Mariam B. Micki Flitner
November 24, 1923 ~ July 19, 2013
SOUTH PORTLAND - Mariam B. "Micki" Flitner, 89, of Pillsbury Street, died Friday, July 19, 2013, at South Portland Nursing Home, with her loving family at her side. She was born in Boston on November 24, 1923, a daughter of Boynton Sr. and Virginia (Worsham) Merrill. She graduated from Brewster Academy in Wolfeboro, New Hampshire, and Garland Junior College. She married David P. Flitner, whom she met at Brewster Academy, in New York City on November 3, 1944. For many years she was active in hospice care-giving and Reiki treatment. An inveterate spiritual seeker, she was a woman of fine intellect and sensitivity. She and her husband created a home which drew others and made them welcome. She is predeceased by her husband who died in 2004; and her brother, Boynton Merrill Jr. Her sister, Elizabeth Fitzgerald, passed on July 20, 2013. She is survived by a daughter, Virginia DeRoche and her husband Robert of South Portland; a son, David P. "Ted" Flitner and his wife Cara of Wolfeboro, New Hampshire; a brother-in-law, Reverend John Fitzgerald, of Winchester, Virginia; four grandchildren and two great-grandchildren. Visiting hours will be held 2:00 - 4:00 and 6:00 - 8:00 pm, Wednesday, at Conroy-Tully Crawford South Portland Chapel, 1024 Broadway, South Portland. A memorial service will be held 11:00 am, Thursday, at the First Congregational Church UCC, 301 Cottage Road, South Portland. Burial will take place at a later date at Riverside Cemetery, Pittston.Online condolences may be expressed below.







Micki was a helpful friend to us here at Mountain West in Wolfeboro. We were blessed to have known both her, and her husband, Mr. Flitner. Very special neighbors!
– Howie and Charlotte Blaney
I just found out of Micki’s passing. I was fortunate to know Mickie through our mutual spiritual quest. She was such a wise woman, so patient, so understanding, so encouraging. A peaceful soul who radiated that peace and love. I feel privileged to have known her and will remember her in my prayers. So sorry for your loss.
– Judith Morrissette
I am so sorry for your loss. If a man die, shall he live again? Perhaps you, too, wondered about this. Well, the Bible makes the promise: Your dead ones will live…they will rise up And the Bible also says,: the righteous themselves will possess the earth, they will reside forever upon it. So yes, soon you may be reunited with your loved one, possible right here on earth. Please find some comfort from these facts during your time of need.
– Mary Miller
To Virgina and family, I was so sorry of the passing of your mom. I will keep your family in my prayers at this hard time. So sorry. Kristen
– Kristen tully
I wish to express my sympathy to Micki’s family. Micki was and always will be very special to me. We met years ago and worked together with hospice care in Wolfeboro, she opened her home and her heart to me and I loved our times together in deep spiritual conversations, she was the one person to feel comfortable with on my spiritual search. Although I had not seen her for a few years, her spirit has always been with me and I am so grateful to have had her be a big part of my life. She will always remain in my heart.
– Mary McIntosh