Barbara J. Tully
September 12, 1946 ~ February 7, 2016
South Portland - Barbara J. Tully, 69, of South Portland, died Sunday, Feb. 7, 2016 at Mercy Hospital after a six year battle with cancer. Born in New Haven, CT, she was the daughter of Vincent A. and Frances (Putnam) Hunihan. She attended Milford, CT schools, was a graduate of Milford High School and was a French language major at the College of New Rochelle in New York. She continued her education focusing on French at Assumption College in Worcester, MA and the Sorbonne in Paris, France. She began her teaching career as an elementary French teacher in Clinton and Orange, CT, followed by Hingham, MA. Upon moving to Maine, Barbara taught Music in Cape Elizabeth Elementary Schools. She was also a substitute French teacher in the South Portland School system. She left teaching to take on the most demanding and challenging job of her life; being a teacher, mentor, confidant and role model for her four children. As the children were growing, Barbara remained very active in their lives. She volunteered in every class; teaching French, music, providing French cooking lessons, being a Brownie Leader, Cub Scout Den Mother, booster organization supporter and the list goes on. Her volunteer services also extended to Holy Cross Church where she was longtime communicant involved in countless Christmas fairs and serving as an instructor of religious education. In the mid 80s, Barbara turned her focus to her love of art and art history. She spent 17 years as volunteer docent at Portland Museum of Art. During that time, she served as President of the Docent Council and as Docent Liaison to the PMA board of Trustees. She represented PMA at a National Symposium in Seattle and was the organizer of the PMA National Symposium in Portland where she was so proud to showcase the Portland Museum of Art. During this period, Barbara travelled for two years to Tufts University to take part in the Museum Studies Program. She was extremely delighted to be selected to complete her internship at the PMA. Two years ago, she was honored with the designation of Docent Emeritus. Additionally, this past fall she was recognized as a Paul Harris Fellow by the Portland Rotary Club. For several years she was enrolled in Italian language classes at USM and for the past five years participated in a weekly Italian study group. In 2010 Barbara was diagnosed with breast cancer.Two weeks after her last treatment in 2011, Barbara, her daughter Lauren and Barbaras two brothers participated in the St. Vincents Hospital Swim Across Long Island Sound, a 16 mile swim raising money for cancer research and patient support. She also participated twice in the swim portion of the Tri for a Cure. While being treated for cancer herself she enrolled in the Cancer Community Center Buddy program where she helped to support and educate other cancer survivors. Barbara enjoyed being active and remained active up until the past month. She began her day at deep water aerobics and her many interests included snow skiing, boating, swimming, travelling, cooking, playing the piano, gardening and last but not least, playing Scrabble with her close friends on Fridays. She was a member of the Osewantha Garden Club and for several years served as a board member of the Hospital Industries Program at Maine Medical Center. Her greatest joys in life were her children and her eight beloved grandchildren whom she spent countless hours with. Barbara is survived by her husband of 45 years Paul; her four children, Kristen of South Portland, Paul Jr. and his wife Kathleen of Bloomington, IN, Jeffrey and his wife Elizabeth of South Portland, Lauren and her husband Matt Morin of Beverly, MA; her eight grandchildren, Christopher, Cooper, Eileen, Makenna, Anne, Elianna, Michael, and James; brothers, George and his wife Sue of Milford, CT and Vincent formerly of Chicago; many nieces, nephews, and cousins. She is also survived by a host of loving and supportive friends whom she cherished. Barbaras family wishes to thank Dr. Roger Inhorn, Cindy Campbell, RN, and the entire medical and administrative staff of Mercy Fore River and Mercy Hospital, State Street for the kindness, compassion and tender care given to Barbara this past week and throughout her illness. Visiting Hours will be held on Thursday from 4-8PM at Conroy-Tully Crawford South Portland Chapel, 1024 Broadway, South Portland. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Friday at 10AM at Holy Cross Church, 124 Cottage Rd., South Portland. Burial to follow at Calvary Cemetery, Broadway, South Portland. To view Barbaras memorial page or to share an online condolence, please visit www.ctcrawford.com. Those desiring may make memorial contributions to: Sisters of the Precious Blood, 166 State Street, Portland, ME 04101 Or Mercy Hospital Oncology Department, 144 State Street, Portland, ME 04101
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Paul and children: Our deepest sympathy on the passing of Barbara. What stands out with my associationwith her was her unconditional love and devotion for you Paul and the children; shetook her role as wife and mother very seriously and it shows. Paul you are blessed witha beautiful family and I know their love and support will help you through this sad time.We also wish to thank you for your kindness and support when we had to bury our parents. Love, Vera abd Dan
– Vera and Dan Hall(family)
Dear Paul and family: I am very sorry to hear about Barbara and send my deepest sumpathies. Sincerely, Jamie
– Jamie (Moran) Ferrando
Paul and Family – I’m so sorry to hear of your tremendous loss. My dear childhood friend “Bobby”. Although we hardly ever saw each other, I will miss her terribly. A lovely woman who left a deep impression on all of us.Love, Buddy
– Buddy Willsher
We are so sorry to hear of her passing. She will always be remembered as a great friend,lady,wife,mother,grand mother, and mother-in law. Countless people will miss her. Sending our love and prayers to all the family. Scott & Barbie Keller
– Barbie Toye/Keller & Scott Keller
I am so sorry to hear of Barbara’s passing. My heart and love go out to the family.
– Loretta Rowe
Enjoy your reward, Barbara, and know you are loved and missed by many.We will keep you and your family in our thoughts and prayers.
– Jack and Terry Fay
Mom,I never thought you wold go I will miss you for ever. I wanted you to help me with some things.Love,Kristen
– Kristen Tully
Paul, I know you and your family will find some peace in your deep faith in God. I am away this week or I would be at the funeral. You were fortunate to have Barbara in your life for the time you had together. Your memories of the times together will bring a smile to you and your family and a prayer of thanksgiving. Kevin
– Kevin Libby
We extend our heart felt sympathy to the Tully family.We have lost a dear friend of many years. Our prayers are with you.Jacques & Lois
– Jacques & Lois Chazaud
I just viewed the beautiful video of Barbara’s life which was filled with great memories of happy times and a life well lived. Sincere sympathy from MHS class of 64Jill Witt
– Mrs. Jill (Scheele) Witt
Dear Tullys. I am sorry to hear of Barbara’s passing. She was such a kind, dear friend to me when my family moved to Clifford Street in South Portland around ’78. We had good times with our young families together in that neighborhood. Barbara was so special and I have such wonderful memories of her. After my family moved we lost touch, but my friendship with Barbara at that time in life sure meant a lot to me. I am so sorry for your loss.
– Nanette Austin (formerly Nanette Neuts)
Paul and family, we were so saddened to hear of Barbara’s passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
– Hilary Pesarik-Thompson & Tucker Thompson
Paul and family, I was so saddened to learn of Barbara’s passing this evening. I will remember her as a kind, caring , and genuine person. Her life was an example of society’s best. My thoughts are with you.
– Ruth Cohen
Paul and family:. Please accept my condolences on Barbara’s passing. I remember the good times we had, especially our boating through France. My prayers go out for you as well as your family. Sincerely, Joe Stevens
– Joe Stevens
Paul, so saddened to learn of Barbara’s passing. She was a truly beautiful person, inside and out. My prayers and condolences to you and your family. Maureen
– Maureen Denison
My deepest sympathy to you, Paul. I am so sorry to hear of Barbara’s passing. May the love and support of family and friends provide some comfort during this sad time if loss and grief. My thoughts and prayers are with you and all the Tully family.
– Cathy Conroy
Paul….I was so surprised to read of Barbara’s death in the paper…I had no idea she had gotten worse. We are away so can’t be there to give you a hug. But know we are thinking about you & your family. She was such a vibrant & smart woman who will be missed by many people. Linda
– Linda & Don Atkinson
Dear Tully family, So very sorry to hear about Barbara. Although we hadn’t been in touch in recent years, I will never forget her kindness and generosity when our girls were little and played with each other. I know the family will pull together at this difficult time, and I send love from the Austins…
– Randi Austin
I was so sorry to read about Mrs. Tully’s passing today. Although it has been more than twenty years, I remember how kind she was how strongly she was devoted to her family when Paul and I were in high school. We’ll be sure to keep her and your whole family in our thoughts and prayers. May she be welcomed with open arms.
– Carter Smith
Thoughts and prayers to Paul and the Tully family. It was a real pleasure to have known Barbara, she brought joy wherever she went.
– Pat Crockett
Dear Paul, children, and grandchildren, We are so sorry to learn of Barbara’s passing. She was such a sweet, kind and caring classmate at CNR. She always had a smile on her face. At our last reunion we were fortunate to get reacquainted when we stayed at the same hotel and shared breakfast with Barbara and Paul. She was obviously a loving Mom and grandmother. We are thankful for her life and so grateful to have known such a kind lady.
– Barbara Ramsey Kiley and Tom Kiley
Our thoughts & prayers are with you, Paul, and with your family for your loss of Barbara. Bob & Rose Ellen Harmon
– Bob & Rose Ellen Harmon
So sorry to hear of Mrs Tully’s passing. A delightful woman, always with a smile. I worked at the children’s orthodontist office many years ago, she was such a lady. Many blessings to the family. Linda Passmore
– Linda Passmore
So sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you and the family.
– Irene Schillmaier
Dear Paul and family,We are so saddened to hear of Barbara’s passing.God bless you all . As someone in an online condolence pointed out the many families you have helped with love and care in their time of sadness will undoubtedly congregate to offer to you love and condolences in this difficult time. We are praying for you . Love, Liz & John
– Ebbie and John King
Our deepest condolences to Paul and the rest of the Tully family. You are all in our thoughts and prayers. Tracy & Drew Robin (and family)
– The Robin Family
I am so sorry for your loss. My prayers are for your family during this time of sorrow. The pictures tell an amazing story of an amazing woman.God Bless,Teri Feely
– Teri Feely
Our deepest. Barbara will be sadly missed.
– Kevin and Dianne Burns
Dear Paul and family,No words can be said to you all with the passing of a great lady. Please know you are in our thoughts prayers. With sincere sympathy.Love Joe Judy
– Judy Minervino
Deepest Sympathy to Barbara’s Family,I have only the fondest memories of Barbara. Our children grew up together and we shared many interests. Barbara was kind, giving, supportive, spiritual, committed, gracious and loving. She has left a gigantic void in the lives of all who knew her. My heart goes out to her beloved family. She was a great lady and I am fortunate to have know her and to call her my friend.Sincerely, Andi
– Andi Bartlett
Paul and family,I was so sorry to hear of Barbara’s passing. She was a wonderful person and always had a kind word. Her devotion to you and the children will be a great source of comfort. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
– Christine Larrivee
Good morning to the Tully Family,Though we haven’t been in touch in many years (since I was lucky enough to know your family through the music activities we were in at South Portland High School) I have always remembered our time together fondly, and wished I was able to keep in touch with all of you. I remember Barbara as such a loving mother, and always welcoming my brothers Carter, Lincoln and myself into her home. I will always remember the love she showed us, and will try to show that love to others as well. Our condolences to the entire Tully family, she was a great woman!
– Kyle and Krystle Smith
Paul and family, we are so sorry to hear of Barbara’s passing. She was one of the nicest people I ever met. You are in our prayers.
– Warren & Pat Stanley
Dear Paul and Family-Aurelie and I were greatly sadden by Barbara’s passing and we offer our condolances to all-We have tremendouly fond memories of our early years decades ago when you and I were working hard in our business affairs and the wives were extremely devoted to the children-Barbara was so completely devoted to the deveopment of her brood-she was smart,effective and ever watchful and really stood out as a Mother who was deeply commited to the welfare of her children.On a lighter note we did have some wonderful times together at our “international” dining club where we could laugh and enjoy friendship and excellent meals-we remember those times with great joy-to use an old Irish saying-I am certain that because of the way Barbara lived her life she is now in the highest place in Heaven-Our prays and love go out to you and the family- John and Aurelie
– John and Aurelie Wallach
Paul and family,We’re heartbroken for your loss. Barbara was a loving and delightful person whose memory will be cherished.
– Susan Rowan and Lee Attix
Paul and Family,Our deepest condolences on Barbara’s passing. While we are away and unable to attend, please know that we will keep you and your family close in our thoughts and prayers.
– Tim and Marge Dolby
I was saddened to learn of Barbara’s passing. She was such a wonderful, kind, and caring person. My deepest sympathy to you, Paul, and your wonderful family. May peace be with you all.
– Jennifer Fitzpatrick
Please accept my sympathy for all . You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
– Barbara Ryland .I am so sorry for your loss. you are all in
Dear Paul, Our deepest sympathy to you and your family on this terrible loss. Please know you remain in our thoughts and prayers. May God bless you and give you strength!
– Sue & Mike Russo
I am very saddened to learn of Barbara’s passing. We were classmates and fellow French majors at New Rochelle, as well as summer roommates in Worcester attending Assumption. She was extremely talented and kind. I remember her soft voice and shining eyes when she spoke of Paul and their future. She even introduced me to Friendly’s hot fudge! Years later, at our tenth reunion, we had such a wonderful conversation; she looked beautiful, and her happiness was palpable. The memorial photos here brought tears, but also gratitude for her rich family life. I know that her spirit will always fill your hearts and that your lifetime of memories will bring you comfort and joy. My sincerest condolences . . .
– Gilda Murdock McKim (CNR ’68)
Paul, I’m so sorry to hear of Barbara’s passing. She was a kind and caring person and I’m glad I had the opportunity to know her. She was also a wonderful daughter-in-law to your mother who spoke so highly of her. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your children.
– Janice Parvin
Paul, my sincere sympathy on the loss of your wife. Haven’t seen you in a while. Hope that you are OK. I will not be able to attend the Mass but you are in my thoughts and prayers.Pat Murphy – Plummer Funeral Home, Augusta, ME
– Patrick Murphy
Paul and family: sorry to hear about your loss. Barbara was a wonderful lady in all aspects of life. We will always remember the fun times we had together at conventions and other private parties.We will not be able to attend the Services as we re out of state but will be with you in our thoughts.Sincerely,Mary an Chic
– Roger and Mary Tousignant
We were so sad to hear of Barbara’s passing, and we want to extend our sincere condolences to Paul and the children. Although I had not seen Barbara in some time, I still remember carpooling Lauren and Stephen to nursery school and the fun trip we took to see the Renoir exhibit in Boston. John and I will always remember Barbara as a woman of quiet strength and kindness.
– Deborah and John Ackerman
Such a beautiful lady! Paul and Family, I am sorry for your loss and am so happy to have known Barbara. Her presence was a gift to all.
– Catharine Fox
My sincere condolences to Paul and the Tully family. It was an honor for me to have known Barbara.
– Juliana L’Heureux
Dear Paul and Family,I was so shocked and sad to hear of your loss. In re-reading Barbara’s updates and memories in our CNR Reunion Year Book I was impressed by how much she had accomplished and the trials that she had faced head on after college and am grateful that she took the time to share them with us. Hands down Barbara takes the award for having the best and most vivid memories of those precious years! I am thankful for having her as a friend. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this very difficult time.Alex & Joan
– Alex & Joan (Godfrey) Zaleski
Paul and family, So sorry to hear of Barbara”s passing and your loss of such a beloved family member. My thoughts and prayers are with you.Bonnie
– Bonnie Bagley
Paul, My heartfelt sympathy to you and your family on this terrible loss. Please know you remain in my thoughts and prayers. May GOD bless you and give you strength!
– Liz Ward Bryant
Paul and family, our thoughts and prayers are with you. Love, Ed & Val
– Ed & Valerie Killinger
Dear Paul and family,Please accept Hank and I sadness on losing Barbara. She has been a fighter for herself and her children.You and your family are in our prayers and may sherest in Peace,Hank and Pat St Pierre
– Pat (Grimalda) St Pierre
Dearest Paul,It is with great sadness that I write these words of love and sympathy. We had no idea your wife had been ill. You have always been so kind,thoughtful, tender and loving to all you served in your career. So many people were strengthened and supported by you in their time of loss. May you be showered with the care and love you always showed to others. John and I extend our love and sympathy to you and your family at this time. We know your deep faith will sustain you in the days ahead as well as the bond between you and your family. God bless you all and give Barbara eternal rest and peace. With much love, Paul, John & Mary
– John & Mary Bellino
Thinking of you Jeff and all the Tully family
– Lisa Berlucchi
Dear Paul I am so sorry for your loss. You and your family will be in my prayers.
– Nina Grimaldi Truesdell
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Barbara was a wonderful person and we will cherish all of the happy memories that we have with the Tully family.
– The Finleys
Dear Paul and Family, I am so deeply saddened by the loss of my wonderful cousin, Barbara. She was such an inspiration to me growing up and with a heavy heart I send you all my love and prayers. Connie
– Connie Maher Pascarella and Joe Pascarella
Paul, Sheila & I were so sorry to hear of Barbara’s passing. We’re in Florida for a few months but Our thoughts & prayers are with you and your family. Barbara was a true lady and will be missed
– Arthur & Sheila MEADER, florida
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family as you experience a great loss. May your many memories comfort you. Blessings, Art and Marlene Tordoff
– Art and Marlene Tordoff
Sue and I will remember you and Barbara in our daily prayers
– Sue and Ted Borduas
A wonderful mother. A gracious lady. I’m very glad our families touched each other so many years ago.
– Vicki Smith
Paul and Family,Our condolences to you and your family. May your memories of the wonderful times you shared with Barbara comfort you and your family, today and alwaysRoger M & Yvonne F. Bouffard
– Roger M. & Yvonne F. Bouffard
I was so sorry to learn of Barbara’s passing. I met her several years ago at our water aerobics class. She was so nice & friendly. We went to breakfast a few times with others after swimming. I really enjoyed being with her. She was in my prayers every day since her last bout with the cancer that took her life. You have been & will be sadly missed. Be with God Barbara
– Janice Files
I am so sorry to read of your loss. I have nothing but warm memories of times spent with Barbara and your family and of how warmly she welcomed me into your home. I’ll keep you in my thoughts and prayers through this difficult time.
– Anne Curran Meinert
Paul, I was stunned to see the passing of Barbara. I had no idea she was going through so much. My heart goes out to you and your family. She was such a wonderful woman. I have only the fondest memories of her. I stopped by the funeral home to offer my sympathies but the line was so long I could not stay. This only shows what an impact you and Barbara had on so many many people. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family as you go through this difficult time. Maureen
– Maureen Duval Kelley Humiston
I am so sorry to hear of Barbara’s passing. I think of her often and will continue to in prayer. What a lovely lady she was.
– Cathy McDonald
Paul and Family, Barbara’s sweet smile and caring heart will live on forever. She will truly be missed, but never forgotten.
– John, Dan & Lucille
Sending our thoughts out to the Tully family. I will miss practicing Italian with Barbara. And will miss her smile. We were lucky to have known her.
– Peggy Alessio & Gianluca