David Jonathan Soule

david soule
SOUTH PORTLAND - David Jonathan Soule, age 62, passed away Monday, May 13, 2013 lovingly surrounded by his family and a legion of friends. Born August 13, 1950, David was a life time resident of South Portland, Maine. At the age of 3, David was injured in an accident that left him with a spinal cord injury challenging him for the remainder of his life; this never discouraged, distracted or slowed him down. His early education at Holy Cross Grammar School in South Portland, Maine created a lifelong love and devotion to his Catholic faith. He was a member of the Holy Cross Parish his entire life and remained involved in its choir, prayer groups, and Christmas fair until his recent illness no longer allowed. David was a 1968 graduate of South Portland High School and after graduating from the University of Southern Maine he began teaching at Holy Cross Grammar School. He was the school's first male teacher and taught the 4th grade. He later taught at Small School in South Portland. David's passion for teaching began to flourish after taking a position at Mahoney Jr. High School and later South Portland High School as a special education teacher. David was passionate about his students. He demanded that they work hard but his advocacy for them was unrelenting. He studied their files, but more importantly, he knew them as young men and women who all had strengths to offer the world. David worked tirelessly, often under far less than ideal circumstances given his own physical challenges. That never slowed him down. However, he made phone calls to parents from home on weekends, informing, counseling and guiding them. Parents respected David; students loved him. Firm but tender, he was available to them in more ways than I can count, supporting each and every one at multiple outside events like sports, drama club or musicals. You name it, David was there, and students noticed. It was his way of letting them know that he valued them, and he truly did. Years later, he could recall names with ease, as they had been imprinted on his mind because they were far more than just a student on his caseload...they were young adults and he was nurturing them every sstep of the way. (friend and former colleague) "David talked about his students as individuals. Instead of detailing academic achievement, he recounted moments of personal growth. Instead of bragging about test scores, David talked of moments, interactions, and situations in which his students shined and developed their sense of identity and morality. (family member/ student teacher)Years after David retired, these challenging students, David fondly called Scallywags, would stop by his home for a visit. Whether just checking in or offering David help around his home and yard, these students never forgot him. During his illness, it was a great comfort to David that these students, now adults and years past graduation, still remembered and cared for him. They sat at his bedside in his final days, reminisced and told him what a wonderful difference he made in their lives, and how thankful they were. Starting in his childhood and regardless of his physical challenges David loved adventure. As a young boy nothing thrilled him more than climbing a tree, exploring for frogs and riding his bike the green hornet. Green was his favorite color and he would often be seen wear various shades. Not unlike the 40 shades of green back in his beloved Ireland. David was very creative and a talented artist working with many different mediums such as wood carving, watercolor and oil paintings, gold leaf stenciling, knitting and sewing. He made a beautiful and elaborate christening gown for his niece Elizabeth that has been worn by all nieces and nephews since. It is a treasured heirloom. As an adult his quest for adventure continued and led him to participate in activities such as Maine handicap skiing, hiking Mount Washington and Bald Face Mountain, and travel; his favorite being his numerous trips exploring Connemara, Ireland, where he passionately researched his family history. David's boundless passion for all things Irish inspired the creation of the Maine Irish Heritage Center and the rescue of St Dominic's church for its home. David chose to see what was possible rather than the perceived obstacles. It is to his credit that St Dom's, built by Portland's Irish immigrants, was saved. A wonderful storyteller, David relished in the history of Ireland and Maine. He also loved telling Irish tales and could never resist telling a good ghost story to the delight of many. David never went anywhere where he didn't make lasting friendships. He naturally drew people to himself. He was always thoughtful and considerate. Every Saturday morning of his adult life you could find him at a local coffee shop or in his own kitchen, surrounded by friends who knew him from grade school, college or his many pursuits, all connected by their fondness of David and enjoying discussions of what events the week before had held for each of them or the world. David had an unquenchable curiosity when it came to his family tree and did extensive research compiling his family's genealogy. He leaves behind a wealth of information, records, and photographs including his quarterly newsletters, The Mulligan Stew, that his family will forever cherish. Family was very important to David and he made every effort to be present in all our lives. He was the favorite uncle of many nieces and nephews always being supportive and loving. He never forgot a birthday, as well celebrating unbirthdays, and loved surprising the young ones with May Day baskets or hunts for leprechauns and pots of gold. He went to games and graduations and always was available to listen. He never judged or scolded. He was always a safe harbor. David, was a devoted son, brother, nephew, uncle and cousin to his large extended family and many dear friends. He is pre-deceased by his mother, Lillian W. Soule and a sister Mary J. Soule. He is survived by his father William P. Soule and his wife Gloria (Dimauro) of South Portland, Me, his brothers; William G Soule and wife Jenny of Fryeburg, Me, Christopher F Soule and wife Erin (Kane) of South Portland , Me and his sister Nancy Soule Druce and husband J. Dix Druce Jr. of Ponte Vedra Beach, FL and Boothbay, Me. He is also survived by his nieces Katherine Soule Derby and Elizabeth H. Smith and his nephews William P Soule II, Michael B. Soule, Reid W. Smith, and Ian M. Soule, grandnieces Shannon Derby, Dylan Derby, and Zoey R. Soule and beloved Aunts Martha Whitmore, Dianne Gooley and Uncle Bruce Gooley. Donations can be made to:Maine Irish Heritage CenterPO Box 7588Portland, Maine 04112 Visiting hours will be held 2 to 4 7 to 9 p.m. Friday, May 17 at the Conroy-Tully Crawford South Portland Chapel, 1024 Broadway, South Portland. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Saturday at 10:00 a.m. at Holy Cross Church, corner of Broadway and Cottage Road, South Portland. Burial will follow in Calvary Cemetery, South Portland.Online condolences may be expressed below.

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  1. I’m extremely saddened by David’s passing away. He was always very kind to me as part of the Holy Cross Choir. One could tell what a wonderful human being he was. I have missed seeing him in the choir and will continue to see the void in that tenor section. God bless you, David. I know you’re in a much better place, James

    – James R. Audibert

  2. My sympathies to Bill, Chris and Nancy. I knew David for years and enjoyed his sense of humor, story-telling and loyalty to his thousands of friends. He was such a kind and sweet man who accomplished a great deal and never stopped learning.

    – Marina Thibeau

  3. we went to usm with david and there was no one as optimistic and friendly as david…we just wish we had not lost touch with this treasure of a person…he will always..forever be remembered and has made the world a better place for sure.. our sympathy to everyone whose lives he has touched….there were soooooooooooo many….with love, rick and sue rand

    – rick and sue rand

  4. David was one of the nicest and most interesting people I’ve ever met. He had so many fascinating stories to tell. He knew every inch of South Portland and loved to talk about local history. He helped me learn more about my Irish roots and took a genuine interest in my family tree. He was generous in every sense of the word. He will be deeply missed. Heartfelt condolences to all who knew and loved him.

    – Adrian Dowling

  5. My sympathies to Chris Family David was a special member of Holy Cross Parish and resident of south portland. He will be greatly missed.

    – Suzanne Radomski

  6. David and I were friends in high school and enjoyed many fun filled art club trips with classmates! We caught up at USM and though I only saw him a couple of times in later years…WE would laugh and share stories of how we both joined the teaching profession and the joy it brought! I will never forget that smile! Both my husband John and I send you our prayers at this time. David was truly a VERY special person. God Bless!

    – Carol Comber Deetjen

  7. I will miss the great conversations by phone, the e-mails and wonderful visits. You were a great friend. I’ll miss you so much.

    – Peg

  8. Dear Bill and family, I am so sorry to hear about David. What a sweet, wonderful man. My thoughts are with you. ~ Mo, Cape Coral, FL

    – Moira O’Regan

  9. David was a kind man and his students and their parents respected him; He helped many and was always happy to do so; I will miss him; To be very proud to have known him;

    – Sharon Bosquette

  10. David was one of the BEST special educators I ever worked with! His understanding, enthusiastic persistence and unfaltering belief that all kids could learn, was a gift to all of his students. I will always remember his great laugh and zest for life.

    – Margaret Anderson

  11. Dear Bill and families – Ruth and I were saddened to learn of the passing of you son David. He certainly was beloved by many folks and especially his students. With the love of his parents and peers he made his mark on society regardless of the hand that he was dealt. It did not matter to to him and I suspect made David more determined to succeed which we all know he did very well. David will always be fondly remembered for what he was by those who came in contact with him. God Bless you all. Most sincerely, Ruth and Tommy Thompson

    – Ruth & Tommy Thompson

  12. In all the years I knew David, I never saw him without a smile. Though I’ve been away from the Portland area for more than 40 years, David reached out and kept me in the loop about the comings and goings of the kids from Holy Cross School. Rest in peace, David.

    – Bill Wiles

  13. My sincere sympathy to all the Soule family. David was a sweet, sweet man. May he rest in peace.

    – Jane Seymour Pearson

  14. I am so sorry to hear of Mr. Soule’s passing. I was so fortunate to have him in the 4th grade at Holy Cross – his first year teaching there and teaching his own brother Chris in the same class! He had a great sense of humor and yet was a no nonsense kind of guy with the scallywags! :). A great teacher for sure! I remember picking up a piece of trash on the classroom floor only to find out I was a winner of $1!!! Imagine my surprise! Mr. Soule put it there to reward the student that cared enough to pick trash up – as a teaching example for the class. How clever!! Thank you, Mr. Soule! You’ve touched many, many lives in a beautiful and memorable way! To Chris Soule and all of his family, I am sorry. Paula Cloutier Adams

    – Paula Cloutier Adams

  15. To Chris, Nancy, Bill and all of David’s extended family: David was a gift to all of us whose lives he touched. He was fun and funny, always with that impish look and manner about him. We, his friends, all loved his stories; we will miss him. The last time Cindy, Margaret, and I visited him at your house, Chris, we had the best time catching up. I will remember that time, and all the other many good times we had with our old friend. Rest in peace, dear sweet David. ~ Allison Cesario Paton, Dunedin, Florida

    – Allison Cesario Paton

  16. Chris, Erin and family, I was saddened to read of David’s passing. I have fond memories of him including our 4th grade 12 days of Christmas performance (when he was my teacher), and the night of the big fire at the house on Churchill St, his scary ghost stories and more. You are all in my thoughts and prayers..

    – Stephanie Peterson-Trynor

  17. I worked with David only for a few months, when I was at SPHS and had my first teaching job. There was no reason for him to reach out with kindness to me, then a long-term sub, but reach out he did. He was down to earth and funny, and his observations on teaching and South Portland proved apt and canny as I moved on in my career. My condolences.

    – Lisa Austin


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