May 20th at 10 AM, followed by a graveside ceremony at Calvary Cemetery in South Portland. Arrangements are under the direction of the Conroy-Tully Walker Funeral Home, 172 State Street, Portland. To view Peggy's memorial page, or to share an online condolence, please visit www.ConroyTullyWalker.com In lieu of flowers the family has requested that donations be made in her honor to Comfort Keepers, 253 US-1 Scarborough, Maine 04074.

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  1. As a current tenant of Deering St, I would always love to encounter Peggy sitting on the stoop. She was always so vivacious, with a sincere curiosity, care and concern for those she knew. She knew I was an avid reader and would always ask about the book(s) I was currently reading. She definitely lit up her surroundings.

    – Daniel McLaughlin

  2. My husband and I rented the 2nd floor apartment from about 2010 to 2015. Peggy was delightful. She always fretted over her friends in the building. We are the same age so spent a lot of time on the stoop commiserating about all the things we could no longer do. She will be greatly missed.

    – Barbara Kerwin

  3. From the moment I met Peggy I knew she was a very special woman. She had the sweetest voice I’ve ever heard and was the kindest soul. She called me for a cleaning estimate a few weeks after I had my son and when I said I was on maternity leave she kindly said “please bring your baby” I knew right off she was a good person and I took her up on her offer. My 4 week old son Joseph and I went to see her. We walked in and it was like an antique shop she had the most beautiful things. She immediately told me not to ever put her clean dishes away because it makes her feel like her house is full of people with dishes out. She was more then a client to me. She was my friend . I enjoyed listening to her stories about raising children on the farm. She always smiled so big and had such a way to comfort someone. She would always ask how Joseph was and share stories of her grandchildren. She was a spit fire and was sure to let me know immediately if she didn’t approve of one of my helpers. Which I found entertaining as she was a woman that knew exactly what she wanted. I will miss her dearly.

    – Amanda Peterson

  4. What a beautiful tribute to your Mom. I have many wonderful childhood memories of time spent at the farm on Mast Road. Peggy was a beautiful soul and I wish you all peace and much joy from reliving wonderful memories.

    – Marlene Poirier Costa

  5. Peggy’s Sicilian blood belied her French surname; in the klatch of gals she once ran with, frequenting my local bakery, her impassioned mannerisms and laughter ‘forte’ lit and enlivened the room. When, a couple years ago, I was suddenly hit by a profound personal and financial crisis, she upped the ante as patron, offering me shelter which became a home. “You know”, she intimated, “one must always try to remain open to possibility, to the next new thing.” I will forever be grateful for having met her profoundly generous heart.

    – stephen lanzalotta

  6. I loved Peggy very much and treasure memories of her goodness and generosity to me, memories too of the beauty she brought to every situation. I promise my prayers and send my condolences to her family. Sincerely, Fr. James Palmigiano

    – James Palmigiano

  7. Dear Peggy, thank you for your loving ways and generosity. You inspired me with your warmth, optimism and perseverance. I love you. Rest In Peace dearest lady. Jennifer Vivian

    – Jennifer Vivian


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