Deborah Kelley

deborah kelley

May 15, 1972 ~ February 23, 2025

Born in: Portland, ME
Resided in: Portland, ME

It is with deep sadness that we announce the passing of Debbie Kelley, a devoted mother, athlete, and beacon of strength who passed away Sunday, February 23, 2025 surrounded by family and friends. Born on May 15, 1972, Debbie was a force of nature. The joy of her life was being the mother of two beautiful daughters, Shawna and Izzy. As a single mother, she poured all of her love and dedication into her girls to ensure they had every opportunity to thrive. Debbie worked tirelessly to show the girls the value of perseverance, determination, and the importance of living life with purpose. Debbie graduated from Portland High School in 1990 and obtained a Bachelor of Science degree from Quinnipiac University in 1994. Debbie fulfilled her dream of becoming a physical therapist and spent over twenty years in the field specializing in the care of brain injury and stroke patients. She engaged in clinical practice at New England Rehabilitation Hospital of Portland, River Ridge Center, Falmouth by the Sea, and in multiple home health agencies in both clinical practice and management roles. Her passion was getting those with brain injuries to walk again and finding ways to allow those patients to reach their personal goals. In 2014, Debbie obtained her certification as a Neurological Clinical Specialist (NCS) from the American Physical Therapy Association (APTA). In addition to clinical practice, Debbie became an adjunct professor at the University of New England, a role which she continued in even throughout her illness. Throughout her life, Debbie was an avid athlete, from her softball days at Little League #9 to being a PHS Lady Bulldog playing varsity basketball, softball, and soccer. Debbie went on to play Division II college basketball at Quinnipiac University. After school, she continued her love of sports through coaching both youth and high school sports in the Portland area. Debbie ran the 2002 Marine Corps Marathon, the 2014 NYC Marathon and many more. She also took part in triathlons and ½ Iron Man competitions. Even as cancer took its toll on her body, Debbie never lost her fighting spirit. She faced each day with remarkable strength and grace inspiring those around her with the depth of her determination. In the end, cancer took her body but it never got her heart. Debbie is predeceased by her parents, Paul and Mary Kelley. She is survived by her children, Shawna and Izzy Kelley; her nephew, Matthew Poulin of Manchester, with whom shared a special bond; her sister, Patricia Poulin and her husband, Mike, of Manchester; nephew, Michael Poulin and Katie Baril and their children; niece, Molly Poulin of Ohio; numerous Aunts, Uncles, Cousins of the Kelley and Quinn families who brought deep and lasting friendship, love, and support to her life. Debbie had an amazing group of friends that supported her in life and went far above and beyond to support her through her cancer journey. She always said, she would never had made it through the four years without her family and friends. Debbie wished to thank the unsurpassed St. Brigid Family for their unwavering support of the Kelley Strong Family both in illness and in health. Debbie was granted the ability to outlive all expectations despite her Stage IV Ovarian Cancer diagnosis in November of 2020 because of the steadfast dedication and brilliance of Dr. Kevin Elias, formally of Dana-Farber Institute, and Dr. Elizabeth Stover, of Dana-Farber Institute. These doctors became family to the Debbie every minute of the last four years was a gift provided by their care. Visiting Hours celebrating her life will be held on Sunday, March 2 from 1-5PM at the Conroy-Tully Walker Funeral Home of Portland, 172 State Street, Portland. Prayers will be recited on Monday, March 3 at 9AM at the funeral home, followed by a 10AM Mass of Christian Burial at Sacred Heart Church, 65 Mellen Street, Portland. Interment will follow at Calvary Cemetery, Broadway, South Portland. To share an online condolence, please visit www.ConroyTullyWalker.com. In lieu of flowers, Debbie wished that donations be made to the Dempsey Center of Maine. The Dempsey Center went above and beyond to support the entire family over the four-year battle Debbie waged with her illness. As a family we wish to express our deepest gratitude to the Dempsey Team that has made getting through the impossible, possible.

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  1. I was so sad to read about Debbie. I offer my prayers and thoughts to daughters Shawna and Izzy, sister Patty and all other family members and friends. What a wonderful life Debbie lived. It was amazing to read all she accomplished. I so enjoyed
    the photos. She has to be an inspiration for all of us.
    Marilyn MacDowell ( neighbor from Hennessy Drive)

  2. Patty – So very sorry to hear of Debbie’s passing. My heart and prayers go out to you and your family.
    May the many beautiful and special memories you have of her help you through this most difficult time.
    Carolyn DuEst

  3. Debbie, your journey was special and provided such learnings of strength, resilience and living joy each day no matter what. Your love and dedication was endless. Your legacy lives on. May you rest in peace and your love and light shine bright forever. ❤️🍀

  4. The tears won’t stop flowing Debbie. We all loved you so very much. I will never forget the hours and hours we spent together in the gymnastics waiting room before your nightmare began and I will treasure the days we had together recently. Your strength, courage, and absolute superhuman skills in every aspect of your life will never, ever be forgotten. Miss you so much already.

  5. Patty,
    Our hearts and prayers go out to you and your family during this difficult time.
    May your memories you hold in your heart help you .
    Sincerely
    Ron & Deb Smalley

  6. We had fun and happy moments camping, crossing paths at the gymnastic dropping and picking our kids up, and many parties at the neiborghood. Lots of great memories.
    She was always happy, smiling and excited… she is deeply missed already but I am sure she is in a better, peaceful and happier place.
    May all of the happy memories the entire neighborhood, friends and family shared with her, bring you all comfort in the days ahead.
    Debbie our love and prayers ✨️ will always be with you.🙌🌷
    Love,
    Fabiola, Gabriel, Olivia and Brendan

  7. My deepest condolences to her daughters, sister, brother-in-law and nephew for this big loss. Things will not be the same, but your hearts and lives are so much better for getting to have her in it. She knew how deeply she was loved by y’all. Sorry I cannot be there to celebrate her life on Sunday and Monday. I will be thinking of you all. Sending lots of love, laughter, and fond memories during this difficult time. Love you Patty, Mike and Matthew!!

  8. Strong roots, long reach and perseverance through the seasons, a tree is the perfect way to remember you.

  9. Deb was an incredible physical therapist and teacher. Her neuro skills and wisdom will continue on by all the therapists and UNE students she taught. A true warrior!

  10. Debbie you have been and will remain to be an inspiration for all of us who are left with the memories of your courageous fight for life. In a world that is seems hard to navigate at times, you have given us all perspective. Appreciate the gift that we are fortunate to have. Thank you.
    God bless you and keep you

  11. Deb, you will be so so missed by so many- especially Shauna and Izzy. You were such a great mother to them. Your family and friends are so pained by your death. Thanks for being such a wonderful Mother , sister, daughter, cousin and friend to so so many. You are loved by so so many folks. Hope you are enjoying heaven with your parents and friends. Love You, Uncle Sam

  12. Patty and family, We are so sorry to hear of the loss of your brave and dear sister. This is a great loss and we are thinking and praying for you all.-Amy and Steve Hanlon


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