James M. Ruterbories

james ruterbories
Falmouth-Jim Ruterbories passed away suddenly on December 7, 2018 at Maine Medical Center. He was 65 years young. He was surrounded by family, friends and colleagues whom he loved in an unconditional way nobody will ever quite understand. Jim was born on August 11, 1953 and was adopted shortly after by Donald and Margery Ruterbories in Denver, Colorado. He grew up in a small suburb of Denver called Wheatridge, alongside his brother Dave. Jim graduated from Jefferson High School on June 6, 1971. Jim completed one year of college at Western State University in Gunnison, Colorado before joining the Army in early 1973. He completed his basic training in Ft. Ord in Marina, California. Shortly after, on July 14, 1973, Jim married the first love of his life, Elizabeth Bruhwiler, making her daughter Amanda his first child. After their marriage, they were stationed at Ft. Sam Houston in Texas, where Jim was trained to be an OR Technician. From here is where his passion for the medical field began. From Texas, they were stationed at Ft. Dix in New Jersey where he first worked as an OR Tech. Then Jim, Elizabeth and Amanda were stationed outside of Stuttgart, Germany where Jim worked as an OR Tech at the 5th General Hospital for two and a half years. While there, his second daughter, Amber was born. When Jim's three year tour of duty was completed, they returned to the United States, to his home state of Colorado. Here, Jim worked with an innovative team of plastic surgeons at St. Anthony's Hospital in Denver. Jim had his own lab, and this team did groundbreaking work re-attaching severed nerves. This is where his master suturing skills were honed. In 1980, Jim et al relocated to Falmouth, Maine. He began working at Mercy Hospital shortly after, and within a few years, found the second love of his life Linda Ruterbories. In November 1993 Jim and Linda were married and they had Jim's third child, his son, Jonathan on May 14, 1996. As a Certified Surgical Assisstant (CSA), Jim worked at Mercy for a short time before eventually joining a new specialty practice group known as Orthopedic Associates (OA). For the better part of 20 years, Jim worked at OA in various roles and became a true staple of the organization and everything it stood for. After his time there, Jim moved with his beloved physician partners, Michael Becker, Peter Guay, Brian McGrory, Don Endrizzi, and George Babikian to help establish a new Joint Replacement Center for Maine Health. For the next 8 years, Jim provided quality medical care to literally thousands of patients and became a legend at Maine Medical Center. He cared so incredibly much about each and every one of his patients and was so loved by all of his friends and colleagues. There will truly never be anyone like him. He will be remembered for his limitless capacity to give of himself and of his knowledge. He was a master diagnostician, and was incredibly wise beyond his years. His intensely intelligent humor will also never be forgotten- his propensity for all forms, appropriate and inappropriate (especially inappropriate) will be carried on by those that knew him best, forever. He is survived by his son, Jonathan, his daughters, Amber and Amanda, his brother, Dave, both loves of his life, Linda and Elizabeth; his son-in-law, Adrian, his granddaughters, Zoe and Stella, his best friend Russ, his "second daughters" Leah and Alanna; his "at work sons," Chad, Donny, Eric, and Brenton; and all of his incredible work family that are too many to name, but meant the world to him. Also to his ill-behaved dog, Murphy; his cat, Serafina, only referred to as "cat;" and so many other countless individuals to whom he meant the world. The world will never be the same without him, and although every single person who knew him would give anything to get one more day with him, we are all so incredibly thankful for the time we did have. Visiting hours celebrating Jim's life will be held on Friday December 14, 2018 from 5:00pm to 7:00pm at the Conroy-Tully Walker South Portland Chapel, 1024 Broadway, South Portland. A Celebration of Life will be held on Saturday December 15, from 12:00pm to 3:00pm at Holiday Inn by the Bay, Spring Street, Portland. A Time of Rememberance will be held at 1:00pm, and parking is available. There will be an interment ceremony in the spring at Highland Memorial Cemetery in South Portland. To view Jim's memorial page, or to share an online condolence, please visit www.ConroyTullyWalker.com In lieu of flowers or cards, his family requests that you instead share with them by social media, text message, mail, in person or other, a story about how Jim touched your life. His memory will live on through the stories that are told, and his family wants to encourage that in any way possible. Those who wish may make contributions in Jim's memory to: Special Olympics of Maine, 125 John Roberts Road, South Portland, ME 04106

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  1. There are years and years of memories. It all started at Lighthouse School in South Portland. Jonathan and my son, Nicholas, were in preschool together and then Kindergarten at Lighthouse and then St. Patrick’s and THEN St. Brigids. They were practically inseparable. Jim would drop Jonathan off at our house in the wee hours of the morning and if I was not up they would look for little rocks to throw at my window to wake me up. LOL… We would either spend the day together (if there was no school) OR I would bring them both to school. Later in the day either Jim or Linda would then come pick Jonathan up from our house. We LOVED having Jonathan at our house (and OH did Jonathan LOVE his noodles…LOL…he even told me I made the BEST noodles). Jonathan would spend the night at our house and Nicholas would spend the night at Jonathan’s house…God Bless Jim as he would drive my son back home at 3:00 a.m. (because Nick couldn’t sleep for whatever reason) and STILL Jim would have a smile on his face. Go figure. Over the years we all created a bond and a profound friendship with love and respect. Every year on MY birthday, Jonathan and Jim would call me and sing the entire “Happy Birthday” song…I cannot tell you how much that meant to me. We would always have a few laughs and it just filled my heart. I will miss that dynamic duo. Jonathan is blessed to have had Jim for his dad and blessed to still have his mom, Linda. They made an AWESOME team. The Ruterbories Family is One in a Million and I am forever blessed to have been (and still) a part of their lives. I will miss your kind, gentle ways, Jim, and that infectious smile of yours. You will most definitely live on in the hearts of so many. Thank you for all you brought to our lives. We love you. You will always hold a very special place in my heart. God Bless you, Jim. Love, Cindy Lou

    – Cindy DiPalma

  2. One great friend. Jim was always supportive of my family. His ability to find lightness and humor in good and hard times was/is very impressive. We had more than our share of shenanigans but he never intentionally hurt anyone. I will miss him always but aspire to stay as positive as he did.

    – Russ Burnett

  3. My condolences to Jims family I worked with him at Mercy i always felt reassured when he was on the case. He was a kind man with an amazing sense of humor He will be missed

    – Pat Wallace

  4. Jim Ruterbories you were truly one of a kind. You left your mark on the world with your skill and your humor. You made us laugh with your wit and your cheerful voice will forever be heard ~ Linda, Jonathan and Amber you have a forever guardian angel

    – Lori Baxter

  5. Jim was a huge wise guy with a sharp wit and an unlimited number of quips! No one could ever win the come back game with Jim! He could wax philosophy or sports or politics in any moment. I’ve never seen anyone quite so dedicated to his friends in the OR. And I don’t think I’ve ever heard quite so many inappropriate jokes either! Rest In Peace Jim, Sue Holloran CRNA, MMC

    – Sue Holloran


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