Ellen Smith Clarke

August 24, 1925 ~ October 7, 2016
Cumberland Foreside - Ellen Smith Clarke, 91, of Princeton, NJ, died Friday, October 7, 2016. She was born August 24, 1925, in Hartford CT, the daughter of Thomas Sarsfield Smith and Catherine Klinger of West Hartford. Ellen attended Mount Saint Joseph Academy and the University of Saint Joseph School of Nursing of the Sisters of Mercy, Class of 1947. On November 9, 1946, she was married at the Cathedral of St. Joseph to Audley Clarke II, son of Reginald Audley Clarke and Gertrude Shoebridge of Hartford CT, who served as a US Army Air Force officer in the Pacific stationed in Guam aboard a B29 from September 1943 to October 1946. After the war, Ellen moved to Princeton, NJ in 1947, as the wife of a Princeton University Student until 1949 then to Cambridge MA where she was a volunteer at the Bay State Rehab Clinic of Massachusetts General Hospital, Boston Childrens Hospital and a member of Harvard Law Wives. Ellen and her husband adopted two children, Kathryn Mary in 1957 and Jeremy Charles in 1959. She then lived in Providence, RI, Winchester, MA and Owings Mills, MD. While living in Maryland Ellen was a member of the Green Spring Valley Garden Club, volunteered at Greater Baltimore Medical Center and the Valley School. On their return to Princeton in 1969, Ellen became a Real Estate Agent with John T. Henderson Realty Inc. and remained with them and their successor companies for 42 years, retiring in 2008. She was a member of the Mercer County Board of Realtors and was affiliated with the Princeton Realty Group, LLC. She served on the Board of Princeton Community Village Residence Association. Ellen was a faithful regular communicant of St. Pauls Roman Catholic Church in Princeton and was a Catechist in the 1970s with the teaching Sisters of Mercy. She was a supporting member of the Aquinas Institute Catholic Chaplaincy of Princeton University and volunteered at Stuart Country Day School, Order of Sacred Heart. Ellen is survived by a daughter, Kathryn Clarke Held and husband Marc Held of Yarmouth ME and four grandchildren, Emily, William, Rebecca and Jonathan; and by a son Jeremy Clarke and Brenda Carbone of Farmingdale NJ and two children, Jeremy and Amber. Also surviving are nieces and nephews, five from her older brother Thomas A. Smith Marian Smith of Westerly RI, Thomas Smith Jr., Elizabeth Smith-Kulick of Norwell, MA, Jason Smith of New Britain, CT, Georgiana Smith of Newport, RI and Mary Johanna Ramirez-Smith of Madrid Spain; and two from her younger brother Charles Smith and Carolyn Cawkins Smith of Doylestown, PA, Charles Smith of Brooklyn, NY and Timothy Smith of Arlington, VA. A Memorial Mass will be celebrated at Sacred Heart Church, 326 Main Street, Yarmouth, Maine, 11:00 AM, Thursday, October 20, 2016, with burial following at Holy Cross Cemetery, Yarmouth. A reception will follow at the Sacred Heart Church parish hall. Arrangements are under the direction of Conroy-Tully Walker Funeral Home, 172 State Street, Portland. To view Ellens memorial page, or to share an online condolence, please visit, www.ConroyTullyWalker.com. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to: Sisters of Mercy, University of St. Joseph, CT, Office of Alumni Relations, 1678 Asylum Avenue, Hartford CT, 06117.
I met Ellen years ago at Henderson’s Realty. She was such a great person, always so pleasant to be around, always gracious, thoughtful and kind. She would ask about each member of my family whenever we would run into each other and would remember so much about them from our last coincidental meeting. She was a role model to many and is, and will be missed. With Love, Mindy Prucnal
– Mindy Prucnal
Ellen was a beautiful lady, inside and out. Her good natured sweetness was felt by our entire family.
– Valerie Gores
Ellen was a great lady whom I admired with a passion. I only knew her for a short time but in that time, I saw her dedication to her family and I saw how loved she was by them as well. She will be greatly missed Rest in peace Miss Ellen!
– Alyssa Janelle
Ellen was a wonderful neighbor and friend for about 10 years at PCV. She was an angel who helped me guide my two girls countless times. Sincerely,Wayne
– Wayne Harmor
Bless you Aunt Ellen; your life well-lived, passionately and lovingly, shines on! While our time together was brief, I will never forget you. Guess the NJ mud that day made us kids look like ragamuffins, and you wasted no time getting us in the tub. Were there 2, or 3 of us, I don’t recall; your loving, but firm rule, that I remember. You will be missed by many.
– Sarah Newfield
Ellen was an angel of love, strength and positivity. When my brother, mother and I moved to Princeton she welcomed us with open arms and helped us to stabilize. She was a true star in our lives and will be terribly missed. With Love,Maxwell
– Maxwell Guberman
Ellen was a great next door neighbor of mine at PCV for many years.
– Wayne H
Mrs Clarke was our neighbor and friend. A beautiful person with a heart of gold. We will always remember her kinds words and the support she gave to our family. She will be greatly missed. Sending peace and blessings to Katie and Jeremy. Sincerely, The Morton Family, Princeton, NJ Princeton, NJ
– Dawn Morton
Ellen was a special Aunt to all of the Morgan Boys. Her love,smile & grace will never be forgotten by me or my brothers. God Bless this Wonderful Women. She will be missed !!!! Matt Morgan
– Matt Morgan
Ellen was a special person whom everyone loved. I never heard her say an unkind thing about anyone. She was always so cheerful & kind. The world has lost a truly great lady. Rest in peace, my friend. I will never forget you.With love,Rosemary
– Rosemary Rodgers
Homage to Ellen, the brightest star in the firmament and our most fabulous neighbor! Who did we go to for answers to all our questions? Who comforted us when we needed cheering up? Who invited us all in for countless delicious dinners? Our Ellen was always there, ready to embrace us with the warmest love and a spirit that flowed directly from On High. You are dearly missed but your courageous example lives on. Much heartfelt love to Katie and Jeremy and their families.
– Jenny Guberman