Frank M. Hale

July 31, 1939 ~ July 25, 2023
Resided in:
Cortlandt Manor, New York
Frank M. Hale passed away July 25, 2023. He was born on July 31, 1939, in Salem, MA, to Dorothy Alicia Faye and Frank Vincent Hale. He graduated from Salem High School in 1958, graduated as an Ensign from Maine Maritime Academy in 1962, and served in the U.S. Navy Reserves from 1963-1967. After graduation, Frank sailed around the world working for Grace Lines. He married Julie Hale in 1967 and had two children before divorcing in 1997.
Frank's ease with people and conversation led him on a varied career path when he was back on land: he owned and managed a Pittsburgh Paint store, sold insulation at Homans Associates, crewed escort tugs for the Portland Pilots, and managed a fleet of fuel delivery trucks at Bickford Transportation for 13 years before his retirement. His ability to recall names, and run into people he knew in the most faraway places was uncanny, and the source of many family stories.
Frank spent many Thursday nights sailing at Portland Yacht Club, where he was a longtime member. He loved the camaraderie of the monthly dinner meetings of the Portland Marine Society. In the early 1990s, Frank made many trips to help collect the railcars that would form the basis for the Maine Narrow Gauge Railroad, and more recently assisted with the establishment of the Bickford Collection, honoring his dear friend Erv, in Yarmouth.
Frank was a tireless volunteer for the Maine Maritime Academy Alumni Association, and received their Outstanding Alumnus award in 1987. He spent many hours at the tag sale table at The Portland Boat Show raising money for scholarships, and was on the committee that established the Alumni House at the Castine campus. As Treasurer, he was integral in establishing the Council of Maritime Schools, a coalition of the seven naval academies in the U.S. He was thrilled to attend his 60th reunion in 2022 and reconnect with his classmates.
A passionate football fan, Frank was never happier than when watching his NY Giants, Dallas Cowboys, or beloved Pats on a Sunday. He had the thrill of a lifetime by attending Superbowl XX in 1985 with his brother Bob to see the Chicago Bears win.
Frank proudly owned and restored a 1962 Mack B68 Series truck, and a 1939 Ford Tudor sedan. He just celebrated his 20 year membership in the American Truck Historical Society, having served as their Second Vice President. He treasured his trips to the Macungie and Owl’s Head shows with his antique vehicle friends who were a second family.
Frank was predeceased by his parents, and loving and longtime companions Elaine Thompson and Sue Megathlin. Frank is survived by his brother Robert V. Hale of Fort Lauderdale, FL, his daughter Rebecca Hale Quigley (Kevin) of Cortlandt Manor, NY, and his son F. Matthew Hale II (Samantha) of Springfield, VA, and his four cherished grandchildren Hannah, Marin, Nathaniel and SarahJane.
The family would like to thank the staff of Stroudwater Lodge, Pine Point Center, and Springbrook Center for their incredible care and compassion during Dad's final years. The family owes a lifetime of gratitude to Ernold Goodwin and Don Logan, whose loyalty, friendship and fierce advocacy for Frank's well-being is unparalleled.
A memorial service will be held at Conroy-Tully Walker Funeral Home, 1024 South Broadway, South Portland, on Friday, September 15, 2023, at 3pm. Burial will be private. To view Frank’s memorial page, or to share an online condolence, please visit www.ConroyTullyWalker.com
In lieu of flowers, the family requests that donations be made in Frank's name to the Maine Maritime Academy Alumni Association, 1 Pleasant Street, Castine, ME, 04420 https://mainemaritime.edu/giving/ ; or the American Truck Historical Society, 10380 N. Ambassador Drive, Kansas City, MO, 64153 https://aths.org/share/
RIP Frank, you were a very special man, and everyone you ever met became a good friend, and spoke highly of you. I’ll forever remember our trips to truck shows, but especially your friendship.
Dave Nichols
I think Franks legacy is to teach us all to be non judgmental and to accept everyone as they are.
Whenever I think of Dear Frank it is of him
Smiling. I think I was lucky enough to spend time with him when he was doing what he loved. Through Bob I knew Frank as he was a friend of my Daddy’s – we all had so much fun together. The times we laughed i really can not count because we always had a great time. I’ve known Frank for 25 years and shared some of the most precious memories of my life with him… in Connecticut, Florida and Bahamas. I will always thank Frank too for helping me when my own Daddy passed away. I know they are up there having a rum together . I wish the world was full of men like Frank. He was a wonderful man and I think of him often. Sincere condolences to his beloved family x
Such a special person,so many fond memories.
Where do I start? August 1959 with adjoining bunks Junior Deck compartment STATE OF MAIN. Two years in our room over the quarter deck looking out over the 3″-50 gun and a million-dollar view of the Bagaduce River and Smith Cove. Leslie and I visiting Frank and Julie in the salt box house during the paint store years.
Whenever I got to Maine for a survey we would always get together and always a dinner at DeMillos and stories of pilot boat runs, the late fall fuel oil run up Mt. Washington, his work for MMA, and fall trips down the coast with Brother Bob, and even rides in the 1939 Ford.
One very cold but bright sunny drive he was my driver to get me up to a survey in Eastport. We spent a great day together in conversation, and of course what care he was giving to his high mileage Mercury Sable.
His smile was wonderful.
First it was D.C. Smith, then Peter Tassel and now Frank. I’m the last from that room in Leavitt Hall. Frank, I miss you.
Norm Laskay
Dear Frank,
We all miss you like crazy !
Thanks for always making us laugh !
Thanks for getting us a “Mug” !
Thanks for teaching us all by your good example !
Thanks for the firm hand on the tiller !
Thanks for being the “Bow lookout” !
We will always love you Frank and look forward to being with you again !
Bob & Claire Chiarello