Frances M. Cote

Frances M. Cote, 84, of Sanford, passed away at her home on January 18, 2026.

She was born on September 25, 1941, in Biddeford, the daughter of the late Guy and Lorraine (Violette) Couture. Frances grew up in Biddeford and attended local schools.

For many years, Frances was employed as a nursing assistant in Kennebunk, where she dedicated herself to caring for others until her retirement at the age of 70.

Frances had a lifelong passion for sewing, a skill she took great pride in. In more recent years, she enjoyed crocheting—especially making dishcloths—which she delighted in sharing with family, friends, and anyone who crossed her path. She loved spending time with friends at Frannie’s Mini Donuts in Sanford, and the Trafton Senior Center, meeting new dogs wherever she went, and her Tuesday coffee dates with her son Patrick. She cherished the time she spent with family.

Frances was an empathetic, caring, and protective soul. She was known for her short stature, feisty spirit, loving heart, warmth. She leaves behind countless memories of kindness, laughter, and generosity.

She was predeceased by her parents and her brother, Ronald Couture and her dog and best friend Max.

Frances is survived by her children, Michael Cote of Cathedral City, CA, Rhonda Hilton and her husband Eric of Sanford, and Patrick Cote and his wife Garnet of Sanford; her brother, Richard Couture and his wife Lucille of Biddeford; her sisters, Carlene Beaulieu of Springvale and Violet Chasse of Somersworth, NH; and her beloved grandchildren, Heather Crosby and her husband Jacob and their dog Bailey, her great grandbaby, of Lebanon, Cameron Cote of Sanford, Caitlin Southwick and her husband Tom of Cornish, and Ariel Hilton of Sanford and extended family and friends.

A time of visitation will be held on Wednesday, January 28th from 10:00 a.m. to 12:00 p.m., followed by a memorial service at 12:00 p.m. at Black, Heald & Walker Funeral Home, 580 Main Street, Springvale.