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Donna J. Kostis

November 8, 1947 ~ May 4, 2025

Born in: Sanford, Maine
Resided in: Sanford, Maine

Donna Kostis, 77, of Sanford, passed away peacefully at her home on May 4, 2025. Born on November 8, 1947, to Frank and Georgia Kostis, Donna lived a life full of creativity, adventure, and compassion.

A standout student-athlete at Sanford High School, Donna excelled in softball, basketball, and field hockey and proudly twirled as a majorette. She continued her love for sports at Plymouth State College, playing field hockey while earning her Bachelor’s degree before beginning her career in education at Dorchester High School outside Boston.

Donna’s adventurous spirit led her west in the early 1970s on a road trip to Colorado, a journey that turned into the greatest chapter of her life. She studied photography in Denver, which sparked a passion for capturing the world through her lens. Eventually, she settled in the small mountain town of Ophir near Telluride, where she embraced the rugged beauty of the Rockies with her beloved horse and a pair of loyal black labs by her side. Mountain life gave her joy—skiing, exploring, and immersing herself in the wildness of nature.

When she later returned to Maine, her photography evolved to focus on commercial work that took her around the country. Even as arthritis crept into her life and changed her path, Donna’s strength and independence never wavered. She never complained, and those who knew her best saw a woman who faced challenges with quiet resilience and dignity.

Donna was an endlessly curious lifelong student who never forgot an article she read or a story someone shared. She had a deep love for animals, a passion for art and movies (especially the popcorn that came with them), and a heart that instinctively put others before herself. She cherished her family and treasured her lifelong friendships, always going out of her way to make those around her feel seen and supported. Uniquely special, Donna’s presence will be deeply missed and forever remembered.

She is survived by her loyal brother, Steve Kostis, and his partner, Betty Wills; her nieces Jessica Zeldner (husband, Zach), Risa Kostis, and Gina Lilley (husband, Brandon); and her great-nieces and nephews, Sawyer, Sammy, Dutch, Stevie, Wellie, and Dempsey.

At Donna’s request, no services will be held. To honor her memory, please consider a donation to the American Arthritis Foundation or your local animal shelter—two causes close to her heart.

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  1. Donna was a special person who will live in our hearts forever! Growing up in the same neighborhood, we always looked up to Donna as our leader and protector. She was fun, definitely adventurous and no one dared to mess with her. Donna was a true friend and will be sorely missed.

  2. Donna was always on her own path to great adventures and a love of life! She enjoyed playing jazz on the piano, taking breathtaking photos, and spending time with her nieces and their children when they came to Maine. Donna was never a conformist and I always appreciated how kind and caring she was to me and my family. I will miss DJ very much, she was one of a kind, caring, a true individualist, a huge heart, and most importantly true to herself without being selfish. In sympathy, and rest peacefully.


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