Nancy Romano

May 3, 1942 ~ February 20, 2025
Born in:
Portland, ME
Resided in:
South Portland, ME
South Portland – Nancy Romano, 82, passed away peacefully at home on Thursday, February 20, 2025, with her husband and beloved dog by her side. Born in Portland, Maine, Nancy grew up in South Portland at 33 Evans Street, a family home dating back to the 1800s. She was raised in an old-school South Portland environment, where strong values and deep-rooted traditions shaped her character. Her father, Carl W. Frost, passed away when she was just four years old, leaving her mother, Marguerite E. Frost, to raise her. Nancy graduated from South Portland High School in 1960 and went on to earn a degree in Psychology from the University of Maine at Orono in 1964. While attending USM Portland/Gorham, Nancy met the love of her life, Alfred “Fred” Romano, in 1961. Their relationship blossomed as they both pursued their studies at the University of Maine at Orono, and they were married on February 19, 1966. Nancy and Fred welcomed their first child, Paul, in Rockland before moving back to South Portland in 1968, where they soon welcomed their daughter, Beth. A driven and selfless woman, Nancy held her children to high standards and instilled in them strong morals and values, often reminding them, “If you can, you must.” After brief stints as both a high school Social Worker and fourth grade teacher, Nancy dedicated herself to raising her children and was a homemaker until they started school. She later worked at Maine Savings Bank and Unum before spending five years at Lebel & Harriman before retiring. Her wisdom and empathy made her a mentor to anyone she met, always offering sound advice without judgment. She was profoundly empathetic, always relevant, and had high expectations for herself and those around her. She remained a lifelong learner, staying current with music, news, and technology. A passionate sports fan, Nancy especially loved New England teams, with a deep devotion to the Red Sox and Patriots. She enjoyed watching almost every Patriots game with Beth by her side but one of the greatest highlights was when her son Paul arranged for a trip for both of them to travel to Fenway Park to watch the 2007 World Series. Nancy’s love for her family was unparalleled, but her devotion extended beyond people to her beloved dogs, who were her constant companions throughout her life. Above all, she cherished her role as “Grammy” to her seven grandchildren. She had a unique and personal relationship with each of them, knowing everything about their interests and always striving to stay connected with their lives. Nancy found her greatest joy when the entire family was together, with children and dogs running around the house. She was an incredible cook and an exceptionally giving person, never expecting anything in return. Family was at the core of her being, and she upheld the tradition of family dinners, a practice she inherited from her mother. She was a devoted daughter and a strong matriarch. The family extends heartfelt gratitude to Tarah and Myra from Northern Lights Hospice for their extraordinary care and support during Nancy’s final days. Nancy was predeceased by her parents and her lifelong friend, Carol Cronkhite. She is survived by her devoted husband, Fred Romano; her son, Paul Romano, and his wife, Michelle, of Scarborough; her daughter, Beth Romano, and her husband, Rich Gill, of South Portland and Naples. She also leaves behind her cherished grandchildren: Anthony “AJ” Romano, Sophia Romano, Abigail Romano, Joseph Romano, Dominic Arsenault, Katelyn Romano, and Gianna Romano. She is also survived by her brother, Robert Frost, and his wife, Shirley, of Illinois, as well as lifelong friends Renee Page and Sandy Drexler, and several in-laws, nieces, and nephews. A Memorial Gathering will be held on Thursday, February 27, from 4-7 PM at the Conroy-Tully Walker Funeral Home of South Portland, 1024 Broadway, South Portland. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to PSL Strive by visiting www.pslstrive.org/donate.
My deepest sympathies to the Romano family. I had the privilege to work for Nancy at UNUM. Her mentoring always was appreciated and she was well liked by all. My memories with her never leave me. May she R.I.P. and the memory of her sustain those that love her.
Fred, I have fond memories of you and Nancy. Love to all of you.
Cindy Romano Sawyer
To Fred and Family,
My sincere condolences to you all. I wish you comfort and peace.
Nancy, Fred and I met at a dinner as newly discovered branches of the Romano Family. I was delighted to get acquainted with her and Fred along with Rosalie, John, Jim, and Lucretia
“First of all, I must say I didn’t know Nancy. When her story said that she and Alfred welcomed their first child in Rockland, I wondered if her husband was the same Mr. Romano that taught at St. George Junior High School in the 60’s. I’m now 70 years old, have had a full life, and have always remembered the impact certain teachers had on me way back when. Mr. Romano was one of those teachers who always made school fun and even when he came into class exhausted because “the kid” was up all night, he gave his all to us. And when we needed it, he could demand better, especially when we were holding up a huge dictionary over our heads during class! So, this obituary is very bitter sweet in that it brought back very fond memories of seventh grade with Mr. Romano, at a very difficult time for him and his family. Please accept my sincere condolences, and thank you Nancy and Alfred for all you did for a bunch of kids so many years ago in St. George, Maine
Fred and family,
It’s been far too many years since seeing the family. My deepest condolences. Nancy was an amazing lady and a great friend. She was very impactful to my career success at MSB. I have very fond memories from NY Ave
Fred, what can one say other than I’m sorry. I remember Nancy fondly though we hadn’t seen her for years. I will make every effort to see you in the near future. Again, so sorry.
Jon and Carol