John “Jack” Clement Kachmar

john “jack” kachmar

October 30, 1936 ~ February 21, 2024


Resided in: Scarborough, Maine

Scarborough - Late Wednesday afternoon, surrounded by his loving family, John “Jack” “Dad” “Grampie” “Padre” “Papa” Kachmar, 87, passed away peacefully after a brief illness at Maine Medical Center on February 21, 2024. Jack was born to John J. and Muriel (Dickinson) Kachmar on October 30, 1936. Jack was born in Anson, Maine on the 2nd story of a neighbor’s house on Spear Hill. He graduated from Madison High School where he lettered in 3 sports all 4 years. He was offered scholarships at UMaine and Colby to play football, but opted to attend Bentley College of Accounting on the advice of his Uncle George Chervenak telling him accounting had a much more promising future. He spent two years working for United Fruit Company in Panama before being drafted into the US Army where he was stationed in Anchorage, Alaska. He met the love of his life, Patricia Ann (Sabourin) Kachmar, “somewhere over Chicago”. This was just one of the many stories Jack would tell his kids and grandkids many times over the years. They married in 1962 in Concord, NH. They raised their family of 5 children in a wonderful neighborhood in Scarborough, Maine where you could hear the large black bell ring to call the kids home for dinner. Jack had an accomplished career at Liberty Mutual where he worked for 37 years. He insured thousands of families in Greater Portland. Jack had a very special gift to maintain loyalty to both his family and his career. An aspect he enjoyed in his work was the flexibility it provided. He made it a priority to be home for dinner every night. Many evenings, he would take a call from a client in need who had been in an accident, had a house fire or had a death in the family. Jack was never much of one for technology. His frugality afforded him many things in life including the option to retire when he wanted to. The day of his retirement, his manager came to him and said “Jack, you haven’t answered a single email.” He responded with a click of a “delete all” button and off he went. Of course, this may not be exactly how it happened but was another of Jack’s many “stories”. He was extremely involved in the community as well. He coached little league and he was a member of the Elks. Aside from raising his family, two of his proudest achievements included helping Pat further her education through two Masters degrees all while raising 5 spirited children together, and being an integral part of the fundraising team for St. Maximilian Kolbe Catholic Church in Scarborough. There were many nights where he would get home from his sales job and start making calls for the new church. Those who knew Jack knew he loved his family but they also knew he loved to travel. His favorite destinations included Hawaii, Florida, Japan, Santa Fe and Wyoming, where he was always ready to “Cowboy up”. Of note, that same aforementioned frugality afforded him the ability to bring all of his children and grandchildren to Hawaii in 2004. The trip of a lifetime. This obituary would not be complete without mentioning Jack’s enviable, perfectly-manicured lawn, his love of flowers displayed beautifully around his yard and his love of music. His music collection was wide and varied, ranging from The Eagles to Patsy Cline to Don Ho. He enjoyed seeing Don Ho live and even met him several times in Hawaii. Jack is survived by his five children; Lisa K. Hall (Jim), Lue Kachmar, John E. Kachmar (Ingrid), Nancy A. Kachmar (Joe) and James P. Kachmar (Amber), several grandchildren; Michael J. Kennedy-Kachmar, Vanessa A. Atherton (Ryan), John Spencer W. Kachmar, Sydney A. P. Kachmar, Gabriel M. Gifford, Lyle J. Kachmar and Alvin P. Kachmar. He is also survived by several cousins and nieces and nephews. He was predeceased by his wife, Patricia, of 35 years, his father, mother, step mother and two sisters. The Kachmar family would like to thank Maine Veteran’s Home for caring for our dad. Friends and Family are invited to visiting hours on Sunday, March 3 from 11AM-1PM at the Conroy-Tully Walker South Portland Chapel, 1024 Broadway, South Portland. Prayers will be recited at the Funeral Home on Monday, March 4 at 10:15AM followed by an 11AM Mass of Christian Burial at St. Maximilian Kolbe Church, 150 Black Point Road, Scarborough. Interment will follow at Calvary Cemetery, Broadway, South Portland. To view Jack's memorial page, or to share an online condolence, please visit www.ConroyTullyWalker.com. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the American Cancer Society, the Barbara Bush Foundation for Family Literacy, or Smile Train.
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  1. Jack was my neighbor. He always had a smile and he would always stop to talk with me while I was working in my garden.
    He will be missed, but I am happy he’s made it to heaven.

  2. Met Jack at Liberty Mutual in 1971. He was a Sales Rep and I worked in Loss Prevention at the time until later when I became a service representative. Jack was always so knowledgeable and professional with everyone. I think everyone relied upon him for insurance answers. He was always so gracious.

  3. Being a young and new service rep who was learning so many things about insurance, I was just a little intimidated working with Jack knowing how precise he was with his paperwork but try as I may to do applications right, he was always able to detect something that needed to be done better or differently. He was a good teacher.

  4. Dad….just as this candle is being held up in your memory and it lights up the darkness….. even after you moved to the mvh you would ask how ARE YOU FEELING ABOUT yourself!!!!!! Daddy I love you so so much you were my rockstar I send you off with great energy and love ❤️ all my love and prayers LuAnn

  5. My father my friend

    I am fortunate
    I am blessed
    My memories will carry me on
    From so long ago
    To now
    My memories are more than fond and affectionate
    I am defined by the influence that my dad had on my life
    It ended too soon but
    I am fortunate
    I am blessed
    I can think of my dad and smile
    Even laugh
    And at times even guffaw
    My relationship with my dad was respectful and close
    Reverent and dynamic
    Friendly and funny
    I am fortunate
    I am blessed
    To look back at a 56 year relationship and have nothing but appreciation and love for my dad is a gift I will cherish
    My dad picked up the broken pieces when my mama died 27 years ago
    He was more than the patriarch
    He was my friend
    I will forever miss how his eyes twinkled when he smiled
    How he always had a story to share
    A memory to relive
    A hug to give
    A song to sing
    I am fortunate
    I am blessed
    I have a lifetime of gratitude, memories, and love
    I am truly fortunate
    I am truly blessed
    I was his Nance Ann right until the end…his little girl
    Thank you dad, thank you friend, for always being one of my biggest cheerleaders
    Today we lay you down
    Final resting place welcomes you
    Next to the love of your life
    Rest easy
    Fly high
    Well done, good and faithful servant
    I love you dad
    I love you friend

  6. My last memory of Mr. Kachmar is he said “ I like you” are you a senora or a senorita? Then he started to sing to me while eating his lollipop. I love that smile! Thankyou for trusting us with caring for such a great man. ❤️

  7. I am so sorry to hear of Jack’s passing. I know how much he meant to Michael and to all his family. My partner and I are sending our prayers to Jack’s family during this difficult times.

  8. We loved the times Uncle Jack visited Wyoming for Frontier Days. We will always picture Uncle Jack in his cowboy hat and boots. The coolest east coast cowboy in the entire world. Happy trails, Uncle Jack. Love, Steve and Marta


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