Dr. Joseph T. DeGrinney, II

April 3, 1941 ~ December 1, 2015
Dr. Joseph T. DeGrinney, II, 74, of Port Charlotte, Florida and Pine Point, Maine, died on December 1, 2015 at the Gosnell Memorial Hospice House in Scarborough, Maine, after a long and courageous battle with pancreatic cancer. Joe was born on April 3, 1941, in Brighton, Mass., and he grew up in Arlington, Mass. He graduated from Saint Marys High School in 1959 and went on to attend Saint Michaels College in Colchester, Vermont. He graduated from St. Mikes in 1963 and entered medical school at the New Jersey College of Medicine and Dentistry in Newark, New Jersey. Joe earned his medical degree in 1967. During medical school, Joe met and married Patricia C. Petrella, a native of New Jersey. They moved to Portland, Maine in 1967, where Joe completed his medical residency at the Maine Medical Center. After his residency, Joe served as a doctor in the Air Force, and he and his family were stationed at Loring Air Force Base in Limestone, Maine. Joe earned the rank of Major before leaving active duty in 1972, whereupon he, Patricia and their three children moved to Livermore Falls, Maine, where they settled and Joe established a medical practice with his longtime colleague and partner, Dr. Will Eastman. Joe practiced family medicine in the Jay/Livermore Falls area for many years. He was an avid outdoorsman who loved to fish and spend time at his camp in Fayette, Maine, as well as a beach house in Pine Point that he and his family bought in the early 80s. In 1987, as the children went on to college in other states, Joe and Patricia lived for several years in Massachusetts, where he continued to practice medicine at Sturdy Memorial Hospital in Attleboro and Landmark Medical Center in Woonsocket, Rhode Island. In 1992, Joe and Patricia moved back to Maine, living year-round at the house in Pine Point while he continued to practice family medicine at Mercy Hospital in Portland. In 2003, he retired from medicine and began to spend winters in Port Charlotte, Florida. In early 2009, Patricia passed away, and Joe re-married on May 28, 2011 to Judith E. Eisel, of Woburn, Mass. Joe and Judy lived thereafter in Port Charlotte, Florida and Pine Point. Joe is predeceased by his parents, Joseph and Mary Lilian (York) DeGrinney, as well as his first wife, Patricia Petrella DeGrinney. He is survived by his wife, Judith E. DeGrinney, formerly of Arlington and Woburn, Mass. and now of Port Charlotte, Fla.; his sister, Roberta D. Cernota, and her husband, Al, and her son, Andrew, of Nashua, New Hampshire; two sons, Joseph Timothy DeGrinney III and his wife Susan, of Scarborough, Maine and John Paul DeGrinney and his wife Gisele, of Scarborough, Maine; one daughter, Carolyn DeGrinney Mitchell and her husband Dan, also of Scarborough, Maine; and eight grandchildren, Joseph Timothy (J.T.) DeGrinney, IV, Nicholas Patrick DeGrinney, Robert Joseph Mitchell, Maureen Elizabeth DeGrinney, Meghan Eileen DeGrinney, George Daniel Mitchell, Grace Frances DeGrinney and Dominic Francis DeGrinney. He is also survived by his stepchildren, Chris Eisel of Torrington, Cali., Mark Eisel of Bethesda, Maryland; step-grandchildren, Lauren K. Eisel, Ryan G. Eisel and Sarah J. Eisel. Joe impacted the lives of many people in many ways, too numerous to mention. Joe was a caring physician, a loving husband and father, a faithful Catholic and a steadfast friend to many. He will be greatly missed. Visiting hours will be from 9-11AM on Friday, Dec. 4, 2015 at Conroy-Tully Crawford Funeral Home, 172 State Street, Portland with a 12PM Mass of Christian Burial to follow at St. Maximilian Kolbe, 150 Black Point Road, Scarborough. Interment will be in Calvary Cemetery, South Portland. To view Joes memorial page or to share an online condolence, please visit www.ctcrawford.com. In lieu of flowers, donations in Joes name may be made to: The Gosnell Memorial Hospice House, 11 Hunnewell Rd., Scarborough, ME 04074 or The Maine Right to Life Committee, P.O. Box 257 Auburn, ME 04212.
My heart and prayers are with you Judy and the DeGrinney and Eisel children and grandchildren. Joe was such a special friend and a huge source of support throughout all of Mike’s illnesses. There are no words to convey my feelings for all of you as you go through this challenging time. Please know you can call anytime.Love you,Eleanor Cronin
– Eleanor Cronin
Dear JP, My very deepest sympathies to you and your entire family. Your Father appears to have been an exceptional icon in the family. Thinking of you during this difficult time, Sincerely, Jan
– Jan Gilbert
Tim we are so sorry to hear about your family loss. You are in our prayers
– Dennis & Judy Gillis
Dear Judy,We send our heartfelt sympathy to you on the passing of Joe. You’re in our thoughts and prayers at this sad time.
– Jim and Marge Norton
Dear JP and all the DeGrinney family. Please accept my deepest sympathies for the loss of your father. He was clearly a great dad, fun companion and a man of fine character. Peace.
– Beth Angle and Family
High School and college classmate, fellow sufferer of those grueling St. Mary’s track team sessions…friend. Judy and family, may your tears of sorrow become tears of joy, secure in the knowledge that Joe has already heard those words that we all hope to hear, “Well done, good and faithful servant.”
– Joe Corbett
Dear Hearts:On behalf of Maine Right to Life Committee and our statewide membership, please accept our condolences at the passing of dear Dr. DeGrinney. What a legacy he has left to those blessed to know him. I never saw him without a smile on his face. His kindness and love of God’s most vulnerable will be greatly rewarded. Rest In Peace, Good and Faithful Servant.Teresa McCann-Tumidajski
– Teresa McCann-Tumidajski
Please accept our condolences on the passing of your husband and father. the Dr. was a wonderful doctor and man. our family have many good memories of him when he practice medicine here in Jay and Livermore Falls. Doug and Angela Smith
– Doug and Angla Smith
To the DeGrinney familyI am so saddened by the death of Joe. Please accept my deepest sympathy. I have such great memories. I know he will be missed by all of you and so many others. He lives on in all of you. I regret that I am so far away and cannot join at this time. Know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. Much Love..Br Dan
– Br Dan St Jacques
My sympathy goes out to everyone in the family. We have lost a dear friend whose intellect. compassion and down- to earth- manner will never be forgotten. He once commented that Pope John Paul, in his lengthy illness, was showing us all by his example, how a Christian plays out his life and death. Joe did that too: he fought the good fight, ran the race to the finish line and is with the Divine Physician.
– Mary Anne Farese
I am just hearing this new about the passing of Dr DeGrinney, so sorry to hear , what a wonderful man! I had the great pleasure working with him thru Mercy Family Practice. I have great memories of a man with a kind soul, I recently bumped into his daughter ,Carolyn and daughter inlaw Susie on Peaks Island last summer , was great to see you ladies again after many years! Please know he was an angel here on earth and now in heaven! God bless Dr DeGrinney , God Speed
– Laurie MacDonald ( former Mercy employee) resident of Peaks Island
Joe was a wonderful friend and physician. We were close friends beginning with our internships at Maine Medical Center in 1967 and continuing until his death. Sue and I will miss him terribly. Our condolences go out to his family.
– Rufus W. Head
Just heard the sad news…..a big loss for your family……we are sending prayers and warm thoughts……..Judy you were such a big support for him…..we are sending love and support to you……. our priviledge to have met him…..GOD BLESS
– Ann & Joe Doyle
We shared the same understanding of patients. You will be missed but always remembered.
– Sumner Moulton, MD
Carolyn,Please accept our deepest sympathy for you and your family in your bereavement.david walker al ledoux
– David Walker
Carolyn, Very sorry to hear this news. Your dad was a wonderful man. My thoughts are with you and your family.
– Laura Bustin
To Dr. DeGrinney’s Family,My sympathy goes out to all of you! So sorry to hear of Joe’s passing. I grew up in Livermore Falls and visited Dr. DeGrinney several times in my youth as a patient. As a child going to the Doctors was very scary , but he always made my visits fun and relaxing. He and Dr. Eastman were the two Doctors in our town that served most of the population. I will never forget his kind, caring attitude, professionalism, funny wit, but most of all his willingness to always be available to his patients-day or night! My condolences to all of you.Pam Laverdiere Couture
– Jay, Maine
Judy,We are thinking of you at this most difficult time. We feel blessed to have known Joe even if only for this short time. Please know we send all good thoughts for you and the family. We hope to see you later this winter.Kay & Gerry
– Kay and Gerry Hudson
As a young physician starting my practice in Farmington in 1982 Joe was a great mentor. Honest, hard working, ethical compassionate and fun. The world sheds a tear with the loss of those who truly make a difference.
– Gary E. Palman, DO
To my dear friend, Judy. You and Joe are in our prayers and our hearts. We will miss him and we love you, Susanne and Regis
– Susanne and Regis Roderick
Dear Dr. DeGrinney, My thoughts are with you and your family at the passing of your father.At this difficult time, may the peace of the Spirit fill your heart, the love of the Father renew your strength, and the promise of the Savior bring you hope.
– Gladys C. Stokinger
Tim & family,I was deeply moved by the news of Dr. Joe’s passing – he was a great doctor and mentor – and has often been my thoughts over the years (as have you, Dr. Tim). How many times have I asked myself – what would Joe and Tim recommend right now? Although my road has taken me far from Mercy and Peaks Island – I would not be the nurse practitioner I am today without the guidance and influence of Dr. Joe and Dr. Tim in those early years.With deepest sympathies and fondness,Chris
– Chris King (Mahoney), FNP
My deepest sympathy on the loss of your father and grandfather. May he rest in peace.
– Maureen Williams
My friend, my boat, his fish.See you soon. Hope the fish are bigger.
– Ron Farese
My deepest sympathies for the loss of your father. He was a kind, gentle man whom I remember fondly. Peace be with you. – Br Bob C.
– Br Robert R. Croteau SC