Susan Murphy Butler

susan butler

July 15, 1950 ~ November 11, 2023


Resided in: Scarborough, Maine

SCARBOROUGH - Susan Murphy Butler, 73, beloved wife, wonderful mother, and sister, passed away peacefully at Pinnacle Health and Rehab on November 11, 2023 with her husband of 52 years, John, by her side. Susan was smart and kind, with a sweet face and a rapier wit. She was born on July 15, 1950, in Portland, the daughter of John R. “Jack” Murphy and Bernice A.(Fontaine) Murphy. Susan grew up in South Portland, and graduated as salutatorian of the Class of 1968 at Cathedral High School. She earned her degree from the University of Southern Maine in 1972. While attending college, Susan met John Butler. One day as she was leaving St. John the Evangelist Church in South Portland, John offered her a ride home. Little did they know, but that day would be the beginning of a lifetime together built on the foundations of faith and love. They married in 1971, at the very same church where they had that chance encounter. Susan began working at the Portland Press Herald in 1968. She was a News Librarian/Archivist/Researcher for nearly 40 years. Susan added sharp insight to any conversation. She cherished her family and was an avid reader. She especially enjoyed British mysteries, both in book form and on PBS. A woman of great intellect, she often emerged victorious in Trivial Pursuit. Susan was a dedicated walker. She covered many miles in her neighborhood, Kettle Cove, Fort Williams, and Bug Light. Susan and John went for many rides in John’s truck listening to The Beatles, The Beach Boys, Willie Nelson and Patsy Cline. Susan was predeceased by her parents and sisters Janet Murphy Elliott and Mary Jo Murphy Howell. She is survived by her beloved husband John B. Butler; daughters, Rebecca and husband David Pfaefflin of Woolwich, NJ, and Rachel and husband Ryan Dean of Gorham. Susan leaves behind her cherished grandchildren, John, James, Lauren, and Henry. She is also survived by her sister, Elizabeth "Beth" Murphy, brother Richard Murphy as well as many beloved nieces, nephews, and extended family. John and his family would like to thank Hospice of Southern Maine and the staff of Pinnacle in South Portland, especially Casey, Keely, Kerri and Annette. Visiting Hours celebrating Susan's life will be held from 3- 6pm on Thursday, November 16, 2023 at the Conroy-Tully Walker South Portland Chapel, 1024 Broadway, South Portland. Prayers will be recited at the funeral home at 10:15am on Friday, November 17, 2023, followed by an 11am Mass of Christian Burial at St. Maximilian Kolbe Church, 150 Black Point Rd., Scarborough. To view Susan's memorial page or to share an online condolence please visit www.ConroyTullyWalker.com. In lieu of flowers, the family kindly requests donations to the Alzheimer’s Association in Susan’s memory.

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  1. John, Rebecca and Rachel,
    I did not know your wife/mother except through Beth, yet I send my condolences to you. Reading of Susan’s life, I can see what a special person she was and I wish I’d met her.
    Your family is being prayed for.

  2. We are sorry for your loss. John, I have not seen you in many years or kept in touch, I can imagine the loss to you and your family of your wife’s passing. I think of a short poem…When a loved one passes on, their spirit never dies.
    and as we journey on alone,
    They’re always by our side.

  3. John and Family

    So very sorry for your loss. John, I haven’t seen you in many years, but I am saddened by the news of your wife’s passing. Keep going, my friend, and stay strong.

  4. So sorry to read about Susan’s death. She and her sister Beth could find any obscure facts I needed in the library long before the paper had computers. She made my work life easier than it would have been, otherwise.


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