Paul E. Spaltro
December 10, 1967 ~ February 27, 2016
South Portland-Paul E. Spaltro, 48, formerly of Linton Street, died Saturday, February 27, 2016, in Westbrook. He was born in Portland on December 10, 1967, a son of James and Mavis D. (Bell) Spaltro. He attended South Portland Schools and graduated from South Portland High School, class of 1988. Paul (Pauly) had a love for the outdoors. He loved hiking, fishing and camping. He had a passion for music and playing the drums. He spent many nights over the years jamming and playing gigs with his band buddies. He was an avid Patriots and Red Sox fan. He loved spending time with family and his pets. Paul loved all animals and would take in any lost or hurt animal, regardless of what kind, and nurse it back to health. His unfailing devotion to all animals was the mark of true grace. He had a big heart, boisterous laugh, and contagious smile. He was a creative soul, talented drummer and an accomplished chef and foodie. In his restaurant days, he was known to have made some pretty amazing ice sculptures. Paul would go above and beyond for his friends or anyone in need. He was loved by many. He will be missed dearly. Paul is predeceased by his parents. He is survived by three sisters, Vikki M. Spaltro of Saco, Frances L. Spaltro of Chicago, and Julie A. Susi and husband Rob of South Portland; two brothers, James Jimmy P. Spaltro and wife Deb of California, and Douglas Dougie E. Spaltro and wife Grace of Texas; many nieces, nephews, great nieces and great nephews; and his beloved dog Greta Bean and cat Calli. Visiting hours will be 4:00 7:00 pm, Friday, at Conroy-Tully Crawford South Portland Chapel, 1024 Broadway, South Portland. A memorial service will be held at 11:00 am, Saturday, at the South Portland Church of the Nazarene, 525 Highland Avenue, South Portland. Burial will be private.To view Pauls memorial page or share an online condolence, please visit www.ctcrawford.com. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to the Animal Refuge League of Greater Portland, P.O. Box 336, Westbrook, ME 04098-0336, online at www.arlgp.org, or by visiting the shelter at 449 Stroudwater Street, Westbrook.
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So very sorry for your loss. My deepest condolences to your family.
– Janet Vivar
Vikki and family, though my memories of Paul are that of a 5 year old running up and down the street between your folk’s house and the Hiltons, please know that I share your grief. When one so young and loved is taken so early it’s impossible to understand or feel anything but the hollow feeling of loss and wonder why. Celebrate the life Paul led, the memories shared, the goodness he shared, and the love that he knew. My deepest condolences to you and yours in these trying times. Randy Cross, Mesa, AZ
– Randy Cross
He will be missed very much So very sorry
– tim brewster
My deepest sympathy to the Spaltro family . I worked with Paul and Mavis for 15 years at the Shearton Inn. I have very fond memories of both Mavis and Paul. Mavis taught me all I needed to know to become a very good waitress and Paul and I spent many days fishing and just hanging out in talking back in the olden days in the 80’s I can not make the service but I wanted to express to the family how many wonderful memories I have of Paul and Mavis. He is at peace now with his mom and dad. I will never forget either one of them.. My heart goes out to you all . I will make a donation to the animal refuge in memory of Paul RIP my friend.. Love you always leisa Briggs
– Leisa Briggs Brooks
This was a hard one, really made me question my faith. Pauly was one of the good ones and it doesn’t make sense why God thinks his work was done on earth. He had a contagious smile and always lit up the room by walking in. He could turn anyone’s bad day into a good one. My thoughts and prayers to his family and abundance of friends, he surely will be missed.
– Tish Pralicz
Pauly, I can’t breathe. My whole world is different. When you were in my life, even when it was bad, I loved you so much I was afraid of losing you. You taught me so much I always felt like you were my strength. Somehow I knew if life went wrong you would find your way to me to hold my hand, and if your life took a wrong turn, I would always find my way to you. I dream of your voice, I hear our talks, and I can still even feel you next to me. I remember what your cheek felt like the last time I hugged you, and I replay that minute over in my head for comfort. I love you so much I am not sure if I will ever be the same without you. I realized tonight that I don’t have to be afraid to lose you anymore, I will be with you again. It just doesn’t feel real. I am so sorry for all of us, but I am happier for you. You are safe now now in the arms of our Father. Squeejay and Nessa boo and the babies love you. I love you.
– Kristie Anderson Collins & Janessa Anderson
My condolences go out to Paulys family. I am really upset because I just got a call tonight asking why I wasn’t there this weekend but, I wasn’t told and I apologize but, I know he’s looking down sayin “no worries” that’s the laid back kinda guy he was. You’ll be missed buddy. See you when I get there and I know you and Sheridan are having a blast again up there. Another Angel watching over me. RIP PAULY….
– Michaela
Dear Jimmy, Doug, Fran, Julie & Vikki,I am so very sorry for your loss. I hope the wonderful memories you shared together and all of the Love expressed here bring comfort to your broken hearts. You are all in my heart and prayers.All my Love
– Mary Dominicus Jenkins
My deepest condolences to your family. May the memories of Paul fill your heart with comfort and joy.
– Kim Dominicus
I am so sorry for your loss. You will greatly be missed. The memories will never die. RIP Paul.
– Laurie lessor Sinnett
Julie and family, I am so sorry for your loss. Thinking of you, Susan
– Susan Chinn
May you rest in Peace Paul. You will be missed by many and loved by all <3
- Darcy Saucier
Sorry for your loss Vikki. He sounded like an amazing person with animals. My thoughts are with you.
– Shirley Orff Buck
I didn’t know him… but Im friends with crystal rose rose… my prayers and thoughts are with you crystal and family now he is watching over you all… he sound like he was a good guy.. love and light
– holly gichel
My heart goes out to all of you. Such a huge loss.
– Madeline (DiMauro)Tomlin
Paul, you will be missed dearly. RIP
– Marie Wogan
Fran, my thoughts and hopes are with you and your family. Pauli sounds like a wonderful soul, whose spirit is much like the sister we all know and love. While I hope your grief eases over time, I wish for you healing in the memories and celebration of your brother’s life.
– Kevin Van Eron
I’m so sorry for your loss. My Prayers for peace and comfort are with all of you!
– Laurie-Ann Colello
Our thoughts and prayers are with your family. So sorry you have to go through this.Hugs and kisses to all
– John and Martha Hebert
Lay at peace , ‘Spauls’ .While you may be cruising along to the next level , you leave behind an amazing collection of fond and crazy memories . . . . memories of a much simpler and meaningful time from our younger days as kids on our little ‘block’ of this Earth . Dang…the recollections of all the craziness that unfolded in that corner of SoPo Lots of football and baseball in the streets , or one of the many empty fields and lots … now long since filled in . The adventures we all had in those woods and cemeteries …racing our bikes , hopping trains , building forts . . . . . AND IF THAT DANG TARZAN SWING COULD TALK . . . wow ! I swear we all kept Budweiser’s stock value up a few points…LMAO ! Marlboro Lights and Zig-Zag whites . . . . . Budweisers , bicycles, bonfires, Buck knives, beer-bongs and BB guns . . . . those were certainly fine years to be a kid , golden years we will never see again outside of our memories . ….and Spauls . . . . say ‘hey’ to Craiggles from all of us .
– Brion Jordan
Pauly, I can’t even imagine our holidays without you! Who will take all our chocolate covered peanut butter balls now? I miss you dearly….I pray you are at peace and with the Lord your savior. I hope you know how much you were loved. I will miss you laugh…your smile…..I will miss you! Love you
– Julie
My deepest condolences to you and your family at this time.
– Diane Williams
Paul always made me laugh in school and he will be missed by many. My prayers are with you and your family. He will be the angel raining down and his spirit shall always be with you.
– Jennifer Fay
So very sorry for your loss. I hope you have wonderful memories to support you now and always. He seems from the description here like a remarkable person. Fran, you are in my thoughts.
– Stephen Granzyk
My condolences to you all, Jim, Fran,Vickie, Julie, and Doug, my prayers and thoughts are with you during this difficult time, RIP Paul play those heavenly drums as loud as you can!
– Thomas Skillings
I am so sorry for your lost.
– Donna Smith
To the Spaltro family and his friends I send you my deepest sympathies. I hope that your fond memories will console you during this difficult time. Paul brought so much joy and love to everyone he met. As Paul would say, Ciao4now. See you on the other side. Rest in peace, dear friend.
– Erin Burns
My heart goes out to my Spaltro family. I am unable to attend the services but please know that I share your grief. You will all be in my thoughts in the coming days and weeks as you cope with this loss. May Paul rest in peace . . . .
– Cathy (Carrier) Hursty
Wishing you peace, comfort & hope during this time of sorrow! My thoughts & prayers are with you all. Rest in Peace Paul.
– Roxanne Carrier Peterson
Thank you so much. I am just reading these now, and to know how many friends have held Paul and us in their thoughts takes my breath away.
– Fran Spaltro
Our deepest condolences to the family. Paul’s family is in our thoughts and prayers.
– Joni Heatley
Our thoughts and prayers are with the Spaltro family.
– Carol and Don Newcomb
Truly one of the real good guys in the world. My mother hired him at Old Port Tavern about roughly a decade ago, and co-workers and myself have reminded ourselves of how much of a genuine good guy Paul was. We talked music, played Queensryche(to the chagrin of my boss, Charlie, who hated metal) and got along real good in a profession like the restaurant that is hard to do with most. On behalf of Lucinda Sterling and myself, we would like to express our sincere gratitude for meeting and getting to know Paul and finding out what most of you probably knew for the longest time. Another good one gone too soon. Be well Paul. -Shawn
– Shawn Sterling
Our heartfelt and most sincere condolences to all of you. May you hold fast to each other and seek and allow comfort from each other and from friends and family. Peace will in time replace the pain. With deepest sympathy,Annie & Faiz
– Annie & Faiz Mohammad
I am so sorry for your loss.
– Amy Wellington
Dear Vikki, Our deepest sympathy and prayers for you and your family. May God Bless all of you during this time. Love GiGi
– GiGi & Andy Coulombe
My sincerest condolences to all of Paul’s family and friends.
– Limington
So sorry to know of your loss – your brother Paul was a great guy and will be missed daily.
– John Carrier
Dear Vikki and Family, Sending my heartfelt condolences during this difficult time. Words can’t say how sorry I am knowing Paul has passed. May he rest in everlasting peace.
– Pattie Meehan-Coyne
My sincere condolences to your family, Fran. Know that our community has your family in our thoughts and hearts. If you ever need a moment to breathe, you know there is a quite place just down the hall for you. Always, Abby
– Abby Wagner
The Spaltro family and Paul’s spirit are in my thoughts and prayers. I will always remember your bright smile and contagious laugh. Rest in peace.
– Stacey Manning
I worked with Paul and Mavis at the Sheraton, so many years ago. He was truly one of the good guys. My heart goes out to his family. Please take good care of Greta Bean and Calli
– Patrick Swett
My deepest condolences to your family. Pauley and I talked over the years about growing up on Brigham St and later about his adult life. May Paul rest in peace.
– Sherri Deroche Hassell