David Patrick McInnis

December 31, 1964 ~ April 11, 2023
Resided in:
South Portland, ME
South Portland - David Patrick McInnis, 58, formerly of Westbrook, died on Tuesday, April 11, 2023 at his home with his loving family by his side following a long and courageous battle with esophageal cancer.
David was born in Portland, Maine on December 31st, 1964 the son of Frederick F. and Elizabeth J. (Lyden) McInnis. David was an active boy who loved being a boy scout, an altar boy, and was fondly known as Pretzel among his many friends.
David suffered the first of two traumatic brain injuries in 1983 at the age of 18. True to his personality, he worked hard in rehab and battled his way back to independence when he sustained a second brain injury at the age of 29. After more rehab and multiple group home settings, David moved into Pride House in 1995 and lived there until his passing.
David enjoyed cookouts and holiday parties at the group home and he had nicknames for everyone. He could always be found with a cup of coffee and was famous for his unbelievable luck at scratch tickets. David was cared for and loved by both residents and staff and will be sadly missed by them all.
Despite the adversity David faced, he never complained and approached each obstacle with a positive attitude. He was kind, generous, and loved being with his family. David especially loved going out to eat to celebrate someone’s birthday, and he adored his mother immensely.
David was predeceased by his father, Fred McInnis in 2011, and his brother, Daniel J. McInnis in 1982. He is survived by his mother, Elizabeth (Jane) McInnis, a brother, Matthew J. McInnis, and sister Maureen and her husband Matt Sylvia, all of Westbrook along with many cousins, aunts and an uncle. David will be sadly missed by all those who knew him; he touched many lives with his kind spirit and happy nature.
The family would like to extend special thanks to Nancy Pezzullo at Hospice of Southern Maine for the exceptional care she gave to David during his illness. Also, the family thanks the staff at Pride House, especially April Wheeler and Julia Butts.
A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at 11am on Tuesday, April 18, at St. Hyacinth Catholic Church, 268 Brown Street, Westbrook. A private burial will occur at a later date at St. Hyacinth Roman Catholic Cemetery on Stroudwater Street in Westbrook. To view David's memorial page, or to share an online condolence, please visit www.ConroyTullyWalker.com
It was with deep sorrow that I learned of David’s passing from his beloved mother Jane.David was a dear student at St.Hyacinrhe School, Grade2. A handsome child. Always smiling, bright ,curious, quiet. A gentle child ,loved by his teacher and classmates.I was always saddened by his suffering in later years. In my mind I will always see those eyes full of life, and that radiant smile! In my heart, I will recall the student, the son, the brother….with much love! My deepest sympathy to his family, so faithful and caring of him.
Dave, I will forever remember you as being one of the strongest people I know. There’s some of your personal phrases that I will always remember. ” just waking up”, “No respect” “doing the best I can” “its not you.” I could keep going.. The love that you had for your family was amazing to witness. Baby boy, you better win the biggest scratch ticket up there❤️
my dear friend Jane, and Maureen, Matt and “George” so sorry for your loss may you find comfort in knowing David is no longer in pain and he is not in a wheelchair!! he is in a new heavenly body, with “Dude” and Danny walking streets of gold!!
my dear Friend Jane, and Maureen and Matt so sorry for your loss, may you take comfort in knowing he is no longer in pain nor in a wheelchair! and he is with “Dude” and Danny in heaven.
His mother and i are friends
the very first time I met David at Maureen’s I loved him he was such a character always laughing, he called his brother Matt “George” so of course i had to ask why… the explanation was this…
because he’s my brother and “I’m gonna love him and pet him and squeeze him and call him George” do you know that one? So Matt was always George to David.
Sorry for your loss
Love Marky
Family friend
David came to the restaurant I work at at least once a week for many years. He would greet me with a big smile and hold up 2 fingers (meaning the number 2 omlet, ham and cheese). I had not seen him since before covid, and was sorry to read of his passing. Just thought someone would like to know he will be remembered for his humor and kindness!
My condolences to the family! David (Pretzel) and I were close in school and I never forgot his beautiful soul <3
His mom. His sister and brother.
His independence
Dear Dave,
I take the memory of your laugh with me. Who will I sing the Caddyshack theme song with now? I hope you find Rodney Dangerfield and giggle the days away. Your housemates came to see you off, it was a lovely service. Not too many dry eyes, and knowing you would have hated it didn’t make it easier. You made such an impact in all of our lives, I hope you knew how much you are loved.
Take it easy bro see you again bro
We were friends I went to school with his brother
Jane, Maureen and Mathew, my deepest sympathies to all of you on the loss of David. I remember babysitting him and his siblings when you lived on Garfield street and David always had that mischievous smile and twinkle in his eyes. I am so sorry 😢 for your loss and sending big hugs. Please wrap yourself in the memories of your beautiful family. ❤️ Susan (McCullough) Carroll