Brian Anthony Conroy

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December 16, 1963 ~ January 17, 2026

Brian A. Conroy, 62, of Falmouth, Maine, passed away peacefully in his sleep, unexpectedly and far too soon on January 17, 2026. Born on December 16, 1963, to loving parents Francis and Ruth Conroy, Brian was one of ten children raised in a vibrant Irish Catholic family in South Portland. Growing up, his mother fondly nicknamed him the “Great Dane” for his Danish blonde hair, blue eyes, and lean stature. He was known for his kind, loving, and gentle nature — a reflection of his mother — and for his quiet strength, conviction, and deep, abiding faith, which he shared with his father.

Brian graduated from South Portland High School in 1982 and went on to attend the University of Maine at Orono, where he met the love of his life, Linda. After earning a B.S. in Electrical Engineering in 1986, Brian began an impressive 33-year career at Central Maine Power Company (CMP).

During his tenure, he had the privilege of carpooling and working with all three of his brothers. Brian earned his Professional Engineer licensure in 1990 and his MBA from Thomas College in 1992, and was a long-time member and volunteer in numerous industry organizations. His passion for engineering inspired the next generation, including his son, Kevin, and several nieces and nephews who followed in his footsteps. After retiring from CMP in 2019, Brian joined RLC Engineering, and had the opportunity to work alongside his brother Dave again. Brian planned to ease into full retirement later this year.

Brian and Linda were married on June 20, 1987 in Sudbury, Massachusetts. They started a family together in Topsham, Maine and moved to Falmouth in 1997. A devoted husband and father, Brian centered his life around Linda and their three children Caitlin, Kelsey, and Kevin. He cherished making memories — from annual camping trips at Sebago Lake State Park and Trubiano family vacations every August since 2001, to the smallest everyday moments, especially those spent by the water.

To Brian, faith and family were everything. After Mass each week, the extended Conroy family fills their childhood home on Vivian Street for tea and toast. Brian thrived in the joyful chaos of conversation and laughter. He would often share that his three wishes for his family were, in order of priority, to be a good Christian, happy, and healthy. To have all three was the greatest blessing.

Brian treasured being a dad, always eager to stay involved in his children’s lives. Welcoming any opportunity to spend time together, he embraced their interests as his own – weeklong hiking and camping trips with Boy Scouts, scuba diving, running 5Ks and half marathons, and even skydiving. He loved adventure, particularly when it meant quality time with the people he loved. An avid boater, Brian was just as happy cruising with family and friends as he was cleaning or “fixing” his boat. As retirement approached, he looked forward to spending more time by the water, traveling, and exploring new places with Linda.

To his nine young grandchildren, Brian was affectionately known as “Boppa”—a name that perfectly captured his fun, playful spirit and paid homage to what he called his own grandfather. He took immense pride in each new grandchild as if they were the first and only. Boppa always had energy for his grandchildren. He could often be found taking them “boring exploring” around the neighborhood brook, ice skating on Caitlin’s backyard rink, playing on the floor, or holding a toddler in his lap. His infectious joy drew every grandchild to him the moment he walked through the door. Together with Linda, he treasured every chance to be present in their lives — read-alouds at daycare, attending sports events every weekend, celebrating birthday parties, and simply soaking in each precious moment as their beloved Boppa.

Brian was endlessly generous with others, selflessly offering his time and help wherever it was needed, although he was remarkably frugal when it came to himself. He was known for wearing decades-old, faded sweatshirts and well-worn jeans — anything that still fit and “functioned!”

Known for his big smile and even bigger heart, Brian truly lived life to the fullest. His joy was contagious, his optimism magnetic. Never one to sit still, he was always ready to lend a hand or strike up a conversation with anyone he met. He cherished time together and fully embraced every moment, no matter how big or small. Brian often reminded his family how “so blessed” he was, proudly declaring that his “cup was overflowing.” His heart was full.

Brian left nothing on the table — except the years ahead — and he will be missed beyond words. We can all honor his legacy by embracing his personal philosophy, “YOLO” (You Only Live Once), finding joy in simple moments and appreciating every blessing that makes a life well-lived. In his memory, may we smile bigger, hug longer, and love harder — just as Brian did.

Brian is survived by his wife Linda Ann (Trubiano) Conroy; daughter Caitlin and husband Christian Ouellette with grandchildren Sadie, Emma, Noah and William of Cumberland, Maine; daughter Kelsey and husband Jonathan Eddy with grandchildren Caroline, Luke and John (Jack) of North Yarmouth, Maine; son Kevin and wife Kristina (Kelly) Conroy with grandchildren Warren and Brennan Conroy of Cumberland, Maine; as well as his mother-in-law Mary Ruth (Drago) Trubiano of Sudbury, Massachusetts; his brother David Conroy and wife Julie; brother Michael Conroy and wife Terri Bourke; sister Kathleen Conroy and husband Michael MacFarlane; sister Anne Galyean and husband Ralph; brother James (Jamie) Conroy and wife Cheryl; sister Susan Conroy; sister Ruthie Joy; sister Helen Sidney; sister Marjorie (Margie) Boles and husband Matthew; brother-in-law John N. Trubiano and wife Antonia (Toni); many nieces and nephews, and friends.

Brian is reunited in Eternal Life with his parents Francis and Ruth Conroy, father-in-law John R. Trubiano, and nephew Benjamin Conroy.

Visiting Hours will be held from 3-7PM on Thursday, January 22, 2026 at the new Conroy-Tully Walker Cremation, Funeral, and Gathering Center, 300 Allen Avenue, Portland. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30AM on Friday, January 23, 2026 at Holy Martyrs Church, 266 Foreside Road, Falmouth. A private burial will take place in the spring at Holy Cross Cemetery in Yarmouth.

In lieu of flowers, contributions can be made to his sister Susan’s 501(c)3 nonprofit, Love in Living Action, PO Box 2144, South Portland, Maine 04106, where Brian planned to volunteer in retirement.

Services

Visiting Hours: Thursday, January 22, 2026 3:00 pm - 7:00 pm

Conroy-Tully Walker Cremation, Funeral & Gathering Center
300 Allen Avenue
Portland, Maine 04103


Mass of Christian Burial: Friday, January 23, 2026 10:30 am

Holy Martyrs Church
266 Foreside Road
Falmouth, Maine 04105


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  1. I have so many fond memories and stories of Brian from my time knowing him at RLC. He was more than a coworker—he was a genuine friend.

    One story I often share is from a trade show, where I met some new people at a company we had worked with in the past. They mentioned that they had recently been on a call with someone from RLC but couldn’t remember his name. They laughed and said they only remembered the nickname they had given him: “Mr. Rogers.” That was all the description I needed. Instantly, out of everyone at RLC, I knew exactly who they were talking about—that was Brian.

    In the words of Mr. Rogers, “Real strength has to do with helping others.” Brian was the strongest man I knew. He set a bar that I hope I can live up to—as a Christian, husband, father, and friend.

    Rest easy, my friend.

  2. Brian was one of those rare people who made the workplace brighter just by being there. He carried himself with such kindness and warmth, always greeting others with a genuine smile and a willingness to help however he could. His love for his family was evident in the way he spoke about them, and his deep Catholic faith guided every part of his life—not just in words, but in how he treated others with patience, humility, and compassion each day. He lived his faith quietly and beautifully through service, integrity, and genuine care for those around him. He was someone I admired greatly, and his example of compassion, humility, and grace will stay with me always. I am a better person for having known him. He will be deeply missed. God Bless you, Brian.

  3. Linda and family-Paul and I were saddened by this heartfelt news of Brian’s sudden passing. He was such a devoted husband and Dad and grandfather. We want to express our deepest sympathy to you and your family. He will remain in everyone’s hearts..🙏❤️ Cindi &Paul Basile

  4. Brian was the best man at our wedding and the best man that I have ever known. Brian’s kind, loving and gentle nature has ALWAYS defined who he was. You will be sadly missed but never forgotten. You will continue to be an inspiration to us all. May peace be with you my brother. Love from this corner🤟🏼💙

  5. Brian you are now the a beautify, peaceful place. You had a beautiful smile, a wonderful laugh and a pleasant outlook. You will be missed.

  6. Dear Linda and family,
    I am so saddened by this loss. What an incredible husband, father, grandfather, cousin and friend. Brian was always so welcoming, positive, joyful and kind. I feel blessed to have known him. My very first wedding was yours. I am grateful to have had the experience to have been there at the start of your journey and the beautiful family you have built.

    I’ll be forever grateful for our recent visit to Maine. We are all blessed to have had him in our lives.

    With deepest sympathy,
    Andrea, Brian, Ashley and Ava

  7. I had the pleasure of working with Brian over the decades on various efforts within the New England power system. He was a great engineer and a fun guy to hang with. He’s gone way too soon. Prayers for all his family, may you always treasure the memories. RIP Brian.

  8. It hurts to lose such a wonderful friend. I am blessed to have shared so many fond memories with Brian over the years. He came to work for me in the Distribution Automation Department at CMP where we built a state-of-the-art load management system, travelling on many occasions to Seattle, Washington. His engineering skills were second to none. But perhaps my fondest memory was when he, Bruce York and I stayed overnight at my dad’s house in Lincolnville with plans to attend the IEEE Maine Section annual meeting in Rockland the next day, by boat! After several unsuccessful attempts to launch Brian’s boat at the Rockland Boat Launch, an older gentleman watching us from the dock, told us they haven’t used that particular boat launch in years! After finally finding the correct place to launch Brian’s boat, we spent a gorgeous day travelling to Camden and Rockport harbors. Brian love boating and took advantage of every occasion to be on the water, even in Seattle. It was a privilege to know such a wonderful guy. I will miss his infectious smile and laugh.

  9. I went to high school with Brian. We were on the soccer team together, and had automotive shop class as well. He had this old, gold Impala convertible that we “worked on” for class. Our nickname for him was “Connie”. You will be missed, my Friend. Rest in Peace. 🙏🏻

  10. Working in substations, we interacted with Brian quite often. He was always upbeat and smiling and knew everyone! Sad to see him gone way too soon.

  11. Brian, was a wonderful colleague and friend! Always a smile and word of encouragement. Rest in peace.

  12. Brian had such an infectious laugh. I enjoyed working with him through the years and sharing stories of our families. Peace be with you and the whole Conroy clan.

  13. I am so sorry to hear of Brian’s passing. I worked with Brian at CMP. He was a very nice person with a great smile. My condolences to Brian’s family during this difficult time.
    Teresa

  14. To one of the best cousins anyone could have. R.I.P. Brian
    I will miss you at family reunions. Prayer and thoughts to Linda and family.

  15. Brian’s passing has come as a profound shock to me. I first met him around 2012 at a CMP–UMaine Consortium meeting during my PhD program at UMaine Orono, and he later became my manager at RLC in 2020. Over the years, he grew into a mentor I deeply respected and relied on. I sought his counsel on major professional decisions, and he always offered wisdom with humility, generosity, and genuine care.

    Brian had an incredible ability to see the good in people and situations. He was selfless, encouraging, and steady, the kind of leader and colleague who made everyone better simply by being himself.

    We also had the joy of playing soccer together on the RLC team from 2022 to 2024. Brian left everything on the field every time, with an agility and energy that belied his age. I once joked with him that I hoped to be like him when I got older — active, positive, and fully engaged in life. It’s still hard to believe he’s gone.

    Brian will be deeply missed, but his impact on me will endure. My heartfelt condolences to Linda, Kevin, Kelsey, Caitlin, Dave, Melinda, and all who loved Brian. He will be deeply missed.

  16. Dear Susan,
    I am very sorry for your loss. May God Bless and keep you and your family in His loving care always.
    You are in my prayers.

  17. To Susan, I am so very sorry to read about your brother Anthony’s passing. Just know he is in our thoughts and prayers, as are you. May God bless you all. Love Connie and Jim Somma (Ave Maria Gift Shop) ❤️

  18. Jim and I send much love to the family and are so saddened by Brian’s passing. We always said that he (and Linda) have looked the same since the days that our children went to Pejepscot Day School together. Brian always had an infectious smile and laughed easily. His love for his family was always evident. We have fond memories of the week the Conroy family camped with us at Papoose Pond. He will be greatly missed.

  19. Always a joy to see back in the day. Brian and Linda were always welcoming at Drago family cookouts . It was a shock to hear of his passing. Ryan Melissa and I send our love to the whole Conroy/Trubiano family.
    Ryan, Melissa and Jennifer Drago

  20. To the Conroy and Trubiano Families — my heart breaks with yours at the tragic loss of Brian. I remember him fondly from all the time spent in childhood with the entire Conroy family. Bless his memory.

  21. My sincere heartfelt condolences to the Conroys and their extended family. It’s a blessing to have you all as a part of our faith community. May the Lord lift up your spirit and provide comfort to your hearts.

  22. To all our Conroy Family . Brian will be sorely Missed !
    We pray for light, love and healing for Linda and All of his family!


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