Donald S. Doane
November 6, 1931 ~ December 16, 2015
Donald S. Doane, 84, of Scarborough, died Wednesday, December 16, 2015 at the Maine Veterans Home. He was born in Portland on November 6, 1931, a son of Donald R. and Madeline (Spencer) Doane. He graduated from South Portland High School, Class of 1949, and Boston University, Class of 1953. Upon graduation, he was inducted into the U.S. Army where he honed his musical talents with the U.S. Army bands. He then worked in Scarborough, Westbrook, and the Tony Boffa School of Music as a music teacher, as well as stints with nationally known jazz bands. He toured the world with such greats as Maynard Ferguson, Woody Herman, Count Basie, and Duke Ellington. His jazz bands were famous locally, and music by the Don Doane Band was provided for many weddings, graduations, and concerts. He also recorded several albums worth of music. After retiring from teaching in 1987, he spent his summer days on the golf course, and the rest of the year doting on his grand (and great-grand) children, traveling, playing jazz music, and attending his grandchildrens activities. He married his high school sweetheart, Barbara A. Concannon, on July 13, 1953 at Holy Cross Church in South Portland. Don was a dedicated father, grandfather, and great-grandfather. He was well respected in the community as a teacher, musician, and sage. Don survived a severe stroke in 2001, but became a model as he battled this disability and rebounded enough to continue teaching, playing (his beloved trombone), and inspiring others. He continued playing and practicing music up until his death. His musical education began early in life as a member of his fathers band, The Katahdin Mountaineers. Don was noted as one of the greatest jazz trombonists in the world. He is predeceased by his loving wife of sixty-two years, Barbara C. Doane, and his parents Donald R. and Madeline S. Doane. He is survived by a brother, Alfred Doane; four children and their spouses, Donald C. and his wife Susan Doane of Portland, Catherine D. and her husband Erik Knudsen of Falmouth, James O. and his wife Elizabeth Doane of South Portland, and Joseph A. and his wife Pauline Doane of Cape Elizabeth; nine grandchildren, Neils (and wife Christine) and Kurt Knudsen, Lianna (and husband Nicholas DellaTorre) and Alison Doane, Paige and Owen Doane, and Carolyn, Joseph, and Peter Doane; two great-grandchildren, Olivia and Elliot Knudsen; sister-in-law Betty Concannon, and several nieces and nephews. His surviving family would like to thank all Dons caregivers at the Maine Veterans Home in Scarborough for their dedication throughout the past four years. In particular, thank you to Barbara Coty for her care and help with his daily music sessions. Visiting hours will be held on Friday, December 18 from 4-7PM at Conroy-Tully Crawford South Portland Chapel, 1024 Broadway, South Portland. A graveside service will be private. To view Dons memorial page or share an online condolence, please visit www.ctcrawford.com In lieu of flowers, memorial donations can be made in Dons name to Maine Adaptive Sports and Recreation, 8 Sundance Lane, Newry, Maine 04261.
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So sorry to hear of such a loss. Amazing musician, wonderful teacher and a great man. Think of the legacy that lives on with ALL of the students he’s taught over the years. He will be missed.
– Heidi Caton
Mr. Doane was my first music teacher and the one I admired above all others. More importantly than sharing his love of music, his humor, and his knowledge, Mr. Doane taught us by example personal character: “intestinal fortitude,” honesty, and responsibility by expecting the best from us at all times and by reinforcing those qualities only with positive reinforcement. An outstanding educator and person. I am happy to have known him to the extent that I did.
– Barry R. Morse
Jimmy, Cathy and all the rest of Donny’s crew. We were so sorry to hear from John of your Dad’s passing. Remembering Don’s Big Band on the Portland Public Library lawn and the scholarship dinners at the Samoset, the Mainely Jazz Nightclub, the Trombone Choir at the Rusty Scupper, the Portsmouth Press Room with Ralph and other friends from UNH. Musical serenades like Happy Birthday to our 3-year old and to Marguerite on her 75th at the Betsy Ross House. What fine memories of a wonderful man full of music. Rest in Peace May his memory warm your hearts for many years to come.
– Tom Doane and Sarah
Your Dad was a wonderful man. I’m sure that’s no secret to you. Years ago I worked at an advertising agency in Portland. Every year we had a holiday party, and the Don Doane Trio would be our musical entertainment. I looked forward to seeing him every year. What a joy he was to all who knew him.
– Anne Coyne Foster
We were so sorry to hear of your Dad’s passing. He was a wonderful and talented man. We hope that all of your memories of him will help you through this difficult time. Our thoughts are with you.
– Robyn And Mike Pinette
Don played a crucial part in my furthering my musical knowledge in the jazz idiom. He did this by encouraging me to sit in at the Bridgeway session in S. Portland. Gerry Wright, Paul Jensen, Joe LaFlamme, Ralph Norris and his brother Al Doane were the core band at The Bridgeway sessions at that time. I had such an education just listening to them play renditions of many classic standards and some original tunes, many arranged by Don and by some of the other musicians. Then, when I sat in, it was nerve-wracking at first, but I quickly realized how at-ease Don made me, and the other musicians sitting in, feel. He was funny, an amazing trombonist, bandleader and warm human being. A few times, we played two-guitar renditions of swing tunes like “Caldonia” and the ballad “Sleepwalk.” RIP, Don. And, thank you for all you gave to me, and so many others.
– Rob Babson
I had the thrill of seeing Don perform around the Portland area several times. And the privilege of him playing at my wedding along with his brother, Muriel Havenstein, Rusty, Leila Percy and others. What a professional! And what a great guy – had a nice chat with him during a band break. If there were more Don Doane’s in this world, it would be a much better place. Rest in peace Don.
– Dave Burke
Don was one of my heroes from an early age growing in Windham. A real Legend guarding Bob Cousy while playing B-Ball for BU, and touring with those great big bands. In the 60s, very proud to invite to play at my fraternity house. What a great guy!
– Bob & Beth Branson
I worked at the Sheraton in South Portland in the 1980’s, when the Don Doane band was the house band. They drew a huge crowd. Don was unfailingly kind and inclusive, besides being an amazing musician. We all loved him. I heard from several Sheraton employees last night about his death. After over 25 years, we all remember him fondly. What a guy!!
– Laura Goodspeed Feder
Cathy, Just received my Downeast magazine and read where your Dad passed away in December. I read the obituary which told me you and Erik were still in Falmouth and that your children were grown, married and you were grandparents. I’m very sorry for your loss of you Dad and Mother, but thrilled to read about your family. Karin lives here in Naples, FL. and I do also. Kristin lives in Colorado. WE all have such fond memories of you, they have told how you were their favorite babysitter. Downeast magazine keeps me connected to Maine. WE actually spent the month of August 2014 in Wolf’s Neck, Freeport.
– Linnea Goddard Fleishour
We are so sorry to hear of Donnie’s passing.We send our heartfelt sympathy and love to all of his family. I still laugh at his humor when I saw him at the Veteran’s home.
– Bill and Mary Doane
My deepest sympathies to Don’s family & friends.My dad, Jack, was fortunate to make a friend like Don at the Maine Veterans Home in Scarborough. The last few years of sharing meals and stories made life more interesting.It’s the end of that era and they will both be missed by me. Don was kind enough to give me his CD and my favorite swing is “Doane’s Bones “. His music lives on.
– Linda Hayworth Brenner
TO THE DOANNE FAMILY.SORRY TO HEAR OF DON,S PASSING AWAY.HE WILL BE MISSED BY MANY.I WILL NEVER FORGET THE GREAT TIMES I HAD GOING ON THE PRINCE AFUNDY WITH HIS BAND.MY PRAYERS ARE WITH HIM.MAY HE REST IN PEACE.
– Jack McCarthy
Dear Doane family,Thank you for sharing your incredible dad with us. I have so much respect, admiration and gratitude for your mom and dad. I’m so grateful I got to visit with Don often last summer. We even jammed! I am sorry I cannot be there with you – please accept my sincere condolences and prayers for your hearts.
– Gil Donatelli
Dear Doane Family: I am sorry to hear of your loss, one that is felt by hundreds, if not thousands of us, who also loved and admired him. Don was one of the first people to hear me sing when I first moved to Maine; from that day forward we had the greatest respect for each other, musically, and personally. For example, while I was going to graduate school, Don, Al, and Mary Sedar generously honored me by being my guests at the university, to play and sing for a presentation I was doing on the power of music, and how it creates meaning in everyday life. Don, who championed education in its many forms, became a true hero to me that day, along with his multi-talented, musical sidekicks. Anytime, all the time, Don was a true blue troubadour who, like Johnny Appleseed, spread the goodness of music and friendship freely, wherever he went. God bless you, Don and family. You’re in my heart and prayers. Sincerely and with hope, Sherrie (Phair)
– Sherrie Phair
Al ,so sorry to hear about brother Don.He was always a joy to be around. His next gig is with the angels
– Ron Caselden
Mr. Doane was a wonderful friend to my dad, Ed Connolly. They shared many great times on the golf course. He was an amazing teacher and inspired so many future musicians. He will be sadly missed.
– Jennifer Connolly
My deepest sympathies in your loss. He was an inspirational husband, father, grandfather, brother and uncle. Remember to always celebrate his joy in life and love. His picture in this posting truly shows his zest and and recognition of the humor in life.Love Always,Francine Kilgore
– Francine Kilgore
RIP from guitarist Steve Blum
– Stephen Blum
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– Hank Dempsey
Alison and Lianna, I just heard of your grandfathers passing. Please know that I am thinking of the two of you and I know this must be an extremely difficult time for you. If there is anything I can do please don’t hesitate to ask. I realize that there is nothing I can say to make your pain lessen but I just want to let you know that I love you both and miss seeing your your smiling faces. Stay close- Diane
– Diane Romano
Though I never had a class with Mr. Doane, he was instrumental in my short career playing trombone in the days where women did not traditionally play the instrument. He was very supportive and frequently came to visit me before every competition to encourage me and boost my confidence. He went above and beyond for students and I held him in the highest regard. My condolences for all of his family and friends. We have lost a great man. RIP
– Deborah Wilson WHS Class of 1976
Don was my hero as a kid, right after my Dad. Always kind to me and encouraging in my trombone pursuits. A tremendous asset to Scarborough when he was there.
– Brian Concannon
We are so sorry to hear about your Dad. Heard him play several times. He was truly wonderful. Please accept our deepest sympathy.
– Peter and Ann Noble
So sad to hear of Donnie’s passing. He was such an inspiration to all of his extended family. I was privileged to have known him and consider him a friend even though only related through marriage. Shirley admired Don so, and he always seemed to delight in her presence. Losing Barbara earlier this year makes this a very hard year for all the family to endure. My heart goes out to all of you and my prayers are with you. Play that trombone proudly for the angels, Don.
– Tom Tanguay
Al, Jimmy, Paige, Owen, Allison, Peter and the entire Doane family,Words fail me. Don was such an amazing soul, and one of my favorite people ever. You are all in my thoughts and prayers,Nancy McKenney
– Nancy McKenney
Don Doane, famed musician, great teacher and proud father was my treasured friend. We spent many times talking (boasting) about our kids, sports and school events. His great attitude when I visited him at the vet’s home was inspirational. He was a wonderful person and will be sorely missed. God Bless him and his family
– Dick Getchell
My thoughts and prayers are with your entire family.
– Carolyn McKenzie
Don, You were a dominant player and personable trombonist. I like the double bell you created that I saw on a video at Tommy Gallant’s wake. RIP and join all the great players who have the best GIG of all.
– John Leite
Peace, to all the family and friends of Don. He will be missed. Genuine, and kind….
– Cathleen Niedhammer
We knew Don as “Papa” or “Doanie”: a golfing buddy, musical mentor and devoted volunteer. We first met Don out at Gorham Country Club in the late ’80s, where he and Pat, both late comers to golf, would see each other out on the practice range where Don brought the same discipline to golf practice that he’d used in his musical life. Patsy, also a late blooming golfer and amateur musician became a friend and musical admirer, attending performances of Don’s Super Senior Sextet. Whenever we connected with Don he’d always ask about Patsy’s music, and encourage her interest in jazz. Years later, Don and his brother Al volunteered to bring the “Doane Family (and Friends)” to play (gratis) at our annual fundraiser golf tournament for the Leavitt’s Mill Free Health Center. For the past decade, the Doane Family (Al, Don, Jimmy, Owen, Paige and sometimes Tom Hughes) have graciously provided a lively jazzy performance at the “19th hole” for the tournament, adding a touch of class and even inspiring Pat and Patsy to get out on the dance floor! We are thankful for Don being a part of our lives…we’ll miss him.Pat and Patsy Leavitt
– Pat and Patsy Leavitt
Jimmy, my condolences on the passing of your father. You are in my prayers.
– Chuck Bruce
So Sorry to hear about the loss of your dad Kathy. Know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. Sincerely Gina Donatelle Kelley
– Gina Donatelle Kelley
It was about 20 years ago when I was invited by my High School Band teacher Mr. Terry White to attend a concert by Mr. Donald Doane at the Saco River Grange Hall. I left the concert with a dream to work hard so that someday I will be as talented as Mr. Doane. He is and will forever be a legacy to me.
– Marc R. Heskett – United States Navy Band
Dear Family, I played trombone with Don’s band years ago when John was away. It was a great highlight of my music life. He was a great gentleman and musician. The band reflected the joy and energy he had. Last summer, after moving back to Maine, I had a lovely visit with him. We talked about the old days as well as his current life. I was so glad to be able to thank him for his music and life. May grace fill your souls and loving happy memories comfort your hearts during this time. Most Sincerely, Mary Upton Davis
– Mary Davis
I will miss visiting with you in Scarborough. The stories were always a hoot. Your influence has been felt far and wide and I expect that it will continue. Memories of your inspiration will never fade. You are a national treasure.
– John Foss
We wish to express our condolences to Don’s younger brother Al Doane, a member of the Maine Country Music Hall of Fame, and Don’s Family for this great loss to them all. He was a wonderful man and an extraordinary musician and will be missed by all who knew him. Slim Andrews, Chairman, Induction Committee, Maine Country Music Hall of Fame.
– Maine Country Music Hall of Fame & Museum—Slim Andrews
RIP my good friend Donnie. I enjoyed all our conversations back in the old Love, Inc. Days and it was great seeing you at the Music Alumni Reunion at Westbrook High 2 years ago. You touched many lives with your musical wisdom…education and talent…thanks for making the world a better place of all of us. God Bless and hope you can find my Mom up there…and jam with her…she’d love that! Marc
– Marc P. Mailhot
I have so many fond memories of Mr. and Mrs. Doan when they lived in Falmouth Foreside (I’m a cousin of the Lawson family that lived on Old Mill Road). His music was alive and well in our household growing up! Saw the band many times with my Mom when they performed in Deering Oaks. My favorite as an 8 or 9 year old? Why “Satin Doll” of course! Thank you, Mr. Doan for always being so great with us “neighborhood kids” and touching all of our lives with your beautiful music!
– Paula Cloutier Adams
My dad was a member of Dons band back in the 60’s when they recorded “On The Rocks”. I remember some of the jam sessions they had! Don also helped my wife obtain a copy of the album as a gift for me. Such a nice man and great musician!
– Scott Breton
Our hearts and prayers go out to your family. The loss of someone dear to us is never easy. May fond memories of your Dad bring you comfort during this difficult time in your life. Look back on all of the good memories you were able to have and smile at the fact that you were able to share these before he passed.
– Rick and Karen Greenlaw
My deepest condolences to Cathy and her family. Don was a friend, an advisor, and an inspiration. He generously encouraged and supported musicians of all genres and was a role model for life. The world has lost a one-of-a kind artist-gentleman.
– Steve Romanoff
Don was a teacher at Westbrook High when I was a student. I will never forget what a wonderful mentor he was. The world of music has been blessed by his talent and his life.
– Mary Kowalczyk Libby
My thoughts and prayers to the Doane family!
– John Anthony, WHS ’79’
Mr. Doane, I will never forget everything you had taught me. All the nights I went to watch you play at the Sheraton and Valle’s restaurant with Mary Cedar. You were an inspiration to me and taught me so much! You will be truly missed .
– Melissa (Donahue) Swett
A legend in his own time. Talented beyond my comprehension as a “kid in the neighborhood”. You have written a wonderful history of a truly talented man. But most of all, what I remember was his generous heart. He always made time for kids, engaging and encouraging, fun and full of the devil. Laughing was always part of the joy of spending time with your Dad. I’ll never forget the day he coaxed our Mom onto water skis, down in Old Mussel Cove. Now Mom (Gloria) had never been on any type of ski, but your Dad had a way of making anything look enticing. Well he got her all set, sitting on the dock and then we heard those two words that always meant a great ride was in store “hit it” !!! Well, Mom took off….underwater that is!!! Three or four tries later, she actually made it up . That was the beauty of your Dad, he inspired people to achieve the impossible. An amazing attribute. While he is no longer with you, the memories and love he shared with you and your family of friends will keep his spirit alive forever. My thoughts are with each of you….liz
– Liz Lawson-Gill San Jose California
Mr. Doane, You made such a difference in my life. Thank you so much!
– Cindy Merrifield-Pelletier
Rest in peace, Don. You have been a leader on Earth and I am sure you will be conducting the Heavenly Orchestra as well. Thank you for you spreading your love of music to all the students in the Westbrook school system over the years.
– Judi Hilton, WHS retired
I have many fond memories of Don when I worked at Eastern Musical many years ago. He was a very funny guy and always went out of his way to make me laugh. Deepest condolences to his family.
– Paryse Thibodeau
We were all saddened by Donnie’s passing and are thinking of all of you. Listening to the adventures of the Doane cousins was always a staple in our family. Although we are spread all over the country; we are still a family. Thoughts and prayers to Alfred, Don, Cathy, Jimmy, Joseph, and their families.
– Deborah(York) Dyer
I remember as a child that Don was a Nice, sweet, always smiling teacher at the one room school house at Pine Point. As an adult, I still enjoyed his wonderful talent. a lovely man!
– Cheryl Carson , Pine Point
Don’s influence on the Maine music scene is extraordinary, as musician, mentor, teacher, and example of how to be a good person. His legacy is incalculable. Rest in peace.
– Chuck Romanoff