M. Anita Richard Card Daley

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WESTBROOK - M. Anita Richard Card Daley, 95, of South Portland, formerly of Westbrook, died Monday, December 10, 2012 at Gosnell Hospice House in Scarborough from complications due to a fall in August. "Humbly magnificent champion of the universe" is how she was described by a son. She was born in Rogersville, New Brunswick, Canada a daughter of John W. and Marie J. McCaie Richard on September 22, 1917. She moved to Maine when she was four speaking no English. Anita was a 1935 graduate of St. Joseph's Academy in Portland. Following high school she worked for Horn, Blower and Weeks a division of the New York Stock Exchange. She later worked for Dr. Sidney Branson of Windham. On September 4, 1954 she Married Harry Card, he predeceased her on July 15, 1962. On June 20, 1964 she married Henry Armand Daley in Westbrook. She was a communicant of St. Mary's Church of Westbrook for many years. Anita was a very active person, who was always ready to go, whether it was to a grandchild's sporting event or a weekend trip to Alaska. She was a longtime member of the Gorham Country Club, Ladies Golf League, where she served as secretary. She also enjoyed bowling and was a league member for several years. Anita loved to dance, she and Armand spent many evenings dancing to Don Doane at Valle's. She also enjoyed line dancing twice a week up until she was 93 years old. She competed in the Beach to Beacon Race for several years, winning the Johnny Kelly award for the oldest finisher, for those years. A news story was done about her family having four generations participate in the annual race. In addition to her first husband, Anita was predeceased by a sister Norma Provencher on January 29, 2012. Survivors include her husband Henry A. Daley of Scarborough, a daughter, Lyndell C. Lavigne and her husband Mark of South Portland; a son, Richard H. Card of Levant; a step-daughter, Patricia Driscoll and her husband Robert of Greene; three step-sons, Patrick Daley and his partner Linda of Saco, Jeffrey Daley and his wife Mary Ann of Cumberland, Maryland, William Daley and his wife Maria of Santa Clarita, CA; a sister, Jeanette Theresa Payne of Florida; a brother Eugene Richard and his wife Grace of Rochester, NH; 16 Grandchildren and 30 great grandchildren; several nieces and nephews, two sisters in law Rhoda Leroux and Kay Shannon both of Westbrook. Visitation will be held 2 to 4 6 to 8 p.m. Wednesday at Conroy-Tully Crawford South Portland Chapel, 1024 Broadway, South Portland. Prayers will be recited at 9:15 a.m. Thursday followed by a 10:00 a.m. Mass of Christian Burial at St. Maximilian Kolbe Church, 150 Black Point Road, Scarborough. Burial will follow in Brooklawn Memorial Park, Congress Street, Portland. Those desiring may make donations to: The Center for Grieving Children, 555 Forest Avenue, Portland, Maine, 04101.Online condolences may be expressed below.

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  1. My parents, Tom and Rita Caufield, were good friends of Neet’s my mother was Lyndell’s Godmother. When she inherited the Daley kids, I knew her as Patty and Pat’s second mother and marveled at her ability to do so much, for so many, so well. Remembering her for the delightful, petite lady with the rich soul that she was.

    – Janice Caufield Ryder

  2. I’m so sorry to read of your loss. Please be assured of God’s promise that one day we will see our loved ones again happy and healthy, John 5:28, 29 says, all those in the memorial tombs will hear his voice and come out. I pray this promise along with loving memories of Mrs. Daley fill your heart with comfort and peace.

    – Damon Williams

  3. Anita great memere was such strong, giving woman. She fought to the end and she will definitely be missed. Our love, prayers and thoughts are with all of you.

    – Rich and Susan Phillips

  4. Auntie Neet. I’ll never forget all the times we spent together when we were younger. What great memories. Your pork pie at Christmas was something I always looked forward to. As we got older and had families of our own we saw each other less often. Just know you are loved and I will never forget the memories. Say Hi to mom. I miss you both.

    – Diane Diaco

  5. My sincere condolences to the Daley family. What a wonderful women Anita was and what a roll she played in the lives of you four and your dad. Taking on that responsibility, on top of what she already had, speaks volumes of the kind of person she was. You all were truly blessed. May God bless you and give you comfort.

    – Dave Martin

  6. I grew up across the street from the Daley family in Westbrook. What fun we had!! How wonderful that Anita lived such a full life and was loved by many. My heart is with the family as they grieve.

    – Jeanne Lebel Niemiec

  7. Pat and Patty, I just read about your stepmother and what a special woman…to be so active and run in the Beach to Beacon race and all the other ways she participated fully in life! What a legacy. Praying for your family during this time.

    – Cynthia Farrington Cameron

  8. Hi Mom, Hows Heaven? You were the best Stepmom I could of ask for. Being Moms Maid of Honor,,WOW.For years you took care of a family of eight and didn’t complain once. You never complained about anyting. I think thats what I loved about you most. I remember you letting me stay at home for a while hile life got in my way. You charged me 15 dollars a week rent. Shame on you.LOL I was in the hospital getting ready to be operated on for my inflamed appendix, and you and Dad came to see me. It was few months after I left the house. You handed me an envelope with money in it. It was the money I had been giving you for rent. What class. You will always be with me in Spirit. At times like this I MUST remember my Life verse. James1:1,2,and 3. Consider it all joy my bretheren while going through various trials knowing that the testing of your faith produces endurance. Mom? I will miss you, but I am JOYFUL knowing you are not suffering anymore and that you are with the Lord. Love you and see you soon.

    – Bill Daley

  9. Dear Mom, How can I thank you enough for caring for me and helping me become the woman I am today? As a mother of two, you took on four more children. Your hands were never idle. You did the washing, the cooking, the cleaning, the shopping, along with just raising us and keeping us safe…a hardworking, intelligent, creative, nurturing, small bundle of energy who loved life and fought so bravely to the end. I will thank you and love you forever. Love, Patricia

    – Patricia Daley Driscoll

  10. Dear Lyn, Thinking of you and your family at this sad time. My Mother and Father asked me to send you their thoughts as well.

    – Linda Jaques

  11. I never had the oppurtunity to meet this fine lady, but I have heard many wonderful stories about her. I am sure she will be miss by many. I am very sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

    – Twila Hoyt

  12. Grammie did so much, and endured so much in her long life. I hope to have at least half of the inner strength that she always witnessed. We miss you!

    – Brooke


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