Howard Buckley

howard buckley
Portland-Howard R. Buckley, former CEO of Mercy Hospital, died at home on November 6, 2020. He was 83. Howard is survived by his loving wife, B. Lee Zacharias of Portland, Maine and his daughters Kellie Buckley and her husband David Girioni of North Kingstown, Rhode Island, and Maureen Buckley and her husband Jonathan Kuell of South Portland, Maine. He is also survived by his sister Monica Spaulding of Buffalo, New York, A. Marie Buckley, friend and mother of Kellie and Maureen, and four grandchildren, Nicholas and Zachary Girioni (who called him Grandpa Bus), and Anna and Brendan Kuell (who called him Papa). A native of Eau Claire, Wisconsin, Howard was a graduate of Regis High School. After serving in the U.S. Army in France as an OR Technician, he earned a degree in chemistry from Wisconsin State University and a Master's in Business Administration from George Washington University in Washington, DC. He also received an Honorary Degree of Laws from St. Joseph's College in Standish, Maine. Howard was the longest serving lay administrator of Mercy Hospital, serving as president and CEO from 1975 to 2002. During his tenure, he led Mercy through a building and modernization initiative and oversaw the purchase of land where the Fore River campus is now located. Howard served as the Honorary Chairman of the One Mercy Capital Campaign Committee, a key component in consolidating Mercy's hospital-based services on one campus. Howard loved and was beloved by Mercy employees. He walked the floors of the hospital on a daily basis, greeting employees by name, a routine that became a trademark. While many employees recall his compassion and accessibility, they also recount "Howard stories," many of which involved a wicked sense of humor and a well-executed practical joke. Howard was a member of the board of the Maine Hospital Association and served as board president of the New England Conference of the Catholic Health Association. Before retiring, Howard became an advocate for a universal health care system, and was included in a Bill Moyers PBS special on the health care crisis in the United States. His views on the need for a single-payer system were controversial among many of his colleagues in the health care field, but he was never afraid to have an unpopular opinion. He fervently believed that health care was a right, not a privilege. As much as he loved his years at Mercy, it was after his retirement that he was able to pursue his true passion--driving buses. A dependable employee for VIP Tour & Charter Bus Company, he had the time of his life driving tourists around southern Maine, taking school kids on field trips, driving high school and college athletes to sporting events, and taking groups to Foxwoods Casino. Hanging up his driver's cap was one of the most difficult decisions he ever made. Howard was a man with many eclectic interests. He had a lifelong passion for buses and his daughters have childhood memories of Saturday afternoons spent looking at broken down buses for sale. After taking baby steps by owning a few RVs, he finally achieved his dream of owning his own bus. He also had a Honda Goldwing motorcycle that he had converted into a trike that he loved dearly. He used to say, "He who dies with the most toys wins." (His family knows he was the winner.) Howard also loved watching sports--any sport, no matter who was playing. He never missed any of his daughters' sporting events but could also be found at those in which friends' or Mercy employees' children were playing. Along with his sister, Monica, Howard and his wife, Lee, spent many years performing drug testing at major sporting events around the country. He fondly remembered his weeks in Atlanta for the 1996 Olympic Games, the Boston Marathon, and many others. Later in life, he also rekindled his love of speed skating, something he had done as a kid. Howard was an established member of the Sons of the Tundra, a group of health care professionals and friends from throughout Maine, who traveled together to many places from Quebec City to Ireland. Wherever the Sons went, his birthday was celebrated regardless of the time of year, causing members to muse that Howard was the oldest man they ever knew. In 2001, Howard had the immense fortune to marry B. Lee Zacharias. With patience, Lee accompanied Howard on his many adventures. Together they took trips on his motorcycle, traveled the country looking at old buses, watched high school sports, drug tested at major sporting events, and enjoyed each other's company. Lee was Howard's rock. She was a tireless advocate for him over the years as his health failed. She was the best partner anyone could ask for. For those who knew Howard, you will know how much his family will miss the twinkle in his eye, his sarcastic sense of humor, his generosity, and his love of a good practical joke. After visits, his daughters would say, "Stay out of trouble," to which he would always grin and respond, "It's funny that everyone always feels the need to say that to me." The family would like to extend its most sincere gratitude to each and every care partner at the Mooring on Foreside. We are eternally grateful for the exceptional care and friendship that you provided Howard in the final years of his life. Unfortunately, due to Covid-19, there will be no services. When it is safe, the family hopes to rent a bus and do a farewell tour in Howard's memory. For those wishing to do something in his memory, the family suggests that donations be made in Howard's name to the Angels Among Us Fund, in support of Mercy employees in need: Angels Among Us Fund, c/o Mercy Hospital Foundation, P.O. Box 679, Portland, Maine 04104-0679. Arrangements are under the direction of the Conroy-Tully Walker Funeral Home, 172 State Street, Portland, ME. To view Howard's memorial page, or to share an online condolence, please visit www.ConroyTullyWalker.com

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  1. Our warmest condolences and our thoughts are with you. We are will always remember Howard with a smile.

    – Amy and Phil Morse

  2. Howard was a very special person. Wonderfully unique among hospital administrators. I am grateful for his influence on us.

    – Jud Knox

  3. So sorry to hear of Howard’s passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with Lee and all of Howard’s family. I have so many fond memories of my years knowing Howard. First of all he was a great CEO for Mercy Hospital and totally represented Mercy’s Mission & Values. There was hardly ever a day that if Howard was not out of town that he would take the time to walk the entire hospital from the basement to the 6th floor acknowledging all employees and treated everyone equally. Howard was visible and anyone could approach him. I will always remember Howard’s support of our softball team and coming out to our games (we called him George – after George Steinbrenner the owner of the Yankees). And there was the time he brought his travel trailer up tp Houlton when we were playing in the state tournament and he would cook us breakfast. It meant everything to me when Howard and Lee took the time to come to my retirement party a couple years ago. Fondly, Rick & Betsy Hart

    – Rick & Betsy Hart

  4. So sorry to Lee and family Howard was one of a kind One of the kindest men I knew I remember I had moved from the Birthplace to med surf for a while and Howard on one his strolls through the hospital said to me go back to the Birthplace where you belong Alas he was right and I ended up back there I was fortunate to run into him and Lee out to Bruno’s where I was gratified he remembered me and he still had that big small le and the twinkle in his eye I’m sure God is saying well done though good and faithful servant You will be missed

    – Pat Wallace

  5. My brother and I always enjoyed Howard’s wisdom and generosity in non profit efforts. Hopefully he and David have gotten together in Heaven

    – Steve Putnam

  6. Here was a real man. I was an internist with patients at Mercy and would encounter Howard not infrequently in the hall, just chatting with whomever came along – nurses, janitors, nuns (…even doctors). Occasionally I would meet him in the cafeteria, again sitting wherever he found a neighboring chair. I once went into his office on the spur of the moment to tell him I thought he was doing a great job, and I’m sure others did the same. That respect and friendship was shared by all who knew Howard Buckley.

    – Sumner Moulton

  7. I first met Howard in February of 1976. I was a senior and was looking for college advice to lead me into healthcare. Howard took my call and we met two days later in his office. He gave this young kid the best advice seeing in 1976 the future was understanding financing of healthcare was the future. A scant 10 years later I sat at a conference table across from Howard by running a small community hospital in Greater Portland. Howard was a rare person who always made you feel good about yourself, no matter what the circumstances were. You being the only person in the room is how he made you feel. Soon after retirement he got his bus license and I was coaching the first team at Portland. As I loaded the kids onto the bus, I hear this familiar Irish brogue. Howard was my driver to Marshwood. The best darn trip down and back I ever had. The funny part was when I called time out on the wrong end of a 10-0 run and I look up at Howard waving his arms like he was on a flight deck. He hollers down while holding up his cell phone he has Tom Gruber on the line! Classic Howard. My generation needed role models and Howard was a big one in my life. With admiration and respect, Joel Rogers.

    – Joel Rogers

  8. To the Howard Buckley Family: We cannot feel life’s losses without first feeling the blessings of its fullness. We wish you all strength and peace during this time of sadness. Prayers and warm thoughts from the members of The Mercy Hospital School of Nursing Alumni Association

    – Ann Marie Cady RN

  9. I always appreciated Howard’s 1988 support of the Sisters of Mercy by providing a bldg on Spring St. for the first McAuley Residence for 3 families, and facilitating its later expansion in 1997. Also laud his efforts to expand Mercy Hospital into Mercy Health System of Maine with much broader program and geographic reach. Sr. Miriam Therese Callnan, RSM

    – Sr. Miriam Therese Callnan

  10. I came to Mercy in in 1989 as an RN and the first time I met Howard I could not believe that this warm, personable man was the hospital CEO. He knew everyone’s name, including mine, always walking around the hospital chatting and and showing how much he cared about Mercy and its employees. You could talk to him anytime about anything. I had the pleasure of seeing him fairly frequently over the years after he left Mercy as we both went to the same hairdresser! The Howard years at Mercy were warm, comfortable, and a special time. I am so glad I was able to be there for part of them. You will always be remembered with affection and respect. Gale Perry RN

    – Gale Perry

  11. Hi to the Buckley family, I was so sad to hear Howard buckley died. I candy stripped at Mercy Hospital and remember him when I was there. Take care, Kristen tully

    – kristen Tully

  12. Howard was truly the best. I will be forever grateful for having known him. My deepest sympathies to his family.

    – Kelley Souza

  13. I have very fond memories of Mr Buckley from when I worked at Mercy. He was a great CEO who worked passionately for the benefit of Mercy during a turbulent time in the best practices of medicine in the southern Maine. My condolences to his family.

    – Janet Lund

  14. Dear Kellie and Maureen, I am so very sorry. Your Dad was always so kind, funny and welcoming to me. Whether it was visits to Simmons or visiting your beautiful hometown he was such a presence of goodness. Thinking of you all and sending all my love. With lots of love from Liza.

    – Liza Moore

  15. Having worked at Mercy since 1979 I had the pleasure of knowing Howard Buckley . He was the absolute best. We will all miss you Howard, rest in peace

    – Nancy

  16. My condolences to the family, and indeed to the whole community, on the death of Mr. Buckley. During my years seeing patients at Mercy Hospital I saw first-hand his commitment to the hospital, walking the halls in the evening, asking me when he saw me how things were going, were there any problems? I wish I had known, back then, of his commitment to universal health care, an issue I’ve been pursuing in my retirement. But I’m not surprised to learn of it. Daniel C. Bryant, MD

    – Daniel Bryant

  17. We knew Howard well in past years. He and I worked together on the very first Mercy Ball, while my husband, Dr Tom Martin, Jr, was chief of orthopedics at Mercy many years ago. We have many fond memories of Howard, and were so sorry to hear of his passing. Our deepest sympathy to all of his family and friends. RIP Howard. Dr Tom Martin, Jr. & Joanne Martin.

    – Joanne Martin

  18. With sadness I learned of Howard’s passing. Our careers at Mercy Hospital were closely matched. I arrived at Mercy in 1974 and remember a dinner meeting with Howard, and Doctors Steve Monahan and Al Swett. Howard at the time was working at a hospital in Redding Pennsylvania. Our meeting was to recruit him for CEO. I liked him immediately. Our Department of Radiology had, at times, conflicting goals but Howard, always listened, considered our concerns and we would arrive at at a balanced decision for what was best for Mercy and our department. I retired in 2001. He was at my retirement party and I was at his. He said to me “I knew you would be here”. We cared for each other. My condolences to you and the family. Payson Adams, M.D.

    – Payson Adams

  19. My deepest sympathy to Lee and Howard’s family. I worked at Mercy with Howard for nearly 20 years and have many wonderful memories. He was one of a kind and I’m blessed that he hired me. I loved the devilish twinkle in his eye and his gruff response to ‘good morning, Howard ‘… “what do you mean by that?”… I looked forward to his walk around each afternoon to check in with employees, calling each person by name, staff and volunteers alike… I appreciated his support of employees at all levels and the time he took to get to know me and my colleagues… but most of all I’m happy to have had his friendship which extended beyond his retirement. I’ll remember his humor, his kindness, his wisdom, and his guidance of Mercy through rough healthcare financing waters. A life well lived! Peace.

    – Jennifer Fitzpatrick

  20. I met Howard when I came to Mercy and Maine in 2002. We had a short transition and he headed enthusiastically to “retirement.” He enjoyed every minute, still meeting colleagues, driving buses, and enjoying a joke. He loved Mercy and remained very available to attend events and provide advice. He passing is personally impactful and brings back such memories. My sympathies to Lee and his entire family. I so regret that we are unable to gather and tell stories. Eileen & John Skinner

    – Eileen Skinner

  21. Dear Kelley, Maureen, Lee and Marie, So very sorry to receive the news of Howard. Our memories with him will never be forgotten. I have never had a more honorable, faithful, and loving friend as Howard. A man with a personality bigger than life! Your loss is shared by all who knew him. B&B

    – Bill and Betty Robidoux


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