Patricia Ann Rodney

March 9, 1946 ~ April 18, 2023
Resided in:
Windham, Maine
WINDHAM - Patricia Ann (Shea) Rodney, 77, of Windham, Maine left this world early Tuesday morning, April 18, 2023. After a courageous 4-year battle with cancer that presented with Breast Cancer, she seemed to have beaten it; she felt like she had a new lease on life. Patty continued the fight never once giving up until the end, when SHE didn't give up, her body did.
Patty never lost her faith and believed in the "Power of Prayer'' until the end. We don't know where to start with her life that brought joy, a smile, and happiness to all she came in contact with - family, extended family, and close friends. Patty was the matriarch of the family and a second mother to her 10 siblings, and her niece Stacy whom she raised. Her and her husband, George, cherished their time with the two grandchildren, Erin and Matthew Kelley; she talked about how proud she was of them all the time.
Patty was a relic, and lived a life that is unheard of in today's world. She had one boyfriend who she married and one husband for almost 55 years. She had one job working at the Mercy hospital in Portland for 43 years and continued to care for people as a home health aide after she retired. As a person of strong faith, she served as a Eucharistic minister in her church, St. Hyacinth Church in Westbrook Maine.
Patty loved bowling and bowled with her husband for many years. She enjoyed gatherings and hosted a feast at her home every Thanksgiving for as far back as we can remember. As we lost family members, the crowds got a lot smaller peaking at about 40 people one year, but even the missing were remembered in prayer before dinner, and it's an event that all of us looked forward to. There would be pie (too much pie), and games of bid whisk following dinner. Patty had many shining moments, but Thanksgiving was her favorite Holiday, as she would make sure everyone had plenty to eat and some to take home.
Patty lived a life of giving and was there for anyone from her immediate family to her extended family. She would jump on a plane and go be with those that needed her in times of sickness and personal difficulties. She flew to Colorado to be with her youngest sister, Carol, a 23-year survivor of breast cancer, worked as a caretaker for the elderly, and would make house calls to cut hair for those that couldn't leave their homes.
Patty had a special mother daughter relationship with our Aunt Joanne Catir, the last living relative from the previous generation. Patty would just up and fly to Jacksonville and spend weeks with Joanne; they had a unique bond. She was also loved by her husband George’s large and extended family; they were there to the end caring for her.
Patty leaves behind her husband George Rodney Sr, 76, a son George Rodney Jr. 53, a daughter Stacy Kelley 41, 10 siblings, 7 living and 3 predeceased. Living are brothers William A Shea Jr. 75, Daniel C Shea 73, Stephen M Shea 68, John A Shea 64 and his wife Wilma Shea, Michael F Shea 62, James G Shea 59 and his wife Tracy Shea, a sister Carol L. Dodd (Shea) 57 and her husband John Dodd and grandchildren Erin Kelley and Matthew Kelley. Predeceased are parents William A Shea Sr, 1922-2003, Ruth A Shea (LaCrosse) 1928-2011, 3 sisters Joanne C Marsh (Shea) 1952-1996, Marcielle Jacobs (Shea) 1957-2018, and Marion Shea 1965-2009.
Besides her family Patty left behind a world full of people that loved her. She was never judgmental and only had kind things to say about everyone. We speak for everyone when we say the world just got a little darker, and a lot less appealing without Patty in it. She was a beacon of light that attracted love from all, and though she has left us for a better place, that light will shine until we're all together again.
Visiting Hours celebrating Patty's life will be held at the Conroy-Tully Walker South Portland Chapel, 1024 Broadway, South Portland on Tuesday, April 25 from 4:00-6:30PM with a time of remembrance beginning at 6:30PM. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Wednesday, April 26 at 11AM at St. Hyacinth Church, Brown Street, Westbrook. Interment will follow at Calvary Cemetery, Broadway, South Portland. Following all services, relatives and friends are invited to continue to celebrate Patty's life at the Maine Irish Heritage Center. Additional parking will be available at the Conroy-Tully Walker Funeral Home on State Street.
Patty's time of remembrance and her Funeral Mass will be live streamed at www.facebook.com/conroytullywalker
Those desiring may make memorial contributions to the Northern Light Mercy Hospital Foundation, PO Box 679, Portland, ME 04104 or to Patient Advocate Foundation, Attn: Finance, 421 Butler Farm Road, Hampton, VA 23666
until we meet again
I’m so sorry to hear of her passing, she was a great co-worker.
Caring and always thinking of others before self!
Oh we laughed all the time. I believe we had a very special relationship. I would always fool around with her and she was so light hearted about it.
Driving.
Kim and me sending our ❤️ to the Rodney Family. Thoughts and Prayers.
Patty is my Cousin.
Patty I love you and missed you so much. My heart breaks that we will not have anymore time on Earth together. Can’t wait to be reunited again with you and all our family that your with now!
Church Family and work. Oh bowling…..
Helping others.
When I was a very young shy boy and travelling from Florida to Maine to visit all my Father’s and Mother’s family it was Patty who would chase me around trying to give me a hello kiss. Did I say I was shy….
No quotes but always tell you she loved you.
Love of the Lord, Family and Friends.
All my Love to the Family. May time heal the Heart.
Patty is the light to many on Earth.
Patty simply loved everyone. She helped others and did it out of Love. She had a lot of energy and there is no denying it!!!!
Patty was a Loving wife, mother, cousin and friend.
All the times we were together. As much as you could living in to different States (Maine and Florida).
I don’t ever recall her getting angry. When visiting Florida she never missed Church. SHE LOVED THE LORD AND STILL DOES.
Her Love for all!!!!
Kindness
I loved that she is my Cousin. Very special.
Not sure about possessions. Not sure possessions meant another but I know she liked spending time with her Aunt Joanne Catir in Jacksonville Beach, Florida. I believe Thanksgiving was the Holiday of choice. Always Family and friends around.
There will not be another Patty. The mold was broken when the Lord made her! Very Special individual. To me she is not Patricia. She is Patty. Lord I will miss her. I know you are resting in Peace.
I don’t have anything to add. Everyone knows the Loving person she is.
Funny? Well hopefully no one will get mad at me. Stay off the road when she is driving. With my Love.
Patty is one of a kind. A 100 years from now not much to know other that all of us now will be with her again in Heaven.
Anyway should could. If you asked she would do it if within her powers.
I was shocked to see in today’s paper that Pat has passed away! Somehow I had not heard that she was sick. I have such fond memories of Patty. She was a frequent member of the attendees at our Parish one-day retreats. She always had a smile and kind words to share. Her faith in the Lord was inspiring and we were always thrilled to see that she would be part of our retreat! We willl miss her for sure! I hope that all of you who knew and loved her as family are being blessed by God’s gifts of comfort and peace at this difficult time.
Pat was the life of the party, she loved to have fun and see others have fun and laugh with her. She was a kind sister-in-law.
Dottie her sister-in-law
When I think of Pat I laugh ,when at my husband Paul’s birthday party we all carried a egg on a spoon in our teeth to see who could keep walking without dropping it. She dressed up as dracular at Halloween and ran the bell to scare all of us with fangs. Another time she went to my daughter Maria family Halloween dress up party she came as a baby with a whole piece outfit with a bonnet on head and passafier in her mouth. She looked the part and was fun to watch see others.
Dottie
I worked at Mercy Hospital with Pat for many years. She was wonderful to work with and very compassionate with the patients
Our hearts ache for you and are you with. We will miss your beloved very much.
Please accept our condolences and know that we are thinking of you ♥️
This women was the best nana in the world and was loved by many we will all miss her so much ❤️
I love you so much. She was like a daughter.
Holding her in my arms and rocking her in a hand made cradle.
Her faith, family and friends.
She was beautiful and the light of my life.
She treated everyone with kindness.
That she was a Godly woman and loved going to church.
When Patty visited, before she went out she would always ask if my hair and makeup looked alright. I would always say yes. You look beautiful.
I’m her Aunt. She would come see me almost every year.
Always smiled and had nothing negative to say about anyone.
Patty used my portable potty over my toilet one day. Before she sat down she told me to give her a rag so she could wipe all the sh%$ off. I told her that was rust not sh%$.
I am so sorry for your loss, Patty was a wonderful person, she was caring and compassionate to all those around her. She will be missed and forever remembered. This is not the end, we will see her again in our eternal home in Heaven. Love, her nieces, Lisa, Leanne, Sherry
I am from the Hill but I also worked at Mercy Hospital for years
Pat was a quiet presence. A hard worker who never complained. Workers really enjoyed having her around 🙂
My Sincerest Sympathy for your loss….May your memories hold you in this time of sorrow.
My Sincerest Sympathy for your loss…May your memories hold you in this time of sorrow
I worked with Patricia for many years when I was an LPN at Mercy Hospital.. She was funny, kind, loving to anyone whose path she crossed. I’ll never forget her. Rest in Peace dear Patricia. You made life brighter for so many. X0
Never forget tour loving spirit..Shelley LePage
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My deepest & most sincere condolences to everyone who knew and loved Patty. Such beautiful fond memories growing up with the Shea Family 💗