Brian Anthony Conroy

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December 16, 1963 ~ January 17, 2026

Brian A. Conroy, 62, of Falmouth, Maine, passed away peacefully in his sleep, unexpectedly and far too soon on January 17, 2026. Born on December 16, 1963, to loving parents Francis and Ruth Conroy, Brian was one of ten children raised in a vibrant Irish Catholic family in South Portland. Growing up, his mother fondly nicknamed him the “Great Dane” for his Danish blonde hair, blue eyes, and lean stature. He was known for his kind, loving, and gentle nature — a reflection of his mother — and for his quiet strength, conviction, and deep, abiding faith, which he shared with his father.

Brian graduated from South Portland High School in 1982 and went on to attend the University of Maine at Orono, where he met the love of his life, Linda. After earning a B.S. in Electrical Engineering in 1986, Brian began an impressive 33-year career at Central Maine Power Company (CMP).

During his tenure, he had the privilege of carpooling and working with all three of his brothers. Brian earned his Professional Engineer licensure in 1990 and his MBA from Thomas College in 1992, and was a long-time member and volunteer in numerous industry organizations. His passion for engineering inspired the next generation, including his son, Kevin, and several nieces and nephews who followed in his footsteps. After retiring from CMP in 2019, Brian joined RLC Engineering, and had the opportunity to work alongside his brother Dave again. Brian planned to ease into full retirement later this year.

Brian and Linda were married on June 20, 1987 in Sudbury, Massachusetts. They started a family together in Topsham, Maine and moved to Falmouth in 1997. A devoted husband and father, Brian centered his life around Linda and their three children Caitlin, Kelsey, and Kevin. He cherished making memories — from annual camping trips at Sebago Lake State Park and Trubiano family vacations every August since 2001, to the smallest everyday moments, especially those spent by the water.

To Brian, faith and family were everything. After Mass each week, the extended Conroy family fills their childhood home on Vivian Street for tea and toast. Brian thrived in the joyful chaos of conversation and laughter. He would often share that his three wishes for his family were, in order of priority, to be a good Christian, happy, and healthy. To have all three was the greatest blessing.

Brian treasured being a dad, always eager to stay involved in his children’s lives. Welcoming any opportunity to spend time together, he embraced their interests as his own – weeklong hiking and camping trips with Boy Scouts, scuba diving, running 5Ks and half marathons, and even skydiving. He loved adventure, particularly when it meant quality time with the people he loved. An avid boater, Brian was just as happy cruising with family and friends as he was cleaning or “fixing” his boat. As retirement approached, he looked forward to spending more time by the water, traveling, and exploring new places with Linda.

To his nine young grandchildren, Brian was affectionately known as “Boppa”—a name that perfectly captured his fun, playful spirit and paid homage to what he called his own grandfather. He took immense pride in each new grandchild as if they were the first and only. Boppa always had energy for his grandchildren. He could often be found taking them “boring exploring” around the neighborhood brook, ice skating on Caitlin’s backyard rink, playing on the floor, or holding a toddler in his lap. His infectious joy drew every grandchild to him the moment he walked through the door. Together with Linda, he treasured every chance to be present in their lives — read-alouds at daycare, attending sports events every weekend, celebrating birthday parties, and simply soaking in each precious moment as their beloved Boppa.

Brian was endlessly generous with others, selflessly offering his time and help wherever it was needed, although he was remarkably frugal when it came to himself. He was known for wearing decades-old, faded sweatshirts and well-worn jeans — anything that still fit and “functioned!”

Known for his big smile and even bigger heart, Brian truly lived life to the fullest. His joy was contagious, his optimism magnetic. Never one to sit still, he was always ready to lend a hand or strike up a conversation with anyone he met. He cherished time together and fully embraced every moment, no matter how big or small. Brian often reminded his family how “so blessed” he was, proudly declaring that his “cup was overflowing.” His heart was full.

Brian left nothing on the table — except the years ahead — and he will be missed beyond words. We can all honor his legacy by embracing his personal philosophy, “YOLO” (You Only Live Once), finding joy in simple moments and appreciating every blessing that makes a life well-lived. In his memory, may we smile bigger, hug longer, and love harder — just as Brian did.

Brian is survived by his wife Linda Ann (Trubiano) Conroy; daughter Caitlin and husband Christian Ouellette with grandchildren Sadie, Emma, Noah and William of Cumberland, Maine; daughter Kelsey and husband Jonathan Eddy with grandchildren Caroline, Luke and John (Jack) of North Yarmouth, Maine; son Kevin and wife Kristina (Kelly) Conroy with grandchildren Warren and Brennan Conroy of Cumberland, Maine; as well as his mother-in-law Mary Ruth (Drago) Trubiano of Sudbury, Massachusetts; his brother David Conroy and wife Julie; brother Michael Conroy and wife Terri Bourke; sister Kathleen Conroy and husband Michael MacFarlane; sister Anne Galyean and husband Ralph; brother James (Jamie) Conroy and wife Cheryl; sister Susan Conroy; sister Ruthie Joy; sister Helen Sidney; sister Marjorie (Margie) Boles and husband Matthew; brother-in-law John N. Trubiano and wife Antonia (Toni); many nieces and nephews, and friends.

Brian is reunited in Eternal Life with his parents Francis and Ruth Conroy, father-in-law John R. Trubiano, and nephew Benjamin Conroy.

Visiting Hours will be held from 3-7PM on Thursday, January 22, 2026 at the new Conroy-Tully Walker Cremation, Funeral, and Gathering Center, 300 Allen Avenue, Portland. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30AM on Friday, January 23, 2026 at Holy Martyrs Church, 266 Foreside Road, Falmouth. A private burial will take place in the spring at Holy Cross Cemetery in Yarmouth.

In lieu of flowers, contributions can be made to his sister Susan’s 501(c)3 nonprofit, Love in Living Action, PO Box 2144, South Portland, Maine 04106, where Brian planned to volunteer in retirement.

Services

Visiting Hours: Thursday, January 22, 2026 3:00 pm - 7:00 pm

Conroy-Tully Walker Cremation, Funeral & Gathering Center
300 Allen Avenue
Portland, Maine 04103


Mass of Christian Burial: Friday, January 23, 2026 10:30 am

Holy Martyrs Church
266 Foreside Road
Falmouth, Maine 04105


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  1. I have so many fond memories and stories of Brian from my time knowing him at RLC. He was more than a coworker—he was a genuine friend.

    One story I often share is from a trade show, where I met some new people at a company we had worked with in the past. They mentioned that they had recently been on a call with someone from RLC but couldn’t remember his name. They laughed and said they only remembered the nickname they had given him: “Mr. Rogers.” That was all the description I needed. Instantly, out of everyone at RLC, I knew exactly who they were talking about—that was Brian.

    In the words of Mr. Rogers, “Real strength has to do with helping others.” Brian was the strongest man I knew. He set a bar that I hope I can live up to—as a Christian, husband, father, and friend.

    Rest easy, my friend.

  2. Brian was one of those rare people who made the workplace brighter just by being there. He carried himself with such kindness and warmth, always greeting others with a genuine smile and a willingness to help however he could. His love for his family was evident in the way he spoke about them, and his deep Catholic faith guided every part of his life—not just in words, but in how he treated others with patience, humility, and compassion each day. He lived his faith quietly and beautifully through service, integrity, and genuine care for those around him. He was someone I admired greatly, and his example of compassion, humility, and grace will stay with me always. I am a better person for having known him. He will be deeply missed. God Bless you, Brian.

  3. Linda and family-Paul and I were saddened by this heartfelt news of Brian’s sudden passing. He was such a devoted husband and Dad and grandfather. We want to express our deepest sympathy to you and your family. He will remain in everyone’s hearts..🙏❤️ Cindi &Paul Basile

  4. Brian was the best man at our wedding and the best man that I have ever known. Brian’s kind, loving and gentle nature has ALWAYS defined who he was. You will be sadly missed but never forgotten. You will continue to be an inspiration to us all. May peace be with you my brother. Love from this corner🤟🏼💙

  5. Brian you are now the a beautify, peaceful place. You had a beautiful smile, a wonderful laugh and a pleasant outlook. You will be missed.

  6. Dear Linda and family,
    I am so saddened by this loss. What an incredible husband, father, grandfather, cousin and friend. Brian was always so welcoming, positive, joyful and kind. I feel blessed to have known him. My very first wedding was yours. I am grateful to have had the experience to have been there at the start of your journey and the beautiful family you have built.

    I’ll be forever grateful for our recent visit to Maine. We are all blessed to have had him in our lives.

    With deepest sympathy,
    Andrea, Brian, Ashley and Ava

  7. I had the pleasure of working with Brian over the decades on various efforts within the New England power system. He was a great engineer and a fun guy to hang with. He’s gone way too soon. Prayers for all his family, may you always treasure the memories. RIP Brian.

  8. It hurts to lose such a wonderful friend. I am blessed to have shared so many fond memories with Brian over the years. He came to work for me in the Distribution Automation Department at CMP where we built a state-of-the-art load management system, travelling on many occasions to Seattle, Washington. His engineering skills were second to none. But perhaps my fondest memory was when he, Bruce York and I stayed overnight at my dad’s house in Lincolnville with plans to attend the IEEE Maine Section annual meeting in Rockland the next day, by boat! After several unsuccessful attempts to launch Brian’s boat at the Rockland Boat Launch, an older gentleman watching us from the dock, told us they haven’t used that particular boat launch in years! After finally finding the correct place to launch Brian’s boat, we spent a gorgeous day travelling to Camden and Rockport harbors. Brian love boating and took advantage of every occasion to be on the water, even in Seattle. It was a privilege to know such a wonderful guy. I will miss his infectious smile and laugh.

  9. I went to high school with Brian. We were on the soccer team together, and had automotive shop class as well. He had this old, gold Impala convertible that we “worked on” for class. Our nickname for him was “Connie”. You will be missed, my Friend. Rest in Peace. 🙏🏻

  10. Working in substations, we interacted with Brian quite often. He was always upbeat and smiling and knew everyone! Sad to see him gone way too soon.

  11. Brian, was a wonderful colleague and friend! Always a smile and word of encouragement. Rest in peace.

    • Linda, I’m so sorry to hear about Brian’s untimely passing. I remember how much hard work he put into developing the Conroy family history and planning our Summer reunions.Our prayers are with you and your family during this sad time..
      Tom and Donna Conroy

  12. Brian had such an infectious laugh. I enjoyed working with him through the years and sharing stories of our families. Peace be with you and the whole Conroy clan.

  13. I am so sorry to hear of Brian’s passing. I worked with Brian at CMP. He was a very nice person with a great smile. My condolences to Brian’s family during this difficult time.
    Teresa

  14. To one of the best cousins anyone could have. R.I.P. Brian
    I will miss you at family reunions. Prayer and thoughts to Linda and family.

  15. Brian’s passing has come as a profound shock to me. I first met him around 2012 at a CMP–UMaine Consortium meeting during my PhD program at UMaine Orono, and he later became my manager at RLC in 2020. Over the years, he grew into a mentor I deeply respected and relied on. I sought his counsel on major professional decisions, and he always offered wisdom with humility, generosity, and genuine care.

    Brian had an incredible ability to see the good in people and situations. He was selfless, encouraging, and steady, the kind of leader and colleague who made everyone better simply by being himself.

    We also had the joy of playing soccer together on the RLC team from 2022 to 2024. Brian left everything on the field every time, with an agility and energy that belied his age. I once joked with him that I hoped to be like him when I got older — active, positive, and fully engaged in life. It’s still hard to believe he’s gone.

    Brian will be deeply missed, but his impact on me will endure. My heartfelt condolences to Linda, Kevin, Kelsey, Caitlin, Dave, Melinda, and all who loved Brian. He will be deeply missed.

  16. Dear Susan,
    I am very sorry for your loss. May God Bless and keep you and your family in His loving care always.
    You are in my prayers.

  17. To Susan, I am so very sorry to read about your brother Anthony’s passing. Just know he is in our thoughts and prayers, as are you. May God bless you all. Love Connie and Jim Somma (Ave Maria Gift Shop) ❤️

  18. Jim and I send much love to the family and are so saddened by Brian’s passing. We always said that he (and Linda) have looked the same since the days that our children went to Pejepscot Day School together. Brian always had an infectious smile and laughed easily. His love for his family was always evident. We have fond memories of the week the Conroy family camped with us at Papoose Pond. He will be greatly missed.

  19. Always a joy to see back in the day. Brian and Linda were always welcoming at Drago family cookouts . It was a shock to hear of his passing. Ryan Melissa and I send our love to the whole Conroy/Trubiano family.
    Ryan, Melissa and Jennifer Drago

  20. To the Conroy and Trubiano Families — my heart breaks with yours at the tragic loss of Brian. I remember him fondly from all the time spent in childhood with the entire Conroy family. Bless his memory.

  21. My sincere heartfelt condolences to the Conroys and their extended family. It’s a blessing to have you all as a part of our faith community. May the Lord lift up your spirit and provide comfort to your hearts.

  22. To all our Conroy Family . Brian will be sorely Missed !
    We pray for light, love and healing for Linda and All of his family!

    • Dearest Linda and family-
      Britt just shared the news with us about the passing of Brian. We are devastated and think of all of you with heavy hearts. He was one of a kind with so much empathy toward others. If you need anything at all Linda we are close by. We respect your privacy during this difficult time and feel for all of you. Sending much love 💕 Susie and Ed Langford with family

  23. So sorry for your family’s sad, sudden loss. Thinking of you all, may Brian’s memory be for a blessing.

  24. I am deeply sorry for this tremendous loss. Brian was truly one of a kind and will be remembered with such warmth and admiration. My thoughts are with all of you during this very difficult time.

  25. To the entire Conroy Family. I am sorry to hear of Brian’s passing. I am praying for you all in this difficult time. Bless you all & May he rest in eternal peace.

  26. The best of men and the best of neighbors. We are heartsick over Brian’s sudden loss. Our love and deepest condolences to the entire Conroy family.

  27. Caitlin-
    I only worked with you for a short time, but I remember how close you and your family were.
    I am so sorry to hear of your Dad’s passing. May god bless you and your family. ❤️

  28. To the extended Conroy family please except my deepest condolences on the sudden passing of Brian. I have never known a kinder, happier, more compassionate person. My prayers are with you all for your comfort and support at this sad time.

  29. Brian always had a smile of his face, eager to help and genuinely interested in you. I am praying for the family and all he left behind. The Lord will comfort you.

  30. To the Conroy family,
    We were so shocked and saddened to hear of Brian’s passing. We will remember him in church as a proud grandpa with his adorable grandchildren. Bob was on a committee with him at UMaine for the Electrical Engineering department and speaks highly of Brian and his enthusiasm for the next generation of students. Please know we hold you in thought and prayer.

  31. Brian helped us in Brunswick on several occasions when storms had taken electricity from the majority of our homes. He helped me personally and organized multiple aspects of restoration. His calm demeanor was just what I needed. So sorry for your loss.

  32. To the Conroy family,
    I had the pleasure of working with Brian over the past year, and I was deeply moved by his generosity, his cheerful demeanor, and his ability to lighten any conversation with his smile. He spoke with such pride about his family and his grandchildren, always with a warm glow. My thoughts are with you all during this difficult time. May his memory be a blessing.

  33. Caitlin and family – I’m so sorry to hear of your dad’s passing. Though I never knew him, his obituary paints a picture of an incredible person and such a positive, loving influence in all your lives. My heart breaks for you and your family. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
    Much love and support, Traci

  34. My heartfelt sympathy to the entire Conroy family. Brian was a special guy who touched many lives with his warm personality. A former CMP coworker, Marie Green.

  35. Linda and family you have my deepest condolences for your loss. I was a linesman at CMP and worked with Brian. We both share a passion for family and boats and often talked about both. He was always willing to help and I would occasionally stop by his office with questions that stumped me. I distinctly remember his desk. He had the class pictures of his kids stacked under clips so one could see their progression as they grew up. He definitely loved being a dad.
    He and I worked a couple of storms together. He enjoyed being out in the field with the crew. We shared a lot of laughs.
    We create the world in which we live. Brian’s was joyful. Heaven just got an upgrade.
    He left to soon. So grateful I got to know him.

  36. We are so sad to hear about Brian and wish we could be there during this difficult time. Every time I think of Brian I see his smile and hear a story he would tell. He was full of life and love. We all were so blessed to have him in our life. We are thankful we were able to spend time with him and you all this past summer. 💔🙏

  37. Brian was a great mentor to me. He always made time and was patient in explaining things. Beyond that, he was a joy to be around and had a way of lightening the mood. My condolences to you all—this was much too soon.

  38. Linda, I’m so sorry to hear about Brian’s untimely passing. I remember how much hard work he put into developing the Conroy family history and planning our Summer reunions.Our prayers are with you and your family during this sad time..
    Tom and Donna Conroy

  39. Brian was such a great guy and I always enjoyed talking with him at Town Landing. I am so saddened to hear of his passing and my heart and condolences are with his family.

  40. To The Conroy Family:

    You all have my sincerest condolences for your loss. I cried when I learned of his passing this week and remain deeply grieved by his unexpected death. Brian was a force of light, laughter, and love for so many in our small community. My family and I were lucky to have known him and the Conroy clan for some 30 odd years. My parents (Patrick and Suzane) first met Brian and Linda at the YMCA when Kevin and I were only infants. Our lives would intersect for my entire childhood, as Brian would be my Cubscout, Webelo and later my Boyscout leader. Brian saw me, and a score of other energetic little boys grow into men. I can’t underscore how much his leadership left an imprint on the young kids in his care. Brian, otherwise known as Mr. Conroy for most of my life, made scouting a blast. He had all the best jokes (often 3rd grade level 😊), and was always the first to laugh, and laugh loudly. He let little boys be goofy little boys, and looking back you could tell how much fun he was having with us. He was also truly kind. I can remember him showing us what it meant to be kind in thought and action – a moral code that left a deep impression on me to this day. He showed me the meaning of service, encouraging his boys to help others – from serving pancakes at Christmas time, working in the Preble St. food kitchen, to setting up American flags on holidays. As his troop of boys got bigger, so did our adventures. You could always count on Mr. Conroy to go on the adventure with us – be it a long hike on Mount Katahdin, the scout ski trip to Mt. Abrams, or our epic multi-week Allagash River canoe trip. I believe he had one of the highest Ice Cube point counts among the parents who were involved with the Troop. He helped make the trips fun, even when it poured, and brought that positive, happy energy with him wherever he went. He was an excellent fart baseball player, it should be said. Mr. Conroy also dutifully saw us through the “drudgery” of moving up the scout ranks. I can remember him testing me on different skills over the course of 7 years as I progressed from Scout to Eagle. He was always patient and an excellent teacher. He also showed up to nearly every meeting on Thursday nights at Falmouth Congregational, which was act of devotion I appreciate all the more as an adult. He was the one who helped me master to the all-important bowline – a knot everyone should know. I’ll never forget him beaming with pride as he served in my Court of Honor once I finally made Eagle my senior year of high school – he helped make that happen for me and so many others. I wish I could tell him now much that still means to me. Though I have since left Falmouth, and it’s been many years since I have seen him, I can still hear his voice and his laugher even now – that’s how big of impact he had for me, and the other boys of Troop 93. I will remain forever grateful that I was lucky enough to have a role model like Brian in my life and community. Brian and all the Conroy’s’ are in my prayers. Bless you all, and Bless you Brian.
    – Sean Connolly, Troop 93

  41. Linda, Caitlin, Kelsey and Kevin,

    What a beautiful tribute to a gem of a human being. Thanks for sharing such wonderful stories in your eulogy.
    Brian surely did live life to the fullest and loved everyone he came in contact with.
    I’m in awe of the impact he had in all of your lives. May his memory remain close to your hearts always.

    Love Judy

  42. What a Blessing to have Brian in our lives!
    Such beautiful memories on my mind of family times at the Grandpa Drago’s in Lincoln. My dad loved you celebrating and toasting with Brian many many more of these happy times including Christmas, lobster feasts and birthdays!
    You will forever be in our hearts and in our minds with that never ending smile.
    A life well lived. Our father in heaven would say..well done my true and faithful servant!
    YOUR ARE TRUE EXAMPLE ON THE WAY WE SHOULD LIVE OUR LIVES.
    God Bless you!
    ❤️ Auntie Diane

  43. AS many as are led by the Spirit of God, they are the sons of God. For ye have not received the spirit of bondage again to fear; but ye have received the Spirit of adoption, whereby we cry, Abba, Father. The Spirit himself beareth witness with our spirit, that we are the children of God: and if children, then heirs; heirs of God, and joint heirs with Christ; if so be that we suffer with him, that we may be also glorified together. For I reckon that the sufferings of this present time are not worthy to be compared with the glory which shall be revealed in us. For the earnest expectation of the creature waiteth for the manifestation of the sons of God. We know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose. What shall we then say to these things? If God be for us, who can be against us? He that spared not his own Son, but delivered him up for us all, how shall he not with him also freely give us all things? Who is he that condemneth? It is Christ that died, yea rather, that is risen again, who is even at the right hand of God, who also maketh intercession for us. Who shall separate us from the love of Christ? shall tribulation, or distress, or persecution, or famine, or nakedness, or peril, or sword? Nay, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him that loved us. For I am persuaded, that neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor principalities, nor powers, nor things present, nor things to come, nor height, nor depth, nor any other creature, shall be able to separate us from the love of God, which is in Christ Jesus our Lord. –Romans 8:14 ff

  44. My Beloved Brother Brian,
    Our hearts ache with the loss of the loss of one of the “Ten Treasures”.
    You were a treasured gift to our Conroy family. A gift from God and brother that I will forever cherish and hold deep in my heart and memory.
    Your smile, your hugs, your fun presence and your kind and giving heart.
    Kind • Loving •Gentle
    A rock of faith and family. The solid foundation of his life.
    We Love You with all our Hearts and then Some. Heavy are are hearts unto we meet again in our heavenly eternal home. 🤟🙏

  45. We are heartbroken for you all. We are sending prayers and hugs. I had tears in my eyes while they read your dad’s name at church… we send you the biggest prayers. Xx
    Kelsi, Eric, and the girls. The Gagne Family

  46. We were so saddened by the news of this heartbreaking loss. Brian was special. He was always quick to say hello to us at Holy Cross and took time to extend his sympathy and love when my mother and other family members passed away. The Conroys have another angel looking out for us. Love and prayers are sent to all of you at this very difficult time. Gina (Conroy) and Michael Celeste

  47. Brian was a Friend that you were happy to meet – at work or helping a grandson sell Eddie Rickenbacker Popcorn for his Cub Scouts Pack in Falmouth ” OH! I know this man , He will buy some Popcorn !!!! ( I did ! ) We would meet from time to time when we both were at The Portland Service Center on Canco Road.

  48. My sincere condolences to the entire family. I graduated with Brian back in 1982 and always remember his kind soul and spirit. Always with a kind word and smile, Brian was able to brighten one’s day.

  49. I had the pleasure to work with Brian this past year on interconnection issues in Virginia. We (Coalition for Community Solar Access) hired him and his RLC team to help us in a very technical proceeding in Virginia. He was a pleasure to worth with and was excellent at this job. Reading his obtituary and getting to know a little more about his family life and where he came from lines up perfectly with what I would have expexcted from his disarming New England accent and friendly demeanor in the work place. This is a terrible loss and my heart goes out to his loved ones and colleagues.

  50. To the Conroy family,
    I am very sorry to hear about your loss. I heard this sad news only yesterday through a LinkedIn post from RLC Engineering. I have known Brian for about 5 years; we were on different committees. Although we never worked together, I consider him a colleague. That shows how approachable Brian was. When I was hosting the IEEE IWRC conference, Brian agreed to be a panelist and led a great conversation. He was an inspiration to the young engineers in Maine and a great human. May he rest in peace!


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