Daniel John Desmond

February 8, 1946 ~ February 10, 2019
Resided in:
Falmouth, ME
Daniel J. Desmond left an indelible mark on the lives of many and his beloved Portland, "that beautiful town that is seated by the sea," his home of 73 years. Dan died peacefully at his home in Falmouth, comforted by his family, on Sunday February 10, 2019 after a long struggle with cancer.
Dan was born on February 8, 1946 in Portland, Maine. He attended Cheverus High School, graduating cum laude in 1964. After high school, he attended the College of the Holy Cross in Worcester, Massachusetts, graduating with a degree in history in 1968. He then became a commissioned officer in the United States Navy after attending Officer's Candidate School in Newport, Rhode Island. He served with distinction during the Vietnam War, and always remembered his service to his country with pride, noting that it was a privilege and an honor to wear the uniform. Following an honorable discharge from the Naval Reserve, Dan earned his Juris Doctorate from the University of Maine Law School in Portland, graduating in 1974.
Dan practiced law for over four decades, serving as President of the Cumberland County Bar Association, a post his father also held before him. He served as President of the Board of Trustees for Westbrook Community Hospital and Public Administrator for Cumberland County, and served in many prominent roles throughout his esteemed career.
Dan was a lifelong member of the Portland Country Club where he enjoyed playing golf with his many friends. He loved Maine and Portland, the unpredictable weather as an armchair meteorologist and his New England sports teams, following them from a young age on his Crystal radio. He was loved and admired for his humility, kindness, easy manner and wonderful sense of humor. It was these qualities that made him an instant friend. He had so many friends, and they were all his best friends. He was very respectful of all that life encompassed - he was special in every sense of the word. We never knew anyone who did not love Dan.
Dan will be sorely missed, most of all by those closest to him. He was a wonderful father and husband. His greatest joy and accomplishment were his children, and he was never happier than when spending time with his family. Most important was the relationship that he had with his best friend and companion for 48 years, Cheryl "Lover", where he derived all the love that anyone needed.
Dan led a very full and happy life. He enriched the lives of so many and they equally enriched his.
Dan was predeceased by his parents, Elizabeth and James Desmond; his sister, Ellen Desmond Stone; his beloved daughter, Elizabeth Desmond McKee. He is survived by his wife, of forty eight years, Cheryl Morin Desmond; his sons, Dr. James Desmond and wife Jenny of Liberia, Africa, Sean Desmond and wife Briona of Virginia; four grandchildren, Fionn, Ellen, and Davan Desmond, and Fallon McKee and her dad, Michael McKee. He is also survived by his sister, Alice Harris and her husband Charles of Beverly, Massachusetts. He leaves behind many nieces and nephews and extended family.
Visiting hours celebrating Dan's life will be held at the Conroy-Tully Walker Funeral Home, 172 State Street, Portland on Friday, February 15, 2019, from 4:00 pm to 7:00 pm. Prayers will be recited at the funeral home at 10:15am on Saturday, February 16, 2019, followed by a Mass of Christian Burial at 11:00am at the Cathedral of the Immaculate Conception, 307 Congress Street, Portland, Maine. Burial will follow in Calvary Cemetery, Broadway, South Portland.
In lieu of flowers, gifts may be made to Dana-Farber Cancer Institute in memory of Daniel J. Desmond to support cancer research and patient care at:
Dana-Farber Cancer Institute
P.O. Box 849168
Boston, MA 02284
or via www.dana-farber.org/gift.
Dan and my Father Bryant were the best of friends. Dan was always someone my Dad would rely on for a good laugh or advice. He was so helpful to my sister and I after my father passed away. My sincere condolences to the entire Desmond family. BJ Nicholson
– BJ Nicholson
Cheryl and family, I was so very sorry to learn about Dan’s passing. I only worked for Dan for a couple of years at Gagan & Desmond, a very long time ago, but I have always thought so highly of him and have very nice memories. A gentle spirit and so respectful. Dan was also so wonderful in dealing with my parents needs. Thinking of you all. Marcia Babb Carr
– Marcia Carr
Danny was a prince among men! Like his father he was a kind, compassionate and gentle man. Sorry to hear that he had cancer but he will be remembered as a GIANT who was loved and respected by all!
– Norman Reef
Cheryl & family: I will miss our lunches together , his wise counsel, wit and sense of humor. A true gentleman. I’m so sorry for your loss. Arthur MEADER, Rumford, Maine
– Arthur Meader
My deepest condolences to all; I only learned on Saturday, Feb. 16th that Danny had died. I have many memories of my family and the Desmonds enjoying summer days at our home on Shore Road in Cape Elizabeth. I always considered Alice, Ellen and Danny to be my closest cousins–as they certainly were. My funniest memory of Dan was his advice to me as I was about to go away to college: “You are about to have a four-year vacation; enjoy!” Suzanne Carr Copeland Fountain Hills, Arizona
– Suzanne Carr Copeland
I am so sorry to hear than Dan has passed away. Dan was my attorney some years ago and he helped my wife and I so much with our business. We were young and not so smart about understanding leases and the like. Dan helped us with our business and its downfalls and I couldn’t thank him enough for everything he did for us. To top things off he never sent me a bill despite my continued request for one. I’ve thought of Dan many times over the years and am sorry I lost contact with him over the years. My wife Mary and I are so sorry for your loss, he will be sadly missed. Philip & Mary Galipeau Greenville, SC
– Philip Galipeau
I want to echo what my son, BJ Nicholson, said, and extend my own condolences. Dan was a wonderful guy, and will be greatly missed. I’m traveling this week, and so very sorry not to be present for his services. My best to the Desmond family at this sad time. Connie Babcock
– Connie Babcock
So sorry Cheryl to hear of Danny’s death. Every time I saw him he’d greet me with a hug and an affectionate greeting. I didn’t see the obit until too late. I am taking care of Tom so my life is around that care. Much love to you and yours, Debbie DiDominicys Carr
– Tom and Debbie Carr
Cheryl, Jimmy, Sean, (Sis); these emotions can never be captured within the confines of words. It was very special to me to have spent time in your home with your family, thank you. Brian P. Nadeau
– Brian P. Nadeau
Best part of attending Holy Cross for 4 years was making life time Friends . No better example than Dan. Although we only saw each other occasionally in the 50 years since our Graduation, we became closer as the years progressed. Our consistent bantering back & forth between Boston & New York teams kept us in steady contact. As the Baseball Season begins, I sense his absence & I will miss him greatly. Tom McGeough
– Tom McGeough