Gerard P Conley

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PORTLAND - Gerard P. Conley, Sr., of Portland, passed away on January 4, 2018, a day after his 88th birthday. He was in the presence of his family at the Mercy Hospital, the same hospital in which twelve of his thirteen children were born. Each year as Jerry left the hospital with his bride, Ann, and their newest bundle of joy, he would look back at the admissions desk clerk and say, "We are making our reservations for next year right now!" Jerry was born on January 3, 1930, the third of six children with which Thomas J. and Catherine (Murphy) Conley were blessed. Jerry graduated from Sacred Heart Grammar School, attended Cheverus High School until being asked to depart, and then matriculated at Deering High School until he departed on his own through a classroom window. As Mark Twain said, he never let his schooling interfere with his education. Without the benefit of a high school diploma, he enlisted in the U.S. Army and miraculously received an honorable discharge in 1950. Jerry struggled with alcohol until he was twenty-five. Luck and good fortune lead him into the arms of Ann Duff and to the open doors of his first AA meeting. Once Jerry put down the bottle, he picked up procreation and politics. He and his loving wife, Ann, brought thirteen children into the world, ten boys and three girls. Jerry began running for political office in 1960. He unsuccessfully ran for Cumberland County Sheriff twice, losing by 13,000 votes the first time and 1,300 the next. His first of many successful runs for public office landed him a seat in the Maine State House of Representatives in 1964 with two individuals who would become life-long friends, Governor Joseph Brennan and Speaker John Martin. Jerry served in the House until 1968 when he was elected to the Maine State Senate. He served as Assistant Senate Minority Leader, Senate Minority Leader, and, in 1983, he was elected President of the Maine State Senate. Jerry always referred to himself as a Democratic leader: "A minority I was born, a Democrat I have become!" Jerry was elected to the Portland City Council from 1968-1977 and served as the city's Mayor from 1971-1972. It was during this time frame under the guidance of John Menario, City Manager, and the City Council, that Portland began its transformation into the robust, energetic city we know it to be today. Throughout his decades of elected service, Jerry also worked the grave-yard shift for twenty-seven years as a Clerk for the Portland Terminal Company at the Rigby Yard. He was a proud member of Lodge 152 of the International Brotherhood of Railroad, Airline and Steamship Clerks. In 1985, Governor Joseph Brennan appointed Jerry as Chairman of the Unemployment Insurance Commission where he was delighted to award unemployment benefits to deserving workers throughout the state until he retired in 1992. In 1992, Jerry returned to politics and was elected Register of Probate by the citizens of Cumberland County. When he was asked in his interview with the Portland Press Herald about what his qualifications were for the job, he told the Board that he got oxygen "above the shoulder blades." He promptly received the paper's endorsement. In 2004, Governor John E. Baldacci appointed Jerry to the Maine Turnpike Authority and named him Chairman. Jerry presided over the five year, thirty-mile highway widening project, implementation of the EZ Pass electronic toll collection, and construction of the Turnpike Authority Headquarters which now bears his name. Jerry happily ended his public service along with many other Democrats upon the election of Governor LePage. Once Jerry returned to private life he surrounded himself with his family, baked the best Irish bread in Maine (next to Claire Foley's), and walked his dogs Duffy, and then Cassie, in Baxter's Woods and along Baxter's Boulevard. Besides his family, Jerry loved Portland, especially the West End, his trips to Ireland, and St. Dominic's Church, now the Irish Heritage Center. He considered his receipt of the second annual Claddagh Award in 2009 from the Irish Heritage Center to be a very special recognition. Though he sponsored many pieces of successful legislation, his greatest self-reported accomplishment was passage of his bill to decriminalize public intoxication. He was a wonderful husband, father, Irishman, and Democrat. He may be gone, but he will never be forgotten by those who loved him. The Conleys wish to give huge shout outs to Eddie Kelleher, Mary Najarian, David and Barbara Victor, Phil Regios, Ricky Roberts, Rubin Segal, the Currans of Spiddal, the O'Neills of Newmarket-on-Fergus, the Visiting Nurses Assoc., and the Mercy Hospital and its staff. Jerry was predeceased by his wife, Ann, in 1992, a daughter, Mary Catherine, 1975, and a son, John, 2010, as well as his brothers, Thomas, Richard, and Donald and his sister, Jean Cornicelli. Jerry is survived by his brother, David, of Souderton, PA; his daughters, Jean M. Greenwood, and her husband, Richie, and Ann Nora Murphy, of Portland; his sons, Gerard P., Jr. and his wife, Mary of Portland, Richard P. and his wife, Kathy, of Bronx, NY, Thomas M. and his wife, Jayne of South Portland, Peter H., Patrick G., Daniel E., David J., Donald J., all of Portland, Kevin D. and his wife Kelly of Westbrook; grandsons, granddaughters, great-grandchildren, nephews, and nieces, all too numerous to name. A Celebration of Jerry's Life will be held at 1PM on Sunday, January 7 2018 at the Irish Heritage Center, 34 Gray Street, Portland. Parking is available at the Conroy-Tully Walker Funeral Home. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at 11AM on Monday, January 8, 2018 at St. Pius X Church, 492 Ocean Avenue, Portland. Arrangements are under the direction of the Conroy-Tully Walker Funeral Home, 172 State Street, Portland. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the Maine Irish Heritage Center, 34 Gray Street, Portland, Maine 04102
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  1. Jerry was a very good man. I have known him for most of my career. He was a respected legislator, a friend, and finally a colleague on the Board of the Maine Turnpike Authority. He liked to say that it took a Chief Justice to replace him as Chair of the Board and an Admiral to replace him as a member. We may have taken his place but we will never fill his shoes. He had a way with people that was remarkable. May he Rest In Peace.

    – Daniel Wathen

  2. This is just one of many trips Gerry had with his great family and friends in Spiddal Galway with the Currans. From the time we first met Gerry and the Conley family and the many friends they brought with them to Galway we just loved this unique character. He was so loving, so funny, so insightful and so Irish. We looked forward to the many evenings we spent chatting, listening to music and having a laugh. Thank you for the hospitality when Grainne Curtin and I visited with you in 2008 and when my Mom and Dad got to visit in 2012 for Mom’s birthday. The brunches you held at your home are a lovely memory with you and your family who came with the feast. We have a saying in Irish which is ‘Ni bheidh d’leithead ann aris’ which translates as there will never be the likes of you again. But lucky for us you will forever live on in your family. Gra mor Deirdre, Martin, Tim and Barbara XXXX

    – Deirdre Uí Dhioráin

  3. I used to walk my poodle, Freddy, with Jerry and his poodle, Duffy, in Baxter Woods. He was by far one of the funniest persons I ever met. The stories he told could fill a book. He used to call my dog “Freddy the Freeloader” which would make everyone laugh. What a unique and wonderful person. He is the kind that touches a person’s soul and remains with them forever.

    – Aimee Kudlak

  4. Jerry Conley was the real deal, a man of enormous humanity, accomplishment, love and good cheer. I was privileged to be a part of John Menario’s team during many of Jerry’s years on the Portland City Council. His political skills of which he had many were grounded on consistent principles of fairness, compassion and doing what is right. During their spirited public policy debates Jerry was unique among his Council peers with an amazing ability presented through well reasoned logic and good humor to successfully persuade and actually shift votes from the negative to the positive. It was a marvel to watch when Councilor Conley rose to speak. His voice was respected by all. Jerry Conley was truly a leader of the people. My deepest condolences and very best wishes to the Conley family. Neal Allen.

    – Neal Allen

  5. I’m so sorry for your loss, I have many fond memories of Jerry at my parent’s house in Portland, he always brought bundt cakes! I’m so glad I got to see him this summer during my visit to Portland. My thoughts are with all of you!

    – Julie Colucci

  6. I had the privilege of being Jerry’s physician for a number of years. As expected, he was one of my favorite patients. It was always a highlight of my day when he would come in to see me.

    – Joel Botler, MD

  7. Jerry was truly a unique individual. He was the wittiest person I ever knew, often leaving me doubled over with laughter. More impressive, he had an uncanny ability to “read” people, to recognize instinctively what were their strengths, weaknesses and desires. He put that skill to successful use when he sought leadership positions in the Maine Legislature, culminating in the Presidency of the Maine Senate. He was my best friend and I will miss him terribly. Mary Najarian

    – Mary Najarian

  8. Jerry was perhaps the most delightful person we met since moving to Portland. David loved their walks in Baxter Woods, and I loved our visits to his home, where I became addicted to his M&Ms.

    He was ahead of the curve in many areas, including his insistence that gay folks be given the same rights as others. His life was about service, caring and love. We will miss our dear friend and know he will remain in our hearts forever. Barbara Doughty and David Victor

    – Barbara Doughty

  9. My prayers and sympathy to the Conley family.
    He was a wonderful man who was always happy to see people and chat about his wonderful
    family and trips to Ireland.
    Gerry will be missed by the people who’s lives he touched.
    May Gerry Rest In Peace and have the best Saint Patrick’s Day celebration with his loving wife Ann, son and daughter!

    – Sister Margaret A. Coyne

  10. Jerry’s compassion and sense of humor made him perhaps the most beloved elected official in recent Maine memory. The three winters that I worked as his staff assistant in the Maine Senate were certainly fun-filled, as Jerry poked fun at Governor Longley, lobbyists, fellow Democrats, and most of all himself.
    Bill Bell

    – Bill Bell

  11. he was the best….I enjoyed many years of friendship with him. His contributions to the city of Portland and the state of Maine will live on. He was that rare politician that always put the people he served first. my condolences to the wonderful Conley family.

    – francis amoroso

  12. Jerry was a terrific father-in-law. He was always great to Dick, the kids (Michelle, now 29 and Brendan, 27) whenever we came up to Maine, or when he visited us in the Bronx, NY. One time he attended a fund-raiser at our Bronx church, and won the $10,000 grand prize! He immediately gave $1000 of it back to the pastor, and I am sure distributed the rest to his family. He was extremely generous, especially at Christmas, and he always insisted on picking up the tab at the many restaurants we went to over the years, from the Splendid in Portland (with Dick and Ann, my great mother-in-law, to Connaughtons’ in the Bronx also called the Riverdale Steak House.where we would have a crowd. I spent a week with him and my kids in the summer (no more hotels at Old Orchard Beach for you—you are staying HERE) and he entertained us quite a bit by taking us to Pine Point, Crescent Beach and the like. He even drove us all the way back to the Bronx!!!And who could forget his chocolate chip cookies? He would mail us packages of them in big tins. And the hermits?? Indescribably delicious! He hosted every Thanksgiving party—how about that stuffing?? I was crushed one day when my daughter Michelle told me, “Your mashed potatoes aren’t as good as Grampy’s” Donnie has seemed to pick up the knack of making them, though. And, all the summer barbecues we went to—(we know he also did Sunday bagels, St. Patrick’s Day and many other parties that we just couldn’t make it to.) He was especially fond of bantering with his late son Jay Jay when JJ was cooking on the grill. He made a fantastic potato salad on a long tray that he piled up to look like a mountatin . He would place the hard-boiled egg slices just so around this creation. I was at a conference a few years ago in Portland without Dick and thought I’d drop in on Jerry. He said, “Let me show you a surprise!” And he drove over to his granddaughter Heather’s house so I could see her new baby Thomas. Those are the kinds of thigs he would do. He also totally surprised me by coming to both my parents’ wakes with Jerry Jr. in Rutland, Vermont, three years apart. Well, Jerry, you will certainly be missed! And, I thought I’d share this one more endearing image—-the first time I saw Jerry was 38 years ago when he was in a Speedo bathing suit tanning himself at Crescent Beach! I flashed forward to thoughts of what Dick would look like at his father’s age and said to myself, “Those are some good genes!” And I snagged Dick before he could get away, and joined this beautiful, big, bounteous family.

    –Kathy Nolan 1/5/18

    – Kathy Nolan

  13. I remember Mr. Conley and his wonderful family from the west end. My grandmother was born in and inherited the house on the corner of Clark and Cushman, 168 Clark street.. It was the Earles family home. I miss the old neighborhoods and the people who lived there. My sincere sympathy to the Conley family and friends. He will be missed and remembered.

    – Trisha Earles Ham-Ying

  14. Our deepest sympathies go out to the Conley family and the many many others who loved him so much. He was a loving and caring man and he will be dearly missed. Our thoughts and prayers for strength and healing to you all. Deb and Pete Gellerson

    – Deb Gellerson

  15. Deep condolences for the passing of your father. Knew him from the West End and the Irish American Club. Sincerely, Theresa Forestell and the Forestell family.

    – Theresa Forestell


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